Should I give up on the problem of love? Or come on to pursue her?

Updated on society 2024-06-23
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's just your wishful thinking ...

    But if you like her, be brave and chase it. Lovers all start with friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You're right, feelings can't be forced, and if she really doesn't feel that way for you, you should let her go, and being friends is for life, so that you can at least care about her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You spend some time together to see if she has a good impression of you

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you haven't tried, how will you know if she likes you? Be brave in your pursuit.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Taoguang is obscure, and when you have the ability, go after it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dating a little longer, and then see if he really doesn't care about you or pretends not to care, and then make a decision.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's going to be three, but if it doesn't work three times, forget it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm the same, I don't know what to do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you love her, you have to wait, if you really love someone, you have to do it, no matter your current status, identity, or even your youth, if you give up on her and give up the promise you once made to her, it means that you have broken your promise!

    I wish you all happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Specific problems are analyzed in detail, like is a faint love, and love is a deep like. Ask yourself if she is worth it for you to wait, do you love her or not?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's waiting for her! Until she resolutely says to you, "No way!" "Huh.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go with the flow and love if you meet another person you love. What to wait for, in this real society, you wait, maybe what you have waited for recently is not what you want, and it may be painful to wait for you there.

    There's also the question of whether she's worth the wait.

    My opinion is: go with the flow.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If she doesn't say it's right now, it's just because she hasn't found a reason to be with you, and it's because he gives you security and makes you happy, and now you can't give her security, make her happy, how can she be with you, try to give yourself and the other person, there's no problem that can't be solved, and if you want to die, let's start with a friend If you confess too quickly, it will scare the other person, and I wish you happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, let me tell you, I am also a single parent, my mother remarried and left when I was 1 year old, I felt what maternal love is, and then I began to scold you.

    1. Don't pretend to be a grandson!

    No one in this world can understand you and care about you as much as you think; Although you have lost some kind of love, you cannot dwell on the emotions of self-pity, so that your life is over, and no one can help you.

    2. Stop dreaming!

    There is no love in this world that you want, a love like a soul possession.

    3. Don't be hypocritical!

    You can't even take care of yourself, why can't your family, you be responsible for yourself, can you be responsible for your family?

    4. After you know, you should be like your second brother and hold your head high. Only you can save you;

    5. Don't dream of perfection, everything in this world is two-sided and contradictory, your only way out is to do things, do things, and do things again, don't dream.

    6. Finally, I tell you that this is the conclusion that I have come to after 15 years of wasted time struggling like you.

    I wish you to get out of the self-pity complex as soon as possible, be happy, believe that you can, and have your own happy life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I am also a child of a single-parent family, and the children of a single-parent family may be more sensitive But if you have a good mentality, it is not easy to die There are many miserable people in the world, and we are actually quite happy, we will not live in war as often as Iraq, nor will we be like those African refugees who are so hungry that they are only skinny and bones, and we are very able-bodied, they are still trying to live so badly, in comparison, you should not be worse than them

    As for the love affair, do you think you really like her? Do you want to chase her because you like her or because you are unwilling? Don't go to a dead end, you're only 22 years old.

    I hope you can see the sun after you wake up (-The language is relatively bad, just understand it, and you will be on it).

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Friend, I came here after reading your and my problems, it seems that you also believe in the constellation, this is the same as me, for the relationship, except for the parties, no one can replace, but I want to tell you sincerely, no matter what you do, whether you give up or continue, she must be responsible for herself, and when doing something, you must consider!

    I think:The first thing for two people to be together is to have a feeling.,To put it bluntly, it's a good feeling.,That's the least.,If you treat her as a marriage partner.,Please weigh the weight.,That good feeling can only be the beginning.,And many, many... Of course, I don't talk about flash marriages! )

    Seeing that you have written so much from the bottom of your heart, I am a little moved, I hope you chase, this is not so much my hope, but your own hope, look at your question, so long and long, what does it mean?

    Drink, got it???

    Another note: There are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    But think so much

    There are some things that are only important if you value them, and if you don't take them that seriously, that's it.

    Don't think about whether you will die or not, your parents gave birth to you, not to let you die, but to let you live happily, and you must persevere in any difficulties.

    Try to correct your own bad habits.

    More go out easily and easily.

    Some people can't give up reluctantly

    Reluctant love is not sweet.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It should be given up, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you like it, chase it, follow your heart to do things, and even if you are hurt, you have no regrets.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can slowly win back the favor in her heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This impression is only temporary.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like it, confess! You have to be bold when chasing girls! If you're too timid, you'll miss it! All bite the bullet on! There will be lovers who will eventually become married.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, you have to analyze whether you like her because of loneliness, or whether you like her out of sincerity.

    The second is whether you think this girl can have a topic with you. Academic qualifications are not equal to learning ability, and there are many cases where you don't go to school. If the topic between the girl and you is very speculative, then this difference in the amount of a diploma cannot be an obstacle between you.

    The third is that your parents do not agree with you marrying a girl who does not have a college degree, so have you done a deep analysis of this sentence, they may not want you to be distracted by college, or talk casually, or they are very sure that there are academic requirements.

    There is also that there is not much contradiction between learning and feelings, and if it is handled well, both parties are proud.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, I think you have to make sure that if she likes you and wants to be with you, can you accept her low education?!

