How do you reconcile the conflict with your parents about your career path?

Because we and our parents have different values on life, there will inevitably be various conflicts in life. In the face of all kinds of contradictions, we should calm down and think about it, learn to empathize, think from the perspective of our parents, think from their standpoint, what would they do if we were them, learn to understand them, no matter who is right or wrong, we should apologize, they are the people who love us in the world, we should not make them sad.

Go your own way, what opinions your parents have, just listen to it, it's best to stick to your own ideas, just like my sister, my mother has to let my sister be a kindergarten teacher, but after my sister became a kindergarten teacher, she was like a year, and she couldn't lift her spirit at all, and then she told my mother many times, and then she changed jobs, and people became very energetic.

From childhood to adulthood, they chose all the schools for me, tutorial classes, went to college to choose a major, made friends and made friends, I was going crazy, I was about to go to an internship, I felt that I finally got rid of them, but I had a big fight at home, I was 23 years old, I have the right to choose, this time I firmly chose what I liked, even if I regret it later, but I am still very calm and my parents made the future path clear, and they did not stop it.

My job goes to the online game client maintainer, I have to work overtime until the wee hours of the morning every day, and my mom will wait for me every time to come home and eat for me! It's hot over and over again, and it will be the same in the morning, so my mom won't tell me if she doesn't get enough sleep, and she won't tell me until I find out, I love my job, but I can't make my mom pay for it, so I quit my job and choose to work at home.

There will be a gap and contradiction between the older generation and their children in terms of employment, and behind this contradiction is the difference in experience and ideals between the two sides for several years.

I will do what I say, because my dad is not in good health and can't make her angry, I choose a job that they think is more decent, and I do what I like to do in my spare time, so as not to cause a family war!

My mom and dad were separated because of work, before my parents lived apart for a long time, there was no family to take care of each other, and understanding separated over time, now my mom often asked me to quit my current job, I didn't understand why, it turned out that I wanted me to take care of the family more, spend more time with him, so I quit my job and took care of the family's business with her.

The teacher is good, the teacher has a public holiday, the teacher is an iron rice bowl, it has been like this since I was a child, every time I take the teacher qualification, I will not pass the exam, I have been taking the exam for 5 years, but I deliberately just want to do what I want to do, I told my parents that the teacher will continue to take the exam, but you can't hinder what I want to do.

At first, I didn't talk to my dad for three days because of work, but I still chose to resign, I chose to write a letter to my dad, telling him what I think, why I should insist on starting a business, and I also learned that he was afraid that I would run into walls everywhere, and I also told him that I didn't want to be a flower in a greenhouse.

I am the so-called good girl who will listen to her parents for everything, work, marriage and become what kind of person I become, I don't think there is anything wrong with that, and I also enjoy my life now, and I am grateful to my parents for everything they chose for me.