What am I going to do? What I want is to get married and have children, and what he wants is to love

Updated on society 2024-06-05
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It doesn't matter what others say. Do unhappy marriages work? There are also things that do not cost 10 yuan for divorce.

    And. He is still immature and not old enough to get married. Let's love it first.

    Don't mess with him. What men are most afraid of is the annoyance of women. Did you know?

    To love him doesn't have to be trapped in him, you have to understand that.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I want to get married at such a young age.

    You still have a long way to go, and you can be sure that he is the best fit for you.

    There's a phrase you remember.

    There is a lot of love in a person's life, and at the age of marriage, it is marriage.

    The road is so long that you will forget about him, and you will like another person, as much as you like him now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Two little kids, hey, people now

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He's right, he's still too young, he's still curious about things, and there's no guarantee that it will turn out in the future.

    This is eighteen years old, and your age is too early to get married.

    Eighteen or twenty is the age to feel youth and love, and you don't have to think too much about anything else.

    Since you love it, you can love it well, no one can guarantee that in the future, what you can do now is to cherish it when you are together, no matter whether it is divided or united in the end, at least there are no regrets.

    Don't let your youth be spent in worry and trouble.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Little sister, you are still too young, take your time, especially boys, the age of the heart is younger than girls, this takes time, you are so young, he definitely doesn't want to get married, and when the time is ripe in another 10 years, I am a girl, I am 28, but I have only just begun to think about marriage, such a young age, when you reach our age, boys will be willing to get married, think about the future first.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not wrong to love someone, and that person loves you too. The deeper you love, no matter how big the difficulty is, you don't care what others say or what you think, because this is your own business, and others are just other people's thoughts. You can be together, your personalities are different, isn't it good, you can complement each other, the outside is introverted, and the heart is impatient and calm.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Wait, it's going to be two or three years before you decide to get married, because you're still too young, you're only in your 20s, and I think it's too early to talk about that

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Listen to me: You two, it's too early to get married and have children. Let me put it this way, even if you agree that you will get married in three years and have a baby in five years, you still don't know if you will be willing to do it at that time.

    People become very fast, especially people like you who have "experienced a lot of feelings". Don't tell me that you've experienced a lot and finally met one or something like that, I'm 38 this year, enough to be your uncle, I've seen too much, and people fall in love a lot, so there's nothing to cherish. Especially if you're two years older than him.

    You can talk about this for another year or two.

    I know it's useless to say it, what about you, just print mine out and put it away. I'll look at it again in a year, and I'll see if what I said has come true.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you really want to love, just keep going with him, but nothing good will come of it, I think your friend is right, after all, the bystanders are clear, if you don't want to do that, just separate. Long pain is not as good as short pain, maybe it will be painful for a while, but in the future you will still meet a better person, he is only 18 uncertain, I don't know what responsibility is, even if he is good to you, it may not be a lifetime, and I really love you, how can I not want to get married? Men will see responsibility as a kind of happiness rather than a burden to avoid it.

    You don't want to leave her because you really love him, women want to have a home in the end, he can't give you Why are you insisting. Hope you figure it out.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're still young. There will be a lot of people I will meet in the future.

    It's too early for him to decide.

    You still need to know more.

    Marriage should be thought over.

    I wish you happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Divorce is an option. This shows that your husband has no love for you, this kind of love can't go on, and this kind of marriage can't be maintained.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should change your mind, don't take love so seriously, and just get by.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should have a good talk with your husband, and change this way of getting along, and at the same time, you should also reflect your own value and become an independent woman.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I've been married to my husband and had children for many years, but I haven't been able to feel his love for me, what should I do? Let me share my views and practices with Lu Min!

    The first one, who has been married for many years, has never felt his love for himself, maybe just the other half, not good at expressing it, because the company for many years is in the unspoken.

    In fact, does a person love himself? It's not that you have to say it to love yourself, some people turn love into action and silently guard their side. Married for many years, he has never felt his love for himself, it may be just his other half, he is not good at expressing his emotions, but the companionship of many years is vividly reflected in self-evident.

    How can two people not love if they have children, if they don't love themselves, why should they run this family together, it's just that he is not good at how to express it, at this time you can guide him and let him express this love.

    The second, after many years of marriage, the days have been too dull, and at this time the children have grown up, and the two of them can go to the movies, date, etc., and rediscover the sense of happiness and love when they are in love.

    Married for many years, under the polishing of life, the edges and corners have been smoothed, and the days are too dull, so I will feel that the other party does not love me so much, but companionship is the most affectionate confession, and the two people are still by each other's side, which is actually a kind of love. So it's been many years, the child has grown up, and the two of them can put down the things in their hands, relax, go to a movie, go back to the place where they met when they were young, go on a date again, re-find the heartbeat when they are in love, find the freshness and love when they are in love, and let themselves return to the feeling of being young, the feeling of a deer bumping around, and find the beautiful appearance of love.

    I have always been with each other to stand by each other's side, in fact, they all love each other deeply, maybe they are just not good at expressing it, at this time you can be brave to express your love, go back to date, go to the place you experienced when you were young and revisit, feel the beauty of love, and find the feeling of happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are some feelings that cannot be felt. But you can get married. And got married and had children. That's love. Love is intangible. You take your time and feel it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Fewer couples and old companions, couples start with love and sex, and slowly turn into family affection.

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