    If you can, then it proves that you really love her, then go after it, learning needs to be meditated, but now college students are more or less studying while dealing with objects, and then go to graduate school for a doctorate! Besides, even if you are introverted, you will have to chase your girlfriend sooner or later, and you can't wait for this girl to take the initiative forever! That's right!

    But if you feel that you can't accept her low education, or because you are afraid that your family will not accept her, then I advise you to think carefully about whether you really like her! Or maybe you don't like it as much as you think you do! Because liking someone is unconditional!

    It won't be discounted because of some external factors! Besides, how many girls from famous universities have a style and habits in life, and they are really not as good as those girls who have not gone to college!! So, it is she who loves someone who she is, not her background and identity!

    What you want is a girlfriend and a wife, as long as you are sure that you love her, the rest really doesn't matter!!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You're introverted, it's not your fault. People always have seven emotions and six desires, and for the sake of your studies, I suggest you give up. Where is there no grass at the end of the world?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Chasing.,It's not easy to meet a favorite one.。。。

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Directly ask for a ** number first! With a ** number, slowly cultivated, you will always have a time to express, you like her so much, why care so much? Maybe she is not highly educated, but she has filial piety, your parents will accept her in the future, if you find a person with a high education, no filial piety, or a bad character, it will be more troublesome in the future, so no matter how good her education is, the focus is on good character and virtuousness!

    There are not so many whys, whether you are looking for a life or having fun, think for yourself!

    Have fun!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Neuropathy, you're annoyed with a fatal mistake, you shouldn't rush into his room in the middle of the night, and hug him and kiss him, it's impossible for him to be nice to you, even if he had a lot of affection for you before, he was completely overwhelmed by your behavior.

    I think you want to reconcile with her, you must apologize to him, it is a very sincere apology, maybe it is possible, otherwise she will coax you out at that time, you are still angry, you are too self-righteous, women hate such men the most.

    Hurry up and apologize to him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    nnd, I want to vomit when I see the text in this tofu block.

    I don't have a literary level at all.,I only know how to vent.,I don't want to think about the mood of the person who reads it at all.。

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You really shouldn't have left that note, aren't you insulting her? Keep chasing! Good luck.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Give me a little more time guys.

    Get along slowly. Don't be in such a hurry.

    Take your time to find out.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    To be honest, how do I think it's your problem, that girl let you go to her house, twice, and the second time they slept together, you can't take the initiative again? Maybe she wanted you to take the initiative for a long time, but you didn't, she felt that you didn't have the courage. You say that the second time you did make the fatal mistake, and that was not to go further.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You didn't stand up to her test.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you really like it, you will continue to chase it until she is moved.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Feelings will always hurt, if you are ready to be hurt, then be brave to chase it, maybe it will be successful, if you are not prepared, then please leave 、、、

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because you didn't do anything that night.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Brother, you are just like me! In fact, sometimes you don't have to have her, it's easy to say but you really can't let go, it's really hard to give up before you start, a person's life, maybe only once, but really reluctant, sad again and again, helpless again and again! Go after it, actually.

    To love each other for the last time, if the other party doesn't accept it, there is no way, at least do your best! Even if the other party is barely with you, have you thought about it? There's a reason why she doesn't stay with you, mostly because she has a boyfriend and can't help it.

    Be helpless, continue to be helpless! I really don't want to face it, but what if it's not a man who is crying, you go chase it, ask him for the last time if he loves it or not! This is too.

    In the end, I was willing to die for her, but the reality is not like this, loving someone is voluntary! Abandon.

    It is a short-term pain, if you continue to succeed, it will be happiness, and waiting will be a long pain.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You don't try to pursue him

    I just want to quit.

    Give up, such a word.

    I don't seem to understand.

    Try to move him with your sincerity

    Maybe he's yours in the next second.

    There are not many opportunities in a person's life.

    I advise you not to let the opportunity slip out of your hands.

    Don't know how to cherish until you lose

    Otherwise, you will never be.

    Otherwise you don't deserve it.

    The one who loves you is not holding an umbrella among the fish for you

    Rather, it is among the fish that accompanies you to drench the fish.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Who does she love?

    How is she doing?

    Is that boy someone she deserves to like?

    If yes, then give up.

    For her and for you.

    For her to have a good life.

    So that you don't fall so deep.

    If not.

    Then try to see.

    Don't let the girl you like be with someone who doesn't deserve her liking.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Does that guy like you? If I don't like you.

    Then you should give up.

    After all, the love life of the ta's ta.

    You shouldn't go for sabotage if they like you.

    Then you should give up.

    Why? Since I like you.

    I also socialize with other people.

    Can such a person's feelings for you be real?

    I'm skeptical. Love is important, but there is no such thing as happy love.

    Do you think you'll be happy?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you really like her, prove it. Don't think about issues that aren't a problem at all.

    Everyone's aesthetic is different, not to mention that each person has his unique charm and strengths. Why do you deny yourself by doing nothing? If you don't admit yourself, how can others recognize you? Sometimes physical appearance is not so important.

    And since you like her, you have to have the courage to express it. Don't you think she likes you a little but doesn't say anything? In fact, no matter how generous and free the girl is, this kind of thing hopes that the boy will take the initiative, and he also enjoys the feeling of being chased and cherished.

    Whatever the outcome, you have to try. If you don't even do anything in the face of someone you like, you have to back down for that ridiculous inferiority. What will you do when you face difficulties in the future? In any case, don't leave yourself with regrets!

    Even if there is one percent hope, it is necessary to do 100 percent effort.

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