There was a junior high school boy chasing me, but I was already in college, so how could I refuse i

You can also not refuse, because you have already gone to college, you must have a career, at this time this boy has an advantage, taking care of housework after work, so that you have no worries, and there is nothing wrong with throwing yourself into your career. The key is that you have to be right, the boy must be willing, after marriage, if he is not willing to do housework, you will lose more than you gain.

I think it's okay to refuse, because no matter how straightforward it is, it will leave people with illusions, and if so, it will hurt him.

You're definitely going to have a higher horizon when you go to college. Junior high school classmates. The gap between you will be huge.

So this time. You can find some excuses to reject him. Like the character is not suitable.

This car is far away and some other ways to get together, but you must show your attitude, no, well, half push and half give him fantasies. Avoid making him think too much and cause unnecessary consequences.

Refusal of this kind of thing does not have to be tactful, go straight and explicitly refuse. Ambiguity can create the illusion of others and bring more trouble to yourself. Others are not so vulnerable, and he dares to pursue it, of course, he is prepared to be rejected.

Junior high school students? Are you a college student? This age gap is too big, and junior high school students themselves are minors, which can't be explained at all, so stay away if you can stay away.

For the ignorant age, it is better to say it directly, and you don't have to refuse tactfully, otherwise you will leave a feeling of opportunity.

The age difference between you is too big, tell him the reason, just reject him directly, don't let him think wrongly.

Do you have a crush on him? If you don't have a good feeling, you can only distance yourself, enlighten yourself, and analyze the pros and cons until you are convinced

Junior high school, college, and the year are not worthy, so let's go our separate ways.

He's a junior high school student, and you're a college student.

At this time, it is enough to refuse directly. This will make the male classmates retreat with difficulty, and it will not be embarrassing.

Decisively rejected him, just say that you just want to study hard now, and you don't want to focus on things that have nothing to do with studying. After entering high school, we should put our studies first, after all, our parents also hope that we can be admitted to a good university in the future.

Explain to the boy that now is the time to study, and he should not fall in love, and he doesn't have this mind.

If he is very good to you, it is likely that he saw that you were empty and felt that he had a chance, so he came to you. He probably wants to chase you and still likes you.

If the reason why you didn't agree to him when you were in high school was because you had someone else in your heart, and now you have given up, you can try to accept him. After all, it is a wiser choice to be with someone who is good to you, and you can live more comfortably. But if you still have someone else in your heart, you can make it clear to him, be resolute, the long pain is better than the short pain, and let him give up on you as soon as possible.

If the reason you didn't say yes to him was because he wasn't your type, I don't think you still like him now. Don't be with a person just because he is good to you, if you really don't like him, still suggest that you explain it to him earlier.

If you want him to give up, don't be too nice to him, don't give him clues, make him feel like you're accepting him. Hope.

It's not big, first of all, he will not be worthy of you, and secondly, even if he becomes it, it is not because he loves you, but because of the pressure of marriage, he will have low self-esteem in the future, and his life will not be happy. The important thing is the third point, if you can't find someone to love, at least you should find someone who loves you. There are several life nodes for girls who need the most care and love, and you will be very sad if you don't have someone who loves you!

Sometimes it's not that you're good enough that the other person will like you.

What are two people from different worlds doing together? You are stuck in your world and can't extricate yourself, and he has his life, and you are already people on different parallel lines.

Infatuated woman, I feel that he is not worthy of you, of course you like it.

It's not a good match, and besides, he doesn't like you very much.