What is it like to like someone for more than five years?

If it's a five-year crush, it's a long process of self-torture. Although I won't fall out of love, I'm losing every minute. The most painful thing is that the person who is liked knows it, but the two of them can only pretend that they don't know what they do.

Then I watched the two people slowly drift apart, never talking about everything and being relatively speechless.

After more than five years, when you don't like him anymore, you feel that you will never like others again in this life, and you feel that you are good alone, and you will never love again.

After liking someone for more than five years, the relationship will become more and more peaceful, and you will gradually understand how to be really good to someone.

Sometimes you know that there will be no results, but you are not willing to face the reality and let yourself fall into it. He understood countless confessions openly and secretly, but because he had known each other for too long, he couldn't say anything he refused, so he had to pretend to be stupid. I also pretended to be stupid and there was still hope for him, so I went from the second year of junior high school to the first year of college.

Later, I didn't want to go on like this, I hoped that he would face up to the problem, and finally he said that we are only suitable for maintaining the current relationship, and it is impossible to go further. It took a while to accept this reality and understand that some things are not forgotten, but will have repercussions. He is still my armor, but he is no longer my weakness.

Seeing this question, I thought of him again. How long has it been, five years, it doesn't seem to be, and it seems to be longer. I didn't show it to him, I didn't mention it to any of my friends, I always pretended to be fearless, but I was careful to hide this liking.

Does he know? I don't know. No, you should know, and if you do, then ......It's a conversation I've had in my heart many times.

Every time I think about it, I feel like I'm stupid to go home. I once thought about telling him, I wanted to go over to see him, and I made up a lot of plots in my head, but after all, I never met again. Now he has already married a family, and the child can play soy sauce, but I can only look at him and the child's ** in the circle of friends, smirking.

Yes, giggle. The corners of my mouth can't help but rise, and I feel reassured. Imagining his happy life now, it feels like I'm enjoying this happiness with me.

It's weird and silly.

From the third year of junior high school in 2010 to the third year of college in 2016. 6 years, The only person who likes to live, Obsession, it's terrible Actually, liking a straight man originally represented the beginning of tragedy, I tried all the methods to chase him, digging out my heart and lungs, and even using the childish and ridiculous behavior of self-harm, But, just like not all flowers can bear fruit, not all the love paid will be rewarded. Fortunately, he and I are still good friends now, and we can still make an appointment to get together during the holidays, play billiards or something, although I still unconsciously care about him, because his every move is surging.

But when he exhausted my love little by little, when I was desperate and miserable, all I could do was wish him happiness and hope that one day, when I would meet my own happiness after all, I hope that it will not be too late.

Habit is greater than like, no matter the storm, the upheaval, there is one in the heart of him is not lonely, there is stability, there is strength. However, it has nothing to do with him, just my own business.

Even though I have met many people and have some small temptations, I have never forgotten that person.

She got married, so she didn't take the initiative to look for her, didn't go to the space, and didn't interfere anymore, but every time she saw her come (a few times a year), she would ask lightly, how are you doing lately, in fact, I know in my heart that if she doesn't visit, she will live a good and happy life.

If you can have someone who has always made you like and never leaves you, it must be that you are particularly fateful, cherish this fate!

This is the case for me, I feel very bitter in my heart, and I really want to be with him

I feel very depressed in my heart, very bitter, I want to let go, but I can't let go, I really have a feeling of bitterness that I can't say

Occasionally, when I think about it, I can only blame myself for not being able to go to the United States to live with her. I still like it from 5 years old to this day.

I like everything he likes, I hate everything he hates, and all kinds of behaviors are ingrained.

In 06, when I was a freshman, I met a girl who fell in love at first sight, and we were single for nine years.

