Dad comes back late every day, what might he do? Note: Mom and Dad are not in harmony

Updated on society 2024-06-29
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's okay, they still have you! I don't do anything impulsive, I was like you for a while, my parents were not good at that time, and later I learned that my father was busy every day to earn money. I'm about to cry, now our family is fine, and to tell you the truth, my family's financial situation was very bad at that time.

    Mom was upset, and Dad came back late. You're a kid, don't think about it. People who drink a lot of alcohol just have a smell of alcohol in their bodies, think about it, Dad shouldn't be drunk, right?

    Dad doesn't care about Mom, you can just tell him, it's up to you! Preferably with tears. Dad will be very distressed when he sees it.

    Also, don't watch too many TV series and talk nonsense, what are you asking.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's okay, I understand very well, because my parents don't have a good relationship and often quarrel, but they always treat me very well, although they sometimes scold me, but they still try to give me everything, and you are the same, they raised you until now, they are still cultivating you despite their hard work! So don't think about it, just be yourself!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is possible to be overstressed or deliberately avoid your mother, so communicate more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Escape put. Maybe nothing. Don't worry. Okay.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1 Little 3 2 Don't see your mother 3 Bar 4 Eat 5 Spend time with some people who don't know each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can follow your dad and see what he's doing, and if he's in trouble, you can help him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Whether the relationship is good or not is their business!

    Either way, you're both the children of the two of them, and that can't be changed by anyone! * They will always love you; You also have to remember to love them all the time and not take sides!

    Happy to you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why did Dad insist on getting a divorce? There is no need for a mother to be bitter for a man who doesn't love her, you also have to think about your parents, are they happy now? There is a kind of love called letting go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's better to have a good talk with your father, after all, you are his child, explain the pros and cons to your father, and tell your father that you don't want that result to happen Come on Believe in you, as long as you work hard and pass this hurdle, your family will be more harmonious Bless you

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you should talk to that woman, I don't think your dad and that woman actually want a divorce in their hearts!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should talk to your dad about whether it is worth it to cause the tragedy of 2 families for the sake of your own desires.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should talk to that woman.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's normal, simply and generously invite your girlfriend to have dinner with your parents, isn't the conversation very pleasant?

    No matter what kind of relationship it is, as long as it is with the consent of your parents, it is acceptable, and besides, you are always unwilling to always have a relationship, and I believe that your girlfriend is also unwilling to have a love that has no result all the time.

    Give yourself confidence, and at the same time, you must solve the problem with your parents sensibly, sooner or later, why not explain and solve it in advance in front of your parents?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After all, it is your father, breaking his arm and tendons, you have the obligation to repay the father who gave birth to you and raised you. People have mistakes and bad habits. This requires your tolerance and understanding.

    Find an opportunity, call your mother, quarrel a few side dishes, talk to your dad, and pour a little wine for your dad, your dad will be very moved. Get rid of old habits and have a happy family. You tell me?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's nothing, life is a lot unsatisfactory, just have a drink and chat, you may also encounter your father's unhappiness at that time after you get married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Care more about your dad, and at the same time talk and chat more. If you don't have words, try to find something to say. It will increase the feelings.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Take the initiative to talk to your father, after all, it is a family, and your father loves you too. Find a chance to go on a trip together as a family and soothe the atmosphere!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Didn't you notice that your father and teacher got into a fight after drinking, bought him a present for his birthday, and gave him a hug, and said I was wrong, please forgive me

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I haven't beaten my dad I'm in the same situation as you, at least on me I can't figure it out, my dad and I are both dead people who don't admit their mistakes.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Apologize to your father once, and tell him to get along well with your mother in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You don't have to deliberately resolve it, and if you feel awkward during dinner, talk to your mother.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your age should be puberty, Dad is actually admitting his mistake by taking the initiative to talk to you, whether you are a boy or a girl, you should take the initiative to talk to Dad, and then it is up to you to persuade Dad to drink less!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let's talk about the heart, lack of communication, find a time to communicate with the two of you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hey, I guess there are psychological shadows.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Persuasion and what tangled words, I think you yourself understand these concise and clear truths. And I think you are even wondering why you still have difficulty controlling what you know what to do and what you should do, this kind of powerless helplessness is very uncomfortable. From the landlord's question, it can be seen that the landlord's father is indeed the husband in charge, but we, as children, should not be too suspicious of the problem that they can solve by themselves, of course, it does not mean that it is not to stand by and watch, which means not to take your father's words too seriously when he is drunk.

    Responsibility itself is the embodiment of feelings Life is a long road that cannot be guessed I hope that the landlord will not write too extreme conclusions about life too early The powerlessness of the parents' feelings is not their fault And take good care of themselves Let the parents see that they are not pressured on these things is the real let the parents relax and accompany them more For a long time, these things that can not be let go of the things they naturally understand Although the mother's thoughts are difficult to laugh at But the weak let the father understand that this is more of an inseparable please I think my father will solve his own problems, after all, the happiness of the family cannot be exchanged for a career Your father believes that he has always understood this truth, but he has not yet practiced it. I hope that the landlord will look at these problems patiently and don't miss the overall situation and the future because of the temporary powerlessness of things. Whether life is like this or that or something is just the result of the state of mind I hope the landlord can understand.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The landlord can ask questions for his family, and he is a filial son!

