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Maybe after becoming a parent, the tears have become lower, or maybe as a mother, you can better understand the mother's mood when you get married.
Marriage is a great joy in life, which is a very happy thing for the man, but a very complicated thing for the woman. The daughter who worked hard to raise will marry into someone else's family from now on. From then on, she couldn't participate too much in the second half of her life.
The heart of being a parent at this moment must be heavy.
In Zhengzhou, Henan Province, the ** of a daughter's marriage was spread to the Internet. **, before the daughter got married, she took pictures with her parents. And when he turned his head and glanced at his mother, his mother couldn't control it, tears flowed, and finally he even collapsed on the sofa, and his mood couldn't be calm for a long time.
And the daughter also kept wiping her mother's tears with tears, this scene touched many netizens and made the people present unable to hold back tears.
I've also seen a **. My daughter got married, and until she got in the wedding car, she had been controlling her emotions. But when the car started slowly, and then saw the reluctant eyes of the parents, the tears could not be controlled.
It's the kind of scene that every girl goes through. I can't help but think back to the day I got married. My parents hid in their room and didn't come out.
I think their mood at that time must be the same as the mood of this mother in Zhengzhou, Henan, with great reluctance.
As a girl, there will always be a day when you will leave your parents. But I want to tell every girl. It's not easy to find someone to fall in love with.
But as you decide to spend the rest of your life with him, be sure to think about your parents. Try not to marry far away, how sad the daughter who marries far away is only known to those who have experienced it. Not only can I not see my parents a few times a year, but once I have something on my mind, I have nowhere to tell it, so I can only communicate with my relatives through **.
The ancients had a saying that when your parents are here, you don't travel far. But I think for girls, their parents are not far from marrying.
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I feel very sad to see this scene, but I feel very happy, although my mother is particularly reluctant to give up her daughter, but I believe that my mother must be very happy in your heart.
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It's very sad, it's very strong, and everyone goes through something like this.
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When I saw this scene, I was really sad, very moved, and very sympathetic to this mother, because every mother will experience such moments.
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Recently, there was a scene where a mother was reluctant to let her daughter get married, and she collapsed on the sofa and cried, which made people feel very uncomfortable.
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Preface: When a woman in Zhengzhou got married, her mother sat directly on the sofa and cried, while the bridesmaids next to her had been comforting the mother. claimed that the child was not particularly far from married, as long as the mother wanted to smile and accompany her daughter back to the house for dinner, the daughter would be able to return home quickly.
Because this woman took a group photo with her mother when she got married, after the eyes of the two people met, her mother couldn't hold back her emotions. began to cry, and the mother would be very reluctant when she saw her daughter getting married. <>
On the day of the girl's marriage, you can imagine the sadness in the hearts of the girl's parents, which no one can understand. When a woman is not married, most parents will also hope that their daughter can find a marriage partner as soon as possible, and when they get married, the father and mother can realize that their daughter has grown up and needs to go to someone else's house to live. When I took a commemorative photo with my daughter, I couldn't help but sneak a look at my daughter, and I couldn't bear to feel sad.
For this mother, she should realize that her daughter is not particularly far away, and she can call her daughter to her home if she misses her. <>
Because most mothers will be emotionally sad when they marry their daughters, they are relatives of each other before they get married, but they become relatives after they get married. The feeling is also completely different, especially after getting married, you will feel that the relationship between mother and daughter is not as close as before. When people with daughters saw this scene, they all said that when their daughters got married, they didn't know what kind of mood to deal with.
For mothers, they should realize that the wedding day is also a big joy for their daughter, and there is no need to cry and cry. You can bless your daughter in different languages and find your own happiness, and every parent wants to see their children happy. When her daughter returns to the door in three days, she can return to her own home, and the mother's sadness is only for a while, and when her daughter returns to the door, the relationship with her daughter will still be the same as before.
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The mother is very reluctant to marry her daughter, because when her daughter is married, she will become someone else's wife.
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Very reluctant. The process of raising my daughter is very difficult, but now that I want to marry my daughter, I will not be able to see my daughter every day in the future, and I will feel very uncomfortable when I think of this.
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I feel that my mother is really reluctant to say anything to her daughter, and my mother is more sad when she gets married, because she is raising her with great difficulty, and her daughter has to go to someone else's house to live permanently.
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When the daughter got married, although the family was very happy, they were also very reluctant to have children. How do you take Lianghui to look at the fact that a mother in Henan was reluctant to marry her daughter and cried on the sofa? I think there are roughly the following reasons.
I can understand the mother's approach, this is a girl who has been with her since she was a child, but now she wants to marry a wife, become someone else's wife, and begin to feel that life is not easy, and her mother is naturally very reluctant. If you don't have your own home to live in someone else's house, your daughter may face some grievances in the future. Mothers are very sad at the thought of this, and most parents cry with joy when their children get married.
It's a good thing to get married, it's better than not being able to get married all the time. Children always have to grow up, and parents can't be a haven for their children forever, so this mother has to look a little opener, as long as it takes a long time, she will slowly get used to it. As long as it is not a distant marriage, everything is almost the same as the original, and there can be one more son-in-law to honor himself, and the parents should look away a little.
1. I can understand what the mother did.
This is a girl who has been by her side since she was a child, but now she wants to marry a wife and become someone else's wife, and she begins to feel that life is not easy, and her mother is naturally very reluctant.
2. If you don't have your own home to live in someone else's house, your daughter may face some grievances in the future.
Mothers are very sad at the thought of this, and most parents cry with joy when their children get married. It's a good thing to get married, it's better than not being able to get married all the time.