I think liking someone for more than five years depends on whether the other person likes you or not. If it's the kind of love you have a crush, I think that experience must be very hard. If the person you like happens to like you too, then it's a very sweet experience.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost six years, but I like him for almost ten years. I realized I liked him when I was in junior high school, but at that time I was in a state of losing touch with him, and I just missed him unilaterally. Sometimes when I'm sad and sad, I think about him, think about some memories between me and him, and then my mood will improve.

At that time, I also liked to share some things and feelings related to him with my girlfriends. At that time, I was not with him, and I didn't realize that he and I would be together one day, so sometimes I feel a little sad, but I still feel a little sweet to spend most of the time, because I was still young at that time, and many things were not too complicated, and I was not so easily sentimental.

I was with him when I was in high school, and it was very happy and sweet during this time. Because I don't have a crush on him anymore, I can honestly say that I like him. I think it's a blessing to be with someone I like.

The love of childhood sweethearts is very sweet when you think about it. How much I like him, how happy I am when I'm with him. I'm glad that the person I like happens to like me too, and has spent so many spring and autumn with me, and I hope to be able to go on with him until the last day of our gray hair.

Like a fish drinking water, it knows its own warmth and coldness. Among them, all kinds of sad tastes are really only known to themselves.

When you choose to silently like, silently adhere to the moment, you have chosen a road that is not easy to take, on this road, we may sometimes feel very sweet, very happy, more often it is actually a kind of loneliness and sadness, sometimes it is difficult to give up the thoughts, can not be said, obviously in front of your eyes, obviously within reach, but can only smile and wave goodbye.

Even if you know that the moment you turn around, your eyes will be red, you have to leave a back that pretends to be very happy, let him know that you don't want him to see it, and silently like someone for ten years, which is my own ten years.

Countless times I thought about giving up, but every time I persuaded myself to give up, I couldn't help but continue to persevere, because I really like it very much, I can't let go of it, and sometimes it's really not that I can give up if I want to, because your heart is there, and you can't deceive your heart.

I like it for ten years and I can't say what I like in my heart.,As for the many reasons.,These things slowly let it rot in my stomach.,Together with this like.。

I don't know exactly when I'm going to dislike him. When can I not think of him, I feel that my heart is very heavy, and it is not a simple thing to like a person for ten years, but I don't know why, I just like it so much and like it for ten years.

I can't remember how many times I've cried for this love in the past ten years, I can't remember how many hypocritical words I've written for this immature like, I can't remember how many portraits of him I've drawn, how many times I've touched his face and touched his eyebrows in my mind again and again.

How many nights he couldn't sleep, how many nights he couldn't sleep, how many nights his pillow was wet, how many nights he listened to his favorite songs until the wee hours of the morning. Some people may think that this emotion is very bitter, although it may be very bitter, but I don't know why, but I taste the sweetness in this bitterness.

I never regretted liking him for ten years, because he deserved to be liked. In the past ten years, he has been my goal, because with this love for him in my heart, I am also working hard step by step, step by step to get closer to him, thinking that he may still be working at the desk late at night, I dare not have the slightest slack and laziness.

Because of my liking for him, I have also become better and braver, until now, maybe I still like it, as for when I can let it go, I don't know, maybe everyone will have such an impossible person in their hearts, just quietly put it in their hearts for a lifetime, it's not bad.

A person can have several decades in his life, and liking someone for more than ten years means giving him his best time. I liked him at the beginning, cared about his every move, understood his preferences, hoped that he would always be happy, and he would be unhappy when he was sad, and his attention would involuntarily be on him, he smiled at me, and if he was a little kind to me, he would be very happy, and the whole person was full of motivation to do everything all day.

Over the years I have liked him, I often silently fantasize about the future of the two people in my heart, from falling in love, getting married, having children, until old age, rehearsing over and over again in my head, watching a ** will imagine myself and him as the hero and heroine in the book, I hope that I and he will have such a dreamy love, and I hope that the day when the positive result will come soon.

