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Hobbies should never change, it's rare to hear that someone has a lot of hobbies, ask your heart, what is what you desire the most, then go and achieve it.
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1. Read a book! Everything is low, only reading is high, and it is to read paper books, do not read e-books, try to be ancient books or world classics, literature, history, geography can be, most of the confused people are confused, is that their understanding of the world, history and nature is too shallow, many things encountered are explained in books, as you read more books, the deeper your cognition, personal thinking and pattern will increase.
2. Combing! Write down the things you are worried about one by one, as long as you write down all the things you are worried about, basically your confusion has been solved 80%, because when you write it down, you will find that 80% of the problems can be solved immediately, and the remaining 20% will be easily solved by combing to find the essential cause or ask others. Simplify complex problems, grid a messy brain, and organize a mess of trivial matters.
3. Make some "pig friends and dog friends". Find some positive energy people, people who are better than themselves, people with the same values to make friends, usually don't be so noble, be with friends, be open, go to play if you want to travel, rub if you want to play mahjong, go to the restaurant if you want to drink, go to KTV if you want to sing, you won't be lonely if you are accompanied, and you should carnival.
4. Work hard. To be honest, some people are confused because they are too idle, too lazy, tired of doing physical work, tired of doing mental work, and bored when resting.
In this case, think more about the age of your parents, think more about your house and car, think more about your children's milk powder money, school tuition, give yourself some responsibilities, and give yourself some motivation. If you lack self-discipline, take out a loan to buy a house for your parents, a house for your children, and a car for your partner, so that the people who love you and the people you love can live a more nourishing life.
** On the Internet, I hope it will help you.
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Career orientation is the unity of self-positioning and social positioning, and it is a professional who determines the career direction he will engage in through a full understanding of the development of the industry and according to his own interests. Ambiguous career orientation is a problem for many people who have just entered the workplace. Usually faced with the following situations, it is easy to have a vague career positioning:
1. The choice of major does not match one's own interests and hobbies; 2. Blind job hunting, lack of understanding of the industry, and do not fully consider their own advantages and disadvantages; 3. Dissatisfied with the current working status, but at a loss; 4. Faced with multiple choices, or uncertain about future career development.
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The hobby has always been there, but you're just a fan of it.
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Find your hobby quickly.
1) 50 important experiences.
Method: Now (yes, that's the moment you see the answer!) Write down 50 impressive experiences on a piece of paper, describe what kind of person you are, what you want to do, what you are good at, and write whatever you want.
Note: 50 is just the minimum number, the more the better. In order to increase motivation and reduce doubts, let me talk about my experience:
Generally, when I write the first 10 things, I don't feel anything, and they are all relatively external. But after you get to 20 things, you will feel difficult, because you may not know enough to write 20 things. But it doesn't matter, keep writing, write 30-40, and you will feel it, and you will feel that many of your ideas are slowly springing up.
When you get to 50, you'll feel like you want to write. After you finish writing, you can look back, and you will have a deeper understanding of who you are, what you like, what you are good at, and what you want to do. The whole activity lasts about 30-60 minutes.
2) 3 things about ox x.
Method: Start today (yes, even today!) Every night (or morning, according to your habits), record the things you did during the day (or the day before) that make you feel like you are shining, 3 things.
Description: The ideal state is 3 pieces a day, 1 piece if you can't think of it, the focus is to persevere. If you come back after 100 days (or a meaningful point in time, say 21 days, a month, a quarter, etc.), you'll see what you do the best thing you do, and you should get some sort of answer.
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There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart has long been unable to get it back. Love is not difficult or annoying, but people themselves add pressure to themselves and seek trouble.
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How to develop a hobby or skill without being confused?
First of all, reduce consumption behaviors, such as watching TV dramas, watching Tik Tok, sleeping lazy, etc., and reduce these behaviors that consume time that are not beneficial to yourself.
Second, make a list of your hobbies, search online and what comes to mind from top to bottom, based on your feelings.
