How much difference will there be between a good looking life and a bad looking life?

When I was in junior high school, I wore a school uniform every day, and many boys privately discussed with others that I was the ugliest girl in the class. I paid a little attention in high school, bought a few clothes, cut my hair, looked better, and some people chased me, but more boys were surprised to hear someone chasing me, which showed that I was still ugly in everyone's eyes at that time. I don't care what the opposite sex thinks, after all, I don't like it, I had a boy I liked for five years, so other boys' opinions of me didn't cause me any trouble, and I was very popular among girls, I had a lot of friends, and I never felt lonely.

After going to college, I learned to dress up, with clothes, makeup, **, people are also beautiful, and I feel a lot more confident when I see that I am good-looking. There are really no ugly women in the world, only lazy women, and beauty is never to please others, but to please yourself.

There will indeed be a lot of shortcuts to be good-looking, such as interview activities, you will be given priority, others will indeed treat you a lot, such as asking for directions, others will be more enthusiastic, and it will be easier to ask others for help, I remember once I went to do hair care with a classmate, and I was still in school on a random **, I am the one who looks better among the two, and it is obvious that the barber works harder to please me and wants to make my experience better. But more often good-looking people will be misunderstood, a lot of opportunities and achievements are only because of good-looking and get, this is a very mysterious thing, I work very hard many times, want to prove my ability, and everything about myself is not because of a face, but also often in the dead of night tired like a dead dog, empty tears, thinking that I hope to be a person who eats by face.

In the superficial era of appearance, appearance is really too important, and everyone can directly see your heart. Good looks can account for a large part of the advantage, and there will be more opportunities than others. But it's not enough to have the surface, it's also important to be inside, you can make a vase, but you can't make a vase that can be placed anywhere.

People with good looks also have high requirements for themselves, because the image they establish in the eyes of others is too good. So I will work harder than others. They will also pay more attention to their own image and will be more confident.

Good looksWhen you encounter something, even passers-by are willing to help you "People are beautiful and kind" You see, people are beautiful in front of the heart, it can be seen how important it is to look good, seriously, it is better to pay more than to be good-looking to be recognized by everyone, this is the realistic and cruel world, there is never fairness at all.

I've always felt that I wasn't good-looking, that I wasn't in good shape enough, that I didn't speak and behave properly. The reason is probably since kindergarten, because when the children play together, there are always no boys who want to play with me, and then when I get older, I talk about a boyfriend, in fact, it's just a joke, I don't even hold hands, and the reason for breaking up is because he said I'm not good-looking, oh, okay. Later, I paid a lot of attention to appearance, very smelly and beautiful, but I always felt that I was very rustic, and now that someone praises me, I will be very happy, and I especially need the needs of others.

For example, if we're hanging out together, I'm not too embarrassed to take the initiative if no one proposes to call me.

Elementary school, junior high school, and high school don't know how to dress up, it's ugly, it's a common thing to be excluded, it's inferior, and there are few friends, just one or two who can talk, after going to college and learning to dress up and makeup, they are often taken care of by others, and they are not excluded anymore, but they will be jealous, and there are a lot of friends, especially the opposite sex, and I want to be a class representative in high school, and then my classmates don't choose me and I say I don't have self-knowledge, I chose another beautiful girl, and I competed in college to do it, and then I was selected as the class president, and some time ago I was interviewed for an internship in my senior year, HR asked me for WeChat, saying that I was very good-looking and wanted to know me further, and within two days, I called ** and said that I was admitted, and the internship salary was more than 6,000.

Once I took a plane abroad, I just woke up in the morning and turned on a mobile phone to take a picture outside, although I also knew that it was not very good, the little brother of the empty boy happened to come over, and said to me that I couldn't turn on the mobile phone during the whole process, so I turned it off, a trivial matter, right, however, the turning point came, the classmate came from another seat and told me such a thing: she felt that the little brother was quite handsome, and wanted to take a photo, and the little brother agreed. After the whole service attitude is very good, ask what you want to eat in the morning, eat so little can give you another one, all kinds of care and all kinds of questions, mobile phone number also give, my God, suddenly feel that good-looking people play with their mobile phones, look as ugly as I can only honestly turn off the phone.

I have a college classmate who hasn't been in touch for years. Back then, I remember that he looked average, and I also had a little feeling for him. I feel like he had feelings for me back then.

Now there are occasional chats. When I talk to him, I feel like my heart is beating, my heart beats faster when I see his messages, and I sometimes dream of him. However, I met for the second time half a year ago, and found that the other party is now real-looking, a little too casual.

So now it's completely heart-stopping to talk to him. Rapid heartbeat or something, non-existent.

The third year of high school art training has experienced the ugliest period of life, and I dare not face the person I like. In fact, since I was a child, I have been praised for my good looks, and painting is my ugliness hahahaha College has changed back to looking good, and the people I like happen to like me.

People with good looks chase fewer people.

In all fairness, is it really important to look good?

It's really important, although now people say that strength is the main thing, but in the real social competition, good-looking has already left a good impression at the beginning of the screening stage, and the advantages are obvious.

It's true. Good-looking people are more noticeable and do things more smoothly than ordinary people.

More important, in today's era of looking at faces, strangers come into contact with a lot of people who are judged not by talking but by their appearance. Whether it is an employer recruiting or looking for a partner, many requirements are good looks, which shows the importance of appearance.

I don't think it's very important to be good-looking, because the most important thing for people is the inside, not the outside, the outside may change with age, but the inner connotation and temperament are forever, and with the increase of age, there will be some improvement.

It is not very important to be good-looking, the most important thing is character, as the saying goes, be a man first and then do things, you can't have food to eat if you look good, and you can't work less.