I have liked him all these years, and the first thing I do when I wake up every morning is to think about him, regard him as the driving force to move forward, and strive to become better for him, looking forward to one day being good enough to stand by his side. The last thing I do every night is to think about him, say goodnight to him, and then fall asleep with a sweet smile on the corner of my mouth, and I dream that he will also wake up with a smile.

I have become stingy over the years when I like him, and I don't allow him to ** air conditioning, I only like him to be dedicated to himself. I'm going to be proud.,Such a good boy is his own.,It's fun to think about it.。 will stay up late with him to watch the football game, will accompany him to the court to play, the whole process is only to cheer for him, his heart is full of him, and he can no longer tolerate others.

I have liked him all these years, the air is sweet with him, and the flowers are also exceptionally beautiful, even if it is unfortunate that the sky is raining, the sky will be clear in my heart. When I was smirking inexplicably and being complained about, it was me who was reminiscing about his little bit of beauty. I will walk through every street, every shop, try all the food together, and there will be many firsts for two people, so that even if he can't be with him occasionally, he will feel that he has always been by his side.

I have liked him all these years, and I can always see him at the first sight in the crowd, because he is so unique in my heart, and no one can replace the important position, he is my spiritual opium, and I can't stop liking him. It's as if he's suffering from a disease called liking him, and he just happens to be the medicine, and the medicine can't be stopped. Like you, it starts with appearance, loyal to talent, trapped in character, liking you is the only thing I can stick to, I like you even your eyes will be revealed.

I didn't feel anything, I liked it at first, I hadn't seen him for ten years, and after ten years, I saw him soaring, and I was tempted again, and I called it ten years. However, it has something to do with this person's personal development, and if the development is not good, it is estimated that you will not want to see him in ten years.

Are you asking? If you really like someone for ten years, you will get sick.

In this life, all people want is a person who truly loves each other, and even this simplest wish is not fulfilled by everyone.

The most regrettable thing is that if you love each other but can't be together, there may be practical reasons, and you may find that the two people are not suitable later, etc., but after two people separate, they don't necessarily let go of this relationship immediately.

If you have a person in your heart, how can you say that you forget and forget? Even if you let go, it will take a process, a difficult time, so that you can completely delete that person from the bottom of your heart, and stop thinking about him and thinking about him.

And before that, you may toss and turn, thinking about him all the time, you may still be reflexively excited when you hear his name, and you may want to contact him again to know how he is doing.

Maybe you shouldn't do this, but before you completely let go of a person, this practice is really normal, how can a person who puts it in his heart say that he will let go?

If that person has ever walked into your heart, you will not let go of him so easily, as soon as he appears in front of you again, your heart will be disrupted, as long as he says to start over, you will rekindle hope.

If you are still persistent and refuse to let go, that is your problem, in the face of a love that does not belong to you, you have to wait stupidly, this is your stupidity.

Although that person has been in your heart and you haven't forgotten him so quickly, it doesn't mean that you won't let go of him, let go of that past, as long as you think about it, you can do it.

You can't let go, it's just because the past is too good, or you love him too much, and you always feel that breaking up is like a dream, and you will still get back together, or you will be together again.

But the reality is not a TV series, even if it is reunited, the existing problems will still exist, and they will still be separated, if you are not fully sure, it is better not to do this, be brave and look forward.

Perhaps, when each has its own happiness, when you finally find that everything is in the past, that longing will fade over time and eventually be forgotten.

Don't feel sorry, don't feel sorry, if there is no fate, then say goodbye!

Some people, after coming for a while, you have been thinking about it for a lifetime, and no matter how deep the love is, there will be no result.

If two people are destined to only accompany each other for a ride, it is better to let yourself try to let go, learn to forget, and don't keep dwelling on this past and refuse to let go, which is not good for each other.

Forget it, not all love will have results, and not all people who love each other can be together, since fate is so arranged, then accept it.

It's better to miss each other than to see each other, and it may be difficult to forget it, but you must learn to forget, and those who have missed it, let it go!