Living in the past, living in the future, how to live in the present

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The past always occupies our brains in a way that it can never change again, and there is no way we can ignore its existence! Deliberately forgetting, but make it more arrogant everywhere So handing over time is the best way for us to treat the past, so that our nostalgia for the past gradually becomes a nostalgia! Then you will find that you are not living in the past, but more calmly facing the past!

    The joys, sorrows, and sorrows of the past will become the most beautiful memorial at this moment The future always beckons us to go to him in its most beautiful way, but there are many doubts and speculations about it! Perhaps it's because there are so many uncertainties that we become more and more curious about what it really is, and it naturally gives us a subjective color. In fact, if you calm down and think about it, no matter what the future holds, sooner or later it will come.

    And what it is, we can't be accurate ** and fantasizing only now that we are not blinded by its way, so it is the most real and reliable! Only by grasping the bits and pieces of the present, every minute and every second, can we truly appreciate the growth and excitement brought to us by the mistakes of life

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's all a change of mindset, that is, a change in one's own thinking. For example, you have to think about it, don't worry about what happened in the past, and don't worry about what will happen tomorrow and so on. Live in the moment, live in this moment, and you are new in the next second.

    I hope you can come out of depression.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want to live in the present, you must live in reality and have the courage to face reality and dare to take responsibility! Don't dwell on the good things of the past, look to the bright future. Work hard to create your own life with your hands and don't give yourself an empty chance!

    I can definitely live in the present

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <>Always focus too much on the futureIt seems that you are sacrificing for the future today, and everything you do today is planning for the future, preparing for the future, and planning for the futureSo your present has always been ignored by you, and then your focus will always be on that future.

    What is the future? What never comes is called the futureReally, really, really, is the present and is now. And then you are sacrificing the real now, the real life, the real 1 minute and 1 secondI'm planning for the ethereal future that will never come.

    I really like a line from Kung Fu Panda: ".Yesterday's has passed, tomorrow's has not yet come, and the only thing we can grasp is today. "

    One time I ran on my ownI set myself a running goal, and today I must run five kilometers. So, I kept looking at the mileage numbers on my watch for the whole time I was running, and there were still three kilometers, and two kilometers leftThe more you go to the back, the more anxious you feel, how is there still two kilometers, how is there such a long distance from this five kilometers? Although I finally reached the finish line, there was only one thing that lingered in my mind during the whole process, and that was to hurry up and get to the finish line

    I would love to see this successful outcome.

    Another time, I didn't look at the odometer at allI just focus on my every leg lift, I feel my heartbeat, my breathing, I even look at the scenery I encounter on the side of the road, see the billboards, and say hello to my friends passing by. This time, I also ran five kilometers, but I was not as nervous and uncomfortable as before。This shows that I'm not interested in running, but in the results.

    Personally, I was very hesitant and inherently inked, and then I can't make up my mind about anything, and then let me focus on the future, let me think hard, it's not appropriate. Do everything that comes to mind immediately, look at the present, and train your own execution is the best.

    So a lot of times, I feel like we're really putting the cart before the horse。People should live in the present moment and enjoy the here and nowCherish whatever is in the moment and then do it wellSeriously, attentively treat this matter in the hands of the person in front of you,This moment in the moment, this moment in life。Then the future is the time that continues from every present, and he will not be wrong.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    <>I think weLive in the present and live in the future!

    I've heard a lot: live in the moment and don't make whimsical judgments; I also believe a lot: you have to live in the future in order to meet a better self!

    If you want to conquer the anxiety in life, live in the moment, live in every breath.

    In the face of the empty past and unknown future, instead of escaping in confusion, it is better to pay attention to every moment of the present. Even if a person's life is meaningless. We also need to use our own hands to create meaning for this meaningless life.

    After all, life is short for a few decades. It will pass away in a flash, and it will not be reversed again.

    The sun is quietly sinking in the west, and the stars and the moon are slowly rising in the east, as if to remind us that time is still flying. As if it was heralding the final end. Therefore, please seize the present, seize the years and times that are about to go away.

    When we live in the moment, we can be truly free。"Life is the search for ideals; Time is the elaboration of life. Perhaps it is time to seek the fulcrum of reason in the debate between life and time: life shines in the continuation of time, and time shines in the wisdom of life; Green cups and red sleeves are old at the end of the day, don't live up to it, Shaohua is just right!

    The day does not know that the midnight is confused, he lives in the future, ignoring the eternal dusk.

    A person's life is just over 20,000 days. More than 20,000 days passed away in your days and nights. Maybe people will say that more than 20,000 may be just a blink of an eye.

    People often think of the past, the happiness of the past, the happiness of the past, the sadness of the past, and the pain of the past. People always like to live in the past. But that was a time gone, one of the thousands of days you had gone.

    We shouldn't be living in the past. The future, like the past, seems to be bleak. Along the way, every day and night has never left a deep memory on me.

    In that case, why don't we look to the future? The future is unpredictable, and human beings cannot predict it, so they can only create their own future. Many people say that the world is fair and that God has given everyone an equal chance.

    In reality, however, the world is not fair.

    The first class cabin of the plane is always the best, and the service that VIP customers receive is always the best, yes, that's right. The world is not fair. The harder you work, the more special you are.

    Believe in yourself, don't live in the past anymore, look at the road ahead of you is still long, don't you really want to try again?

    And as for living in the present, or in the future? I recommend combining the two! Use the perspective of the future to guide your present self! Make every step you take more determined and more steadfast!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Lin Qingxuan said that when we live in the moment, we can cut off the sorrows of the past and the fears of the future, and when we cut off the sorrows of the past and the fears of the future, we can get true freedom.

    Therefore, I also feel that I should live in the moment.

    "Don't sigh for the years ahead, you must face up to the time you are rushing into. "When we are only blindly worried about what the future will be, and never turn it into an opportunity to hold a pen in the present, when we always fantasize about the picture of the future, and do not squander ink in the present, we can only waste in vain and miss the opportunity to write us again and again.

    What will happen in the future, no one will know, but living in the present will definitely find the direction of the future, I think life must be as you like, can not be bound by some things, the test paper will not teach you how to live, the language book will not teach you how to live, those chicken soup like copywriting, are other people's summary of life has nothing to do with you, you don't taste other people's chicken soup to understand your own life, so what is the difference between you and a puppet? Advice is like the salt of life, but most of the time it's not sprinkled in the soup, it's on your scars.

    The unknown of the future is exciting and frightening, and there are many possibilities for the picture scroll that has not yet been taken, we can have some fantasies, but we must not indulge in the water and moon in the mirror that has not yet happened. Cao Yuan, a rising star on the road of scientific research, published his new academic research in Nature, which caused ripples and also pointed out the direction of future scientific research. His spirit of forging ahead on the road of scientific research, cherishing the present time and working hard is exactly what we should emulate.

    The future can not be grasped, only the present can only be painted and painted, why let your current youth be wasted, and sigh for the past inaction in the future?

    No matter how gluttonous time consumes everything, we must strive for our future while this breath remains. Delayed, the coming days are numbered, we have already taken over the current picture scroll, whether to grasp the present writing, or waste and regret, all under the ink of you and me.

    You see, you and I can't stop the coldness of time, and we are bound by the certainty of time, but I can choose to cherish the present and build a better future.

    Live in the moment and live up to your youth.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel that at different times, there are different requirements for facing this issue.

    When I was a student, I focused more on living in the future. At this time, we are still just a student, we still need to rely on our parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation, most ordinary students do not have enough money and materials to meet their own life needs, and during this period, our students should also pay more attention to the value of their spiritual field, learn more skills, enrich themselves, and make their future life more exciting.

    I think at this time, it is not enough to learn in life, this life is not enough, money and material life in the present, but, the spirit lives in the present, we have to use this short four years to appreciate and experience more of the areas that we have not been exposed to, which is beneficial to us. If it were me, I would start saving money from this period, representing only personal opinions.

    In youth, you must live in the future as well as in the present. Living in the future, we have to plan for our middle-aged time, only with enough capital, we also have the ability to say that we live in the present, but for most people, we are just ordinary families, we are adults, we can no longer rely on our parents, no money, anytime, anywhere, open your mouth to ask your parents to ask for it, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, we need to use money, if we just live in the moment, we will live very easily, but the next day will blame ourselves for why all the money is spent. But youth is one of the few bright and dazzling periods in our lives, we must also have the courage to live in the present, happy times are fleeting, we must eat everything we want to eat, wear all the clothes we want to wear, and experience all the experiences we want to experience, taking advantage of the fact that we are still young and have the strength.

    So during this period, we need to learn to use money wisely.

    In middle age, old age, of course, we just have to live in the moment and be an old naughty boy. By this time, the epidemic must be over, and I want to travel around the world, to experience the delicious food and fun of every country, and to see the most beautiful scenery of every country.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone should live in the present, not in the future, because living in the present can make people realize the problem and realize how they will develop in the future.

    At the same time, you must also set your own goals, and list your goals from small to large, so that you can have a space for growth.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, it is to live in the present, the present is real, the future is imaginary, virtual, and has not yet happened, only by living the present well, the future will be better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is never an absolute answer, and mature people never do things in black and white. If you absolutely live in the present and ignore the future, then your future will not have a "now", and you will completely enjoy the present life without leaving any room for the future, and the future will never come again. If you absolutely live in the future and don't enjoy the present, then what you do now will not have any future, and any effort you make will be meaningless.

    So don't be absolute, we have to live in the present and work hard for the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether the future is unpredictable, it is more realistic to live in the present, solve problems when there are problems, take every step well, and at least you will not regret it in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The present and the future are two scales with long intervals on the same space-time coordinate system, time never stops, and one day the present will reach the future, and the future will become the present. For mankind, trillions of years of evolution is a future from the ancient present to the modern one.

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