Why are you unhappy everywhere? Life is unsatisfactory everywhere, how to reply

In addition to ability, luck is also an important reason why life is not as good as it should be. Some people are born to grow up in a good family environment, the conditions are much better than others, and there are many more opportunities to see the world; Some people are born in poor families, and their starting point is worse than others, including the living environment, educational environment and development space. There are also some people who are born with physical disabilities and have been exposed to the strange eyes of society since childhood, and you say that a few of them can get up as they wish. ‍‍

In the final analysis, it is still lazy, delusional every day, the heart is higher than the sky and life is thinner than paper, waiting for opportunities, waiting for the so-called nobles, waiting for the lottery to win, don't be stupid! If you don't work hard, no one will help you work hard! You don't make money, no one helps you earn money!

We're not like those rich kids! We don't have power, we can only have money! The one who has money in these years is the uncle!

If you have money, you can do first class! If you have money, you can get a special number! ‍‍

Whether you have the ability or not, and what kind of ability you have, determines what kind of life you can have. For example, people with high academic qualifications, computer skills, mastery of multiple foreign languages, and communication arts can find jobs in foreign companies, develop abroad, and get in touch with the larger world. For example, the education is not high, technical things can not be done, some people can only go to the stall, some people can only choose simple mechanical things, so it is destined to be low salary, low status, low living standards, and most of the friends they make are people in similar situations.

If you find things difficult, then you should find a way to make him feel good and not always complain.

I didn't try hard enough! What is hard work, isn't it to strive for your own goals, to fight? But in the process of working hard, setbacks and difficulties are inevitable. But people are often defeated by it. ‍‍

Luck can't decide everything, but it can affect a lot, many people attribute their unsatisfactory life to bad luck, in fact, good and bad luck are mixed up, so don't envy others, maybe your good luck is waiting for you ahead.

Quietly retreated. As the saying goes, "Difficulties are like springs, if you are strong, it will be weak, and if you are weak, he will be strong." "Yes, you can't just stand there and be conquered by it, cheer up, fight with it, fight with it, believe it, hard work pays off, one day it will succeed, and you will see a brilliant tomorrow.

Only by experiencing experiences that ordinary people have not had can we enjoy the only enjoyment of ordinary people! ‍‍

In addition to the luck of reincarnation, there is also a lot to do with luck, maybe you missed a big deal a few minutes late, maybe your appearance into the eyes of the big man, maybe you met a noble person who helped each other, maybe you encountered a natural and man-made disaster. ‍‍

I always want to pursue my dreams, but I can't let go of my current job, my family does not support my resignation, and I have no other specialties, there is a big gap between my ideals and abilities, so I feel that my life is not satisfactory. In fact, others are better than you, and many times it is because others are better than you!

I don't work hard enough, in the final analysis, I am still lazy, delusional every day, waiting to win the first prize of the lottery. If you don't work hard, no one will help you work hard! You don't make money, no one helps you earn money!

This year's very popular saying: the harder you work, the luckier you are. It's just that you don't work hard enough.

Maybe it's because my abilities don't match my dreams, and I'm in a hurry to achieve my dreams.

First of all, we must find the reason from ourselves, is it the ability to work or the way of receiving people and things is inappropriate?

If you don't tell the hall about everything, you can do it as you want, which means that your goal is too big and your expectations are too high, so you can always feel that it is not up to the requirements and unsatisfactory. In fact, doing things should be based on simple principles, remember: greatness comes from the ordinary basic socks bend hidden reason, be a man with a normal heart, do things with a normal heart, and judge the situation with an indifferent state of mind, you will find that the sky is clear, and the wind is smooth.

The reality is that sometimes you don't achieve something as you would like it to be, and the result is not ideal. Often, due to external environmental factors, one's own efforts or other reasons, something cannot be achieved as you expect. It can also be said that sometimes the hunger may not be as good as it should be, or even not as good as you would like.

Meaning: The wife you are looking for is not the person you love, and her life is financially involuntary and strained...

Everyone's life will have unsatisfactory times. It could be poor grades, family disharmony, or something that didn't go as planned. We don't really have to worry about that.

How long life is and how unsatisfactory it is may be, it may just be some small things that you don't have to care about, some small episodes in life.

We need to learn to face up to our situation. Always be content. Don't think you don't have anything, look at what you have.

You have a very important thing, life. Maybe you should think about how many people in this world are much worse than you. As long as one lives, one can do anything.

Look at those college students jumping off buildings, those are cowards who don't cherish life! Do you know why some terminally ill patients, although they know that ** may be very small, still have **? Because they are struggling on the sidelines of death!

They know how precious life is! Know that no matter what comes your way, you have to cherish life! And now, you feel that life is too unsatisfactory, what's wrong with you?

To put it mildly, have you lost your life? Of course not! You have to understand that as a living person, you have to be confident in your life!

Understand that some unsatisfactory is not really unsatisfactory, but you have some negativity, and the truth may not be so serious. You can go and change the facts. To remember:

At all times, your destiny is in your own hands. You can live a glorious life, or you can be a great person, it depends on how you see the world, how you treat life, how you live. You must know that life is beautiful and worth cherishing.

No one is truly unlucky. There are times when he is not satisfied, and there are times when he is happy. You must be able to see the beauty of this world, no matter what happens to you!

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