3. Children always have to grow up.
Parents can't be a haven for their children forever, so this mother has to look at the key to lose a little, as long as it takes a long time, she will slowly get used to it. As long as it is not a distant marriage, everything is almost the same as the original, and there can be one more son-in-law to honor himself, and the parents should look away a little.
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As a girl, I am also worried about what kind of mood my parents will be on the day I get married, and I think I will be very reluctant to my parents, and my parents are also very reluctant to me. A mother in Henan did not choose her daughter to marry, paralyzed on the sofa and cried, she took care of the girl who grew up wholeheartedly, and she was about to go home, go to someone else's house, and become someone else's family, as a mother, she was very reluctant!
Mother and daughter have a deep relationship
Many times, daughters are very sensible daughters, in the process of growing up, did not let the parents have too much heart, but very reassuring parents, the daughter is the little padded jacket of the parents, from the fall to the ground to elementary school, and then to go to college, then to become someone else's family. When the child is young, there are more parents around, and when they grow up, there are fewer and fewer, everyone's parents are not around, or even very far away from their parents, and the son can also be with his parents in the future, but the daughter has to become someone else's family, as a parent who knows quickly, it is difficult to accept this fact.
I'm afraid that my daughter will suffer and be tired
Parents know very well that the daughter who is married will suffer a lot, and she will see the face of her in-law in the mother-in-law's house, and if the son-in-law does not love her daughter, the daughter will suffer more in the process. Getting married and starting a family is almost because this girl has become a woman since then, they have to start worrying about the affairs of the family, no longer carefree like when they were young, and their parents are also from the past, so they have seen through the life after marriage. Parents are worried that after their daughter gets married, she will not be happy in other people's homes, and they dare not tell their families about their suffering.
grew up by herself, and she was reluctant to let her daughter suffer, but she was about to give her hand to someone else, and after becoming someone else's family, she began to play the role of someone else's daughter-in-law. It is said that the daughter who marries out is like pouring imitation code out of the water, no matter what, after becoming someone else's daughter-in-law, the daughter who returns to the house again has no worries before getting married!
Parents have been worried about their children all their lives! Think about what we have done for our parents since we were young, and why should they use their lives to pave the way for our lives!
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It can be seen that this mother is really reluctant to let her daughter leave, so she will show such a gesture on this day, which may be maternal love.
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I think this thing is very normal, many mothers will cry when they marry their daughters, they are reluctant to give up their daughters.
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I think this is talking about acorns, mothers will be reluctant to see their daughters get married, and they will cry sadly like birds, thinking that the daughter they raised will go to someone else's house and become someone else's bride, which is a very reluctant thing.
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Special understanding. It can also be seen that her mother really cares about her daughter very much, and I also understand this person's feelings, and she must be very disappointed.
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I understand my mother's behavior very well, because every mother is reluctant to let her daughter marry far away, and she is worried that her daughter's life will not be good in the future.
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I don't have to close my skin to understand the old lady's sedan behavior, the woman who has been raised for so many years is married, and she must be reluctant to accompany her parents, the love of parents for their children is very far-reaching, and the happiness of her daughter is the most concerned thing for her mother.
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It is a very understanding of the grip of the limbs, I think the family of the spring skin slippery daughter will have such a feeling, the daughter who was raised by himself with great difficulty, will leave himself to live again in the future, it is inevitable that she will be sad.
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The daughter is also the meat that fell from the mother's body, and how deep the mother-daughter relationship is, only at the moment when the daughter gets married, can it be fully reflected。When a woman in Zhengzhou got married, during the process of taking a photo with her mother, after the two sides looked at each other, her mother couldn't hold back her emotions and cried sadly. Seeing her mother in such a scene, the bride was also very uncomfortable, and finally the makeup artist and bridesmaids joined the team to comfort her mother.
After the daughter gets married, it means that she becomes the daughter-in-law of someone else's family, that is to say, a member of someone else's family. In fact, these are all traditional concepts, and for us now, there is no such statement. The daughter will always be his own, and no one can take it away, and no one can change the fact.
On the day of her daughter's wedding, the saddest people are, of course, her parents. Especially the mother, knowing that becoming a daughter-in-law of someone else's family, if you want to become a mother-in-law, you need to go through a lot of hardships and hardships。Mother's tears have three meanings.
One of them is the joy of their daughter's marriage, and the daughter has finally found her own happiness, which is a thing worth being happy and celebrating.
Second, when he thought of his daughter who had been raised with hard work, he would have to separate from himself and marry into someone else's family. In the future, I can't hear my daughter's laughter and quarrel with myself every day in the room like before. I will also feel sad in my heart, revealing my reluctance to my daughter.
Third, from a daughter to a daughter-in-law and wife, such an identity change means that the daughter has less love but more responsibility. As a daughter-in-law, she needs to serve the elderly in the man's family, and her daily life will be much harder. As a wife, it is a difficult and long road to take care of your lover and raise the children they have together.
When every daughter gets married, there will be a scene of relying on others. Even though they knew in their hearts that they would be home again after a few days. It's just that by the time my daughter came back again, her identity had changed, and she couldn't stay at home for a long time.
There are a lot of only children in my hometown, and many only children get married, so they don't pay attention to marriage, but choose the way where both parties live. When raising children, they will also raise two, one with their father's surname and one with their mother's surname.
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For the mother, the daughter will definitely feel very reluctant to get married, and she will feel uncomfortable for a while, she will worry that he will be bullied when she arrives at her in-law's house, and she will feel unaccustomed to it when she arrives at her in-law's house.
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