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1. The utilitarian nature of the blind date is very clear and strong.
2. The blind date is a stranger and has no emotional basis. The man's economic base plays a decisive role.
3. The two parties on the blind date are basically unsuccessful in free love.
4. Both parties on a blind date are generally older and have certain social experience.
5. Blind date women are basically very materialistic, and they pay great attention to the man's conditions (appearance, economic income). Some men with good conditions can find a beautiful woman in their 20s in their forties and fifties. Most blind date women are so-called insecure, that is, the level of the man's economic conditions.
If the man's conditions are very good for the blind date woman, he will soon fall in love and marry the man. Otherwise, the talks will be long and nothing will come of it in the end.
6. The society is very realistic, blind date love marriage is more realistic, and the man's economic income is the pillar of the whole family. The blind date woman's economic needs are tactful or direct, they will be revealed, and their gentleness and thoughtfulness need to be paid by the man's economy.
7. If the concept and values of the blind date are appropriate, they will talk, otherwise they will refuse euphemistically, and both parties should not waste money and time.
9. On the first side of the blind date, at most a cup of tea, don't spend too much. After all, the blind date is a stranger, if you are satisfied, you can talk, if you don't like to find a reason to leave, even a cup of tea money will be saved.
10. No matter what the result of the blind date, it is best to report to the introducer, and there are some things that the introducer can say better.
11, if the blind date is successful, it is the best, everyone is happy. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, be natural and generous. The blind date is a stranger, and both parties have not invested too much, and it is okay to be a stranger if they don't succeed.
13, some blind dates say that they are stingy and unwilling to spend money, which is nothing more than trying to take advantage of something that doesn't take much effort. There is no need to spend a penny and a minute of your time on a stranger who has no stakes.
14. In short, the blind date is equal, and it is best if both parties are suitable. Marriage is not available. There is no need to ask for someone, and doing so will only make the other person despise him even more.
It can be said that blind date is a comprehensive game of the conditions of both men and women. Don't have the sustenance of "if you take the initiative you can do it", these words are just self-consolation for unsuccessful ones. Blind dates should be self-confident, self-reliant, self-reliant, and self-respecting.
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If a boy finds out that his girlfriend is going on a blind date behind your back, you still have to discuss it with the other party first, if the other party is forced to go on a blind date, this also shows that the other party has some hardships, to understand the girl more, but once you find that the girl wants to step on two boats or has other ideas, the boy should not continue to be nostalgic for this relationship, break up with the other party earlier, it can be regarded as a relief for both people, and the boy is also easy to get hurt, but the twisted melon is not sweet, and it is time to let go. <>
Girls have unspeakable secrets and can choose not to break up. After some boys and girls are together, the relationship may be very sweet, and the two people have plans to get married, but this relationship has suffered from the rejection of their parents, and even other factors, such as money problems, such as the intelligence of two people, will become difficult on everyone's emotional road. Some girls are really out of luck, forced by their parents, can only go on a blind date perfunctory, boys encounter this situation, but also think about solving the problem in time, don't dodge, all the mess to the girlfriend is an irresponsible performance.
The boy can talk to the girl's parents and promise that he can give the girl a good life, and take some practical actions to prove that he can do it. <>
If a girl wants to step on two boats, she has to choose to break up. In this world, there are not only sea kings, but also some sea women, who eat from the bowl and look at the pot. Since the other party doesn't have such a mind, there is no need to continue talking with the other party when encountering such an irresponsible girlfriend.
The other party no longer has you in his heart, so he will want to go on a blind date with other people, so you don't need to trap the other party by your side all the time, and it is not of much use. <>
Things in the relationship can not be forced, if a person changes his mind, there is no point in continuing this relationship, whether it is a boy or a girl, if you find that the other party's mind is not in you, you must get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible and find your next spring.
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In the process of blind date, I found myself been"Choose one of the two", that is, the other person is also on a blind date with another person at the same time, and is more inclined to the other person, which is indeed an unpleasant experience. However, you can do the following:
1.Stay calm: A blind date is a test in itself, and both parties have the right to choose whether they want to continue dating. So, don't get too emotional or angry when you learn that the other person is more partial to another person. Keep your emotions in check and try to stay calm.
2.Rational analysis: If you encounter a situation where you are "choosing one or the other", you need to rationally analyze and think about why this situation occurs.
It could be because of a lack of common ground or a comfortable way of communicating. It doesn't mean that you don't have charms or merits, so don't deny yourself easily.
3.Decide whether to pursue or not: If you think you have a good relationship with this person and think you can give him a chance to get to know you better, then you can try to offer further dates to deepen your understanding of each other.
If the other person still prefers to be with other people, then you can consider giving up.
4.Respect the other person's choice: In any case, it is very important to respect the other person's choice.
If the other person decides to choose another blind date, you should respect his or her decision and not let yourself feel lost and frustrated. You should look forward and continue to look for the right person for you.
5.Lessons learned: Finally, after a blind date like this, try to learn and reflect. See what you've done wrong and what you need to improve, and then take care to avoid them on your next blind date.
In short, when encountering a situation of being "chosen one of the two", the best way is to remain calm, analyze rationally, respect the other party's choice, and learn a lesson. Dealing with the situation in these ways will help reduce the pain and potentially help you find a partner who is a better fit for you.
I don't think you should contact this in this case. You know each other on a blind date, and there is relatively little contact, if you think that you have a poor character through several meetings and online chats, it either means that the first impression you left on her is not good, or it means that the other party does not want to continue to develop with you at all, and in this case, this girl hopes that you will take the initiative to give up, and then she can say that you don't contact her much, not active at all. I suggest that you should make a decision, because this situation is difficult to reverse, and if you meet on a blind date, you should withdraw quickly if it is not suitable, and don't delay each other's time.
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