Start with the first one, give yourself some time to study it, study it, see if you like it, if you can turn it into a hobby.
If that doesn't work, keep trying the next one until you find it. Try to do the first job well and reduce the behaviors that drain your luck and energy. Secondly, Ren really does a good job in the second item.
Everyone's interests and hobbies are not unique, there is a natural ability and acquired cultivation, as a child, parents can cultivate one by one, try more, which is why parents from childhood to adulthood to enroll their children in so many classes The purpose and meaning are the same. They don't want their children to waste too much time and energy trying to earn money when they grow up.
Adult hobbies and hobbies are not cultivated well in the process of learning if they are not aware of them when they are in school. I recommend starting with a low difficulty. Hang a little bit off money and develop an interest outside of work.
I've made a list of my current hobbies.
It's one thing to think a lot of things in your head, and it's another thing to write them out, because sometimes your brain will be deserted and lazy. Adults think a lot, and a lot of things are mixed together, and sometimes it's really not easy to tell the difference.
Reading and writing).
Writing allows me to think about a lot of things and relieve stress caused by too much clutter in my head. Write down your reading experience or important knowledge points every day. During this period, I mainly focused on reading books related to economics and finance.
Literary books are not very practical now, and I have not read much before, and they are not considered in the short term. Each time period should have a segmentation and targeting. History books aren't much of interest either.
What you want to do, you must first understand more, and then position. No one teaches you this, and you have to have a starting point for everything. If you don't position it well or don't think about it, it's never going to be good.
Can you think about it while groping, I don't think it's necessary, give yourself enough time in the process of learning, and come to all aspects of the content of **self**.
Travel and photography).
I've been in the city for too long, and I really want to go out for some fresh air. I used to buy a small camera and it was idle for a while.
Spoken English) is enough to take a while, and people are afraid that they will not have ideas. It's okay to be capable, and there is a way out if you do it. One cannot be without execution, nor can tactical diligence cover up strategic laziness.
Text: I'm not Zhu Bajie.
If it helps you a little, give me a thumbs up and support me, because I am also a lost person, and I hope to get your encouragement)
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Summary. Hello, there are times when you are confused in life, if you have no interests and hobbies, go to find hobbies, get in touch with some new things, do more things that you have not experienced, summarize, find a feeling to see if there is anything you like, or you cultivate a more difficult to achieve wish, such as saving 100 million, you have a goal and motivation. Hope it helps, confused friend.
I don't have any hobbies, I don't know the direction of development, I'm so confused, how to find something that suits me.
Hello, there are times when you are confused in life, if you have no interests and hobbies, go to find hobbies, get in touch with some new things, do more things that you have not experienced, summarize, find a feeling to see if there is anything you like, or you cultivate a more difficult to achieve wish, such as saving 100 million, you have a goal and motivation. Hope it helps, confused friend.
Because my family always asks me what I like, it's annoying, and I say if I know, I'll go, I'm really confused.
Are you a student now or have you started working?
Graduated from secondary school, two years.
I've also been to work, but I feel so boring, I can't say whether I like it or not, I haven't met what I like, and I don't have anything I like when I pick it.
I'm afraid of getting in touch with new things, I'm afraid that I can't do it well, I'm the kind of person who cares about other people's eyes.
I've been to work, then I guess you should be the kind of person who doesn't like to sit in the office, do you prefer to move compared to the office, if so, you can try to be a delivery person for SF, a little tired, but the salary is okay.
To be honest, I used to be like you, and even now there is a little bit of it, let me tell you how I overcame it, I am through fitness, and fitness really makes people feel very confident, at least I am.
I don't like it, I like to be alone, that relaxed feeling.
It's easy, it's really not easy to find, if the family conditions allow, you can try to open a brand clothing store, it's very easy, if you don't want to do it, then hire a worker. What do you think?
I'm keeping the store at home.
Ah, that's pretty good to be honest.
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