The child s husband, is it a small family? Why are you with your parents? ，

The child's husband is a small family of three to form a family, belonging to a small family, a family with parents is a big family, this big family includes their own brothers and sisters, and this big family is a big family composed of various small families, so if there is a small family, there will be everyone.

People's manufacturers. A small family is a small family with their lovers and their own children, and everyone will be familiar with adults and related relatives. This perception is. This has been formed from ancient times to the present day. Habits and simulations make the difference between a small family and everyone.

It's just a name. Or husband? If it's everyone. It is impossible to be Xiaojia with your parents. Parents are the original family! Later, I married my daughter-in-law and children, and of course everyone went back to my parents' house.

Because a family of three is the smallest family unit, there is nothing smaller below. It's a family of three, and it's part of the elders' big family, or even part of a big family. That's why there is a saying that everyone is small.

In the past, the brothers were not separated, and everyone ate in the same pot, which was called a big family, and the family after the separation was called a small family. Now it is basically three generations living together in a large family, and a husband and wife with a child is called a small family.

Your family of three is a small family because it does not include parents and siblings. A large family refers to a large population, and when brothers and sisters are married and get together, it is a large family population.

A family is a group of two or more families living together. A small family is a small family where the husband and wife and their children live together.

What I said upstairs is that if the small family is good, there will be everyone, and the small family is gone, so what's the use of everyone being good. In addition, the small family will become everyone in the future, if because of everyone, the small family will be scattered, is it worth it? It also depends on your ability to run a small family, the way and method of dealing with the problems between the family and everyone, and the sincerity of your partner.

If the other half thinks about his own big family, does not consider the interests and circumstances of the small family, and does not consider any of your feelings, this marriage may be difficult to maintain.

Think about where you came from Who gave you everything before you became self-reliant Who cultivated your outlook on life and values since you were a child I think everyone comes first I know you love your wife and children Please handle the relationship between the two families This is a real man.

It's always the overall situation, everyone is the most important. The key is to look at what the specific problem is, the overall situation, in different things, the meaning may be different, and the members may be different, but as a rational and mature man, we must distinguish who the overall situation is, that is, to distinguish the main contradiction and the secondary contradiction, and distinguish the main and secondary aspects of the contradiction.

I think my wife and children are the most important.

If the small family is good, there will be a good everyone. The small family is over, what's the use of everyone being good1

I understand your feelings, my daughter-in-law is the same as you, but no matter how busy we are, we have to visit our parents over there, because my husband is the same, and I have to take care of four old people after many years, which is really hard, but I am all parents, I feel the same pro, every year during the New Year, I will drive with my wife to spend the New Year with my parents, so lively, hee-hee.

Without your parents, would you have the small family you have now? Don't forget to drink water and think about the source!

Your husband is too selfish, didn't he discuss it before getting married?

To a certain extent, it makes sense, parents go back regularly to see, Chinese New Year or something, bring some gifts, take the smiling faces of the children and you.

Look at what, some things are really internal conflicts between husband and wife, and there is no need to add trouble to your parents.

The stepmother must hope that the child can live happily after the father says that the child is married, and what are the consequences after you tell your parents?

1. Parents will only worry about how you are doing in the future.

2, the impression of your current family will change, this is a minus 3, you have an opinion on your husband, after all, marrying in the past is to hope that he can treat you well It is normal for you to quarrel between husband and wife, since you have established a family, you must have the responsibility of being a parent, both parties choose to understand and tolerate each other, and report good news to parents rather than bad news. You name it, your parents will not only not solve anything, but it will also add to their burden.

The daughter who marries out, spills the water. As the old saying goes, for parents, the responsibility of parenting has been fulfilled and you have not been treated badly. Don't complain, and on the mother-in-law's side, you have to be filial, diligent, and strive to integrate into other people's homes as soon as possible, and change some of your temper and faults as a daughter.

All have their own reasons.

It's just that if you look at the problem from a different angle, you will come to different conclusions.

It's all from your own point of view.

Actually, children are still children.

Parents are always parents.