It can be seen by looking in the mirror:

1. Look in the mirror at a distance of about 25cm to observe yourself, and the appearance of this distance is what others see you, so that you can recognize your true appearance.

2. When looking in the mirror, you should put yourself in a place with a blank space to see the whole self, and you must observe yourself from a holistic perspective, so that you can see yourself with an objective eye, so that you can recognize your true appearance.

3. Look in the mirror to focus on observing your own posture, people are a whole, the correct way to look in the mirror dynamically, in order to be able to recognize their true appearance.

4. When you look in the mirror, you should move appropriately, and then your own appearance in the mirror is what others look like you, so that you can recognize your true appearance.

5. When looking in the mirror, you should observe the proportion of your body in the mirror, and correctly understand the defects of your figure. Only then can you recognize what you look like in the eyes of others, so that you can recognize your true appearance.

When we receive some negative comments about our appearance from the outside world or ourselves, it is easy to fall into a state of inferiority for a long time. This state of low self-esteem can undoubtedly seriously interfere with our lives. The worship of appearance is reflected in people's ardent pursuit and worship of beauty.

Why do many good-looking people think they don't look good?

1. Frozen face effect2. Self-protection of the degraded personalityWhen a person has been subjected to various personality derogations from the outside world for a long time, it is easy to fall into anxiety, and everyone craves to be affirmed by the outside world. If this desire is suppressed and distorted for a long time, it will surely explode in a very unhealthy way. It may manifest itself as exaggerated self-preservation through extreme narcissism.

Or being very aggressive, overreacting to trivial things to get people's attention, doing strange things to embarrass others, and simply boiling it down to "ugly people make a lot of trouble".

3. Good-looking people in order to avoid insecurityIn this era of universal face-seeing, there is no standard answer to beauty and ugliness, as long as you live your own life and have self-confidence, everyone will be a shining star.

I think it's an effect, because the average good-looking person, they find themselves with a lot of imperfections, but the average good-looking person thinks they're good-looking.

This may be because they are more confident, so they think they look good.

I think it's probably related to my own mentality, many people are narcissistic, and many people are not narcissistic.

I don't think this sentence can be generalized, I can only say that some people are too demanding of themselves.

Just as happy families are all the same, unhappy families have their own misfortunes. Good-looking people are all similar, but the bad-looking ones are different, so good-looking people will feel bad after looking at them for a long time.

I don't think it's important to be beautiful or ugly, it's important to be beautiful in the soul, sometimes beautiful is not necessarily kind, ugly and loving.

It's normal, for example, if you think that ugly people look at it for a long time, they feel good looking and pleasing to the eye, and it is almost the same.

But this sentence is still very reasonable, because sometimes it is unfair to stimulate people's potential, that is, everyone often says that heroes come out of troubled times.

First of all, there will be some advantages to "being good-looking", but that is always short-lived. For some professions that are based on first impressions only, such as receptionists and greeters, appearance may indeed be important; After all, good-looking people are indeed "eye-catching". But appearance alone is not enough, even if it is a short contact, if it is cold and stiff, even if it looks as beautiful as a fairy, it will not be praised.

This is especially true for other professions that require further contact, those that require professional skills, rich experience, and proficient conversation, no matter how good-looking they look, if they have "a bag of grass in their stomachs", they have no advantage. Therefore, mature professionals don't care whether they look "good-looking" or not. More important than appearance is the smile, the mannerism, and the professionalism.

Have you noticed that there are always some people around you, they always treat everyone happily, and everyone likes them very much, but if you look closely at their appearance, they are not good-looking. There is a good saying, "People who love to laugh will not have too bad luck". Indeed it is.

There is also an old saying, "Reach out and don't hit the smiling person".

went to participate in a difficult customer negotiation, greeted each other with a smile when he entered the door, greeted and shook hands with the other party in a friendly manner, and the tense atmosphere on the scene was half resolved; The opponent feels your friendliness, and the negotiation will not be so intense. Manners are also very important. Negotiations will not succeed if they are "unable to speak", behave inappropriately, annoy the opponent in their speech and behavior, or inadvertently cause unhappiness to the opponent.

In a mature workplace, especially in long-term cooperative transactions, you basically don't look at your appearance, but pay attention to your professionalism. Even if the appearance and temperament are excellent, but the professionalism is not enough, the preparation is not sufficient, and the other party cannot provide professional solutions, it will not be a transaction.

It's not necessarily important to look good, but it's important not to affect the cityscape. After all, if you don't reject that face, it's easier to talk about anything, right?

No matter what era, it is really important to look good, you think, who doesn't like to be beautiful, who doesn't like to look beautiful, now recruitment has to look at appearance, so it is absolutely advantageous to look good.

Of course, but the key is inner beauty.

It is true that appearance has a great influence in society, but the question of whether it is "important" needs to be looked at according to different perspectives and situations. Here are some perspectives:

Reasons why looks are important:

1.Looks can bring advantages: good-looking people are usually more likely to be liked and liked by others, and may also have advantages over others in terms of choosing a job, socializing, etc.

2.Looks can change the impression of others: Appearance is often the first impression, and a good first impression can help people better connect and relate to others.

Reasons against the importance of looks:

1.Personality charm is more important: appearance is not all that evaluates a person, personality charm, moral cultivation, etc. are the factors that really determine a person's value.

2.Appearance is only ephemeral: appearance naturally ages over time, while personality charm and character temperament are enduring.

In short, in some cases, appearance is indeed important, but it is not the whole story of a person. People should explore their own potential and various advantages from the depths of their hearts, and pay attention to cultivating their own personality charm and moral cultivation, which can make people more confident, elegant and charming, and bring more opportunities and success to themselves.