    Life is not like this, this is just a few people, my parents also have this kind of contradiction, maybe one party is too tired for the career, one side is too comfortable, both sides should be considerate of each other, this kind of problem can not be solved.

    You sometimes let your parents communicate, communication is the last word, to put it bluntly, only communication can solve the problem.

    You can find an opportunity for the two of them to sit down and have a good talk, and you can be a peacemaker.

    After all, your parents have been here for most of their lives.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't know if the landlord has ever heard a sentence, incapable men say that women are realistic, and women who are not attractive only say that men are attentive, I advise the landlord not to be so entangled, the body is important, and the parents' things can enlighten your mother from the other side, instead of thinking about how to look at your father every day, it is better to let your mother accept more new things, preferably something related to your father, your father said that he has no feelings for your mother, because he feels that he has grievances, or that your mother does not trust him, If your mother can accept the change, so that your father has a refreshing feeling, then everything will be solved, how to do it must be the landlord so filial piety must be able to think of, I hope your family is harmonious

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Seeing your question reminds me of my aunt and uncle. When the two of them first got married, they were poor and white, and then the business became bigger and bigger, and my aunt always suspected that her husband had a woman outside, and it may be that the man had a different level of money, and he felt that he had no feelings for my aunt, but he frankly told my cousin that it was because my aunt accompanied him through the poorest trough, so he would not divorce my aunt. On the contrary, it is better, and now after two years, my aunt is living a very fulfilling life, often going to the gym and shopping with me.

    My aunt said that she is like this now, what do people still toss when they are old. As long as you have a company. I don't know if that's right, but the vast majority of middle-aged women think so.

    Forced by the pressure of life, but also because their husbands do not give a sense of security while pursuing a material life in society. If the two people have different levels of life, there will be a gap between them. Your mother isn't actually wrong, she's just scared.

    The feelings of your parents are not something that our younger generations can control, and you can persuade your mother that if she can't lose your father, then she needs to relax and be happier.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When this happens, or there is a lack of communication, you can try to get along with the three of you for a while, and then your parents live together, the key is communication, and the family should communicate equally together, especially if your dad wants a lot, you have to do a good job of the middle bond, so that your mom understands the nature of your dad's work.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    To tell you the truth, I respect you for your filial piety.

    In fact, as the son of your parents, you play an important role in mediating, communicate with your father more, show that he is your idol, and express the importance of this family to you, and privately persuade your mother, don't be too suspicious, you have to believe in your husband...Finally, may your parents be reconciled soon....

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Parents' affairs, do what children can do, they have lived most of their lives, they must have more experience in dealing with things than you, you have to trust them, your intervention may lead to complications. What your parents give you, you just accept it, filial piety is filial piety, but you can't control many things from your parents.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Landlord, don't you know that the elderly are going to have menopause? This is a symptom of menopause!! Menopause is generally a strange temperament!

    It's different from usual! So you have to be reconciled! Under normal circumstances, they are separated for a period of time, and then they will be raised to reason when the anger is gone!

    There is such a filial son as you! They'll consider your feelings!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I always believe that love will be transformed into family affection in the end, although I am only twenty-three years old now, persuade your father, after all, he is so old, it's time to take a break, and when he is really idle, things will be resolved, I think your father did nothing, what he said after drinking is all heart, this is what he thinks when he is tired and sleepy, you can let your mother learn some religion, maybe those will help her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now the society is changing, people are also changing, it doesn't mean that children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, now middle-aged people have more contact, a wider way, let it be, love will eventually be together. Come on, don't bother with it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    That's an elder, you should be filial. Or do your best to let you touch and enjoy life...

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I thought that the worst way to do it was for me to go to the woman's man, to be the stepmother of the woman's child, and to let the woman's child call my father grandpa.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Either way, they're more parents.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    My family used to be the same as yours, and if you want them to work together, I think you have to find a way to make them work together, and the longer the conflict, the longer they have to work together.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Communicate well with my mother, the more she is like this, the more she will push her father out, and when the time comes, my father will be farther and farther away from this home. I usually communicate well with my father, and it is not easy to form a family, so that my father must know how to cherish it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This touches the bottom line of your parents' hearts Let them deal with it themselves You have to find a way to let your younger brother and sister not be affected by negative rights, these problems are not something you can solve, you are not a child, you should have been in love, although love and marriage are not the same thing, but there are many things, but if there is a glimmer of hope to live no one will choose to break up and divorce. Just because there is no love between your parents does not mean that you are not loved. As a big one, you should find a way not to negatively affect them, rather than solving this kind of problem that is not something that outsiders can solve.

    According to you, this is not a misunderstanding, it is a fact that has already happened. No matter how it ends Love your parents, whether they are together or not, don't affect your opinion of them, your parents are the same as us There will be a breakup when you fall in love, marriage and divorce, you can't have to put too many hats on your parents. Let them figure it out on their own.

    Take care of your younger siblings.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You can talk about the past and influence them.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you live without feelings, how can you live, persuade them to leave.

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