The relationship is still like that.

Family affection has not changed.

Wow, it's good if you're happy, if you're not happy.

The small family is coming.

Centre. Only when the small family has a good source can we take care of everyone (including your Bai parents)! Let's ask, if the small family is scattered to you, isn't it a blow to everyone!

People, only when they are good will they have the ability to make others good! It's not selfishness, it's truth! Recognize your own reasoning and live your own life!

Wishing you peace and happiness!

As a man, you should take care of your wife and children first, and then your parents! If you can't take care of your wife and children, what can you do to take care of your parents? But what is the matter, my parents just said that only by taking care of their wives and children can they take care of the two of them!

You can't think like this, your life is given by your parents, and it should be that both your parents and you have to take care of it.

If the two of you live well, the life is more than enough, you must discuss with each other and get the consent of the other party.

No parents, no you. What do you think.

We should all care, our parents raised us, we can't only care about ourselves and forget about them, nor can we ignore our wives because we care too much about our families.

Psychologically speaking, the order of the man's small family should take precedence over his own original family, and the woman's is also zhi. In this way, there will be no problems with the DAO family.

The intimate relationship, that is, the relationship between the husband and wife, takes precedence over the parent-child relationship, that is, the relationship between the parents and the parents. If the order of the family is disordered, there will be problems in the family.

This seems to have some conflict with filial piety or something, but a good relationship between husband and wife, a good family relationship, and ensuring the normal and orderly flow of family genes are not the greatest reward for parents?

Maybe the filial piety is too strong, which is a good thing, and he will definitely stay with you longer. Children also learn, too.

If you feel sorry for your parents, then you can take time off to take care of yourself.

They, your sister can also help take care of it, why do you think that the right to take care of your parents is your wife's responsibility alone.

Your wife is married to you, not to your parents, if there is no you, she and your parents are strangers, the responsibility of taking care of and supporting your parents, first yours, and then your wife to help you share, she is willing to sacrifice her job to take care of them, but it is not her obligation. What's more, your wife is not idle at home and is unwilling to take care of the elderly, because she also has to go to work to earn money. You can't bear this responsibility yourself now, so you want your wife to sacrifice yourself to bear it alone?

If you can't take leave, then spend money to hire someone to take care of your parents, obviously your responsibility is greater, how can you put the responsibility on your wife, is it so embarrassing as a man.

You should talk to your wife and tell her what you think, everyone has a time when they are old, if your son does the same to you when you are old, then how do you feel? Parents are the best teachers for their children, thank you!

You have to try to communicate with your wife, and listen to what you say, she shouldn't be an unreasonable person, and husband and wife should exchange ideas more.

Let's not talk about how your wife is, the main thing is that you have no right to ask your wife to do anything! What did you do yourself, your wife didn't do it! If you can't ask for leave, you will pay, why doesn't your sister ask for leave to help, feel sorry for your parents and take care of the children by yourself, don't just see the shortcomings of others, but also look at yourself.

1. The size of the family referred to by Mr. Fei is classified according to the intergenerational level of the family and kinship. Including nuclear family, backbone family, joint family and other types.

2. The small family that Mr. Fei refers to, i.e., the nuclear family: a family consisting of parents and unmarried children. A family consisting only of husband and wife is also called a nuclear family.

1. Backbone family: a family composed of parents and a pair of married children.

2. Joint family: a family consisting of parents and multiple pairs of married children. If a married child remains separated after the death of his or her parents, it is also called a joint family.

4. A family with more than 10 children, although there are quite a few of them, has a simple intergenerational relationship, that is, parents and unmarried children, which belong to the nuclear family structure, and still belong to the structure of a small family.

5. A family with only four in-laws and daughters-in-law, although the number is small, its intergenerational and kinship relationships are complicated, and there is an "outsider" daughter-in-law here; In our country, the daughter-in-law is the third generation from the children's generation, that is, the daughter-in-law is the third generation, and the four people are already the third generation in the intergenerational period. Therefore, despite the small number of people, it cannot be called a "small family".