Everyone gossips together, and no one else looks at me, feeling like I m ignoring existence

Updated on psychology 2024-06-29
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    That should be your own relationship, right? In general, small talk is based on who speaks. You can also try to talk, but don't say anything that silences others, otherwise the atmosphere will ......If you're a bit of an introvert, but you have a good personality and get along well with your friends, it doesn't matter.

    Don't be too tough and squeeze yourself into a scene that doesn't suit you, after all, sometimes it's normal for you to be uninterested in other people's small talk.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm often like that, it's not that I don't talk much about topics that I'm interested in, so when others talk about similar topics, they will automatically classify you as such"We can't talk about it"That's the kind of thing. So naturally I won't look at you. Small talk is meant to be more talking, and if you don't say it, no one will pay attention to your existence

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    At that time, I recommend being in a daze - the so-called daze, in fact, is not so scary, it is just to focus on your own world. It's good to think about something that interests you and ignore the existence of the people around you as well. Of course, I admit that sometimes I feel a little lonely, but once you are really immersed in your own world, the spiritual world is still extremely beautiful

    Well, good luck don't worry sometimes, in short, just don't force yourself to be happy :)

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can say, "Well, as soon as you talk about this, I think of something else."

    Then the topic forked, haha.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The casserole has been broken, so what good is it to turn back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't break up when you break up, you should be an ordinary friend, you don't have to do anything deliberately, just look at each other and smile when you meet, it's no big deal, she is not your lover but after all, she has been together, don't make a fuss, your lover is still on the road, I hope to meet as soon as possible, so I want to open a little.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you have chosen to separate, let's live our own lives Don't disturb her feelings Let's go this Maybe the next one will be better!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's already....Why not be generous....Bless her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let it go, no matter how much you pester her, you won't be able to come back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You care too much about what others think of you, in fact, you don't have to worry too much, how to say that you are always suspicious that others are looking at you, in fact, no, you think that you are just a grain of sand in the desert, who will care who you are, if you are a piece of gold in the desert, it will be different, there will be a lot of eyes!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Me too. But I don't think you care about other people's eyes, take it easy, be yourself, don't you still have the same table? Be more positive and optimistic in your heart, put loneliness on learning, and those who love to learn and learn well need to experience loneliness.

    It's like you can't go to work with your husband and wife in the future, and you still say that you are afraid of being alone and lonely! Don't run away from it, face it seriously.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm like this, I'm afraid of being lonely, I'm not confident, I don't even have the courage to confess to the person I like and tell me who it is, but you have to slowly let go of yourself, get in touch with the outside world, and feel that others are not what you imagined.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's nothing, I'm afraid of being lonely, I'm afraid of being lonely, my friends and I will feel like this again, don't you think that if you're alone, you will seem to have no friends, so you want someone to accompany you, you can do whatever you want, accept yourself like this, live in your own way, as long as you feel happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Slowly change the boy, the road is still long, don't panic.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Big heart, accommodate the things of the world; humble heart, love the goodness of the world; Calm their hearts and talk about the things of the world; Set their hearts and respond to the changes in the world. The heart is slightly moving, but the love is far away. Things are not, people are not, everything is wrong, and the past cannot be traced. Only when the prosperity is gone, can the veins of life be clearly discerned.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're famous, and another neighborhood aunt is chatting after dinner.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    People have their own personalities and characteristics, some people are naturally extroverted, and some people are introverts. This is actually not a big disadvantage, after all, you don't need to please everyone, and the people who care about you don't need your deliberate pandering, sometimes deliberate is uncomfortable. God gives introverts more time to think, introverts are more likely to find their own shortcomings and improve, really can't blend into the crowd to enrich their hearts, read a good book, watch a movie, write words to enrich and improve their hearts, instead of wasting all your time on things you can't do well.

    But this does not mean that you have to abandon socialization, what you have to do is to shift away from the unsatisfactory socialization, sometimes too much care is tied up, and learn to face it naturally. It takes two years to learn to speak, but the rest of the time to learn to shut up. (It seems to be a famous quote and forgot the source...)

    Don't worry too much, there are many others waiting for you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Introverts are better suited to do technology. For example, Einstein, Newton, Faraday. Their presence changes the world. You just haven't met anyone who appreciates you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Psychological factors, first talk to your relatives and talk to your friends.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Introversion is a person's personality, it is not easy to change, and if you slowly cultivate your hobbies, you will get better, such as playing ball, sports, singing, etc.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Always keep smiling, whether you understand what they're talking about or not.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People are mutual, how you treat others, how others will treat you.

    First of all, you have to change your mentality, be enthusiastic, proactive, sincere and generous, so that they will treat you sincerely.

    Hope you're happy.

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