-
You and I are in a similar situation, and I am also a person with low self-esteem and introverts. Keep in touch with friends and classmates, socialize with people, and slowly you will find that you are no longer an introvert, no matter what you do, you must be bold and courageous, don't feel that you have no friends, friends are occasionally busy, it does not mean forgetting, if you want, I will be your friend. May you have a happy day in the future!
Friends believe in themselves, and the strength is in their hearts!
Don't worry about the road ahead, no one knows you at the end of the world!
-
In the past, the relationship was not good before, let alone after many years.
If you want to find a bosom friend from them in the past, then you don't have to, the odds should be pitifully small, their opinion of you is still stuck in the past, how will they accept you?
It's better to set off today, move towards the future, be bold, brave, and smart, and look for the future or from your side.
I believe that if you are sincere, then you will soon find a good friend who is sincere to you, and maybe he or she is by your side, waiting for you to dig out.
Friends, believe in yourself, tomorrow, just tomorrow, you will be friends all over the world.
-
In fact, it is enough to make one or two intimate friends in life. Why win by quantity.
I'm sure someone will find out your sincerity and you'll make your own good friends!
-
Well, you weren't playing in the same circle before, so they're so cold now. Besides, even if people who used to play well together, they still don't contact each other now when they are not in the same circle, and they just meet and greet each other. Therefore, if you want to find a friend, it is recommended that you first start with people with whom you regularly interact.
Of course, when dealing with others, sometimes you have to be proactive, talkative, and dare to express your own ideas.
-
Silent introverts are usually those who are shy, unconfident, shy, reserved, sensitive, or nervous in social situations. These people may feel uncomfortable or anxious because they are afraid that their topics or actions will be judged or criticized by others.
Here are some of the factors that may cause a person to be silent and introverted:
Childhood experiences: Some people may have been emotionally or physically hurt or neglected as children, and this experience can affect their self-esteem and self-perception, making them less confident and introverted.
Social phobia: Social phobia is an anxiety disorder that causes people to feel extremely upset and uncomfortable in social situations. Social phobia can be a cause of a person's silence and introversion.
Personality traits: Certain personality traits, such as sensitive, cautious, introverted, and thoughtful, may make people tend to be more introverted and silent.
Cultural factors: Some cultures may encourage people to be more conservative and cautious, and not willing to take risks, which can also lead to reticent introversions.
In conclusion, silent introverts can have different reasons, including childhood experiences, social phobia, personality traits, and cultural factors, among others. If you consider yourself a silent introvert, you can seek professional help, such as a counsellor or social skills training course, to improve your social skills and self-confidence.
-
1.Introverts like to think alone. For example, there are four people in front of you asking them the same question, three of them are exchanging ideas, and the introvert who knows the answer is silent.
But when you deliberately ask him for the answer, he rightly tells you that a true introvert likes to be adored by others alone.
2. I like to prepare surprises.
While introverts may seem self-explanatory, they also have a lot of great ideas. They are nice to their friends and often surprise them. The smile on their friend's face at that moment made them feel happy, and all their hard work paid off.
3. Double-sided personality.
Introverts are characteristic, introverts are sometimes reticent and sometimes talkative, and studies by psychologists have shown that true introverts have contrasting personalities. One second is still the second before life, and the next second can talk to you about history. This unique two-sided personality is also a unique manifestation of an introvert.
4. Love to observe.
Introverts are relatively quiet in a group, not because they are shy and too to speak, but because they prefer to observe, but because they participate and be the central figure.
5. Good at completing work independently.
Introvert doesn't mean that he can't work with others, he just likes to find answers on his own instead of asking others for solutions everywhere, so introverts are good at getting things done independently.
-
Hello, either born or acquired. Introverts don't have to be articulate, but they tend to prefer to be alone.
Congenital people will gradually lose interest in long-term social activities, that is to say, too much communication with the outside world is an energy drain for them, unlike people with obvious extroverted personalities, who are more and more energetic when they talk, and generally this typical introvert is good at thinking, reading and other activities of solitude.
Acquired introversion is generally formed due to low self-esteem, changes, family environment and other external factors, and congenital introverts are more like avoiding communication with the outside world.
To put it simply, congenital introversion is sullen, and acquired introversion is shyness.
-
Silence is a kind of wisdom, silence is the silent resistance given by smart people in the face of different environments, he does not use his own language to argue, respect the other party's opinions, and do not want to quarrel with them, and introversion is a lot of caution does not say or is ashamed to express, unwilling to meet with outsiders, afraid of interacting with outsiders, this manifestation is introverted.
-
Silence is an extreme Calm on the surface Don't perish in silence Explode in silence Introversion is a kind of personality Introverts are more terrible This kind of person doesn't need too many people to understand On the surface, it seems to be low-key In fact, he lives quite a high posture and can endure loneliness Walking Hu Tangerine is the NB road that no one feels to take.
The 2nd floor Lethe messenger.
The difference between not wanting to say and not being able to say.
A walker knife on the 3rd floor.
Introversion is a personality problem Silence is an external problem such as emotions or attitudes or appearances Introverts like to be silent because they don't like to show themselves, like to hide their thoughts and practices, don't like to socialize, don't like public activities, like to do their own things quietly, or are shy or afraid or helpless Silence definitely does not mean introversion. Some people say that silence is golden, so silence has the positive meaning of both self-cultivation and restraint.
4th floor wilderness wind.
Silence is not necessarily introverted, introverted self-determination.
-
Silence is disdain to express or not want to express.
Introversion is not good at expressing or is shy to express.
-
Do you feel how sunny and cheerful and extroverted you used to be, but I don't know where to start, you become introverted and miserable inside, and the person has not changed, becoming just time and the truth of certain things.
If there is only one human life, then it is a pity to be so painful, everyone understands the truth, but it can't withstand the distress of reality and the troubles of life, but I still want to say, "May you return, you are still a teenager!" ”
One. I can see it too clearly.
Perhaps the cruelest thing is that the beauty you once thought was beautiful, looking back at it, it turned out to be a bubble, your love, friendship, family affection, you feel that you can only rely on yourself in this world, and everything else is unreliable, so you are silent and slowly put your heart in your stomach.
Two. Lose your original intention.
Have you ever lost anything? Is your original intention still there? Have you long forgotten what you are moving forward for? You have used all your strength but lived an ordinary life, this feeling is suppressed in your heart, which makes people very tired, so you don't even have the strength to say it!
Three. Indulge in a fling at.
Let a person be silent, not only betrayal, but also pressure from the general environment, this world will always be more visitors than chess, not to point out a few words on the side, that is uncomfortable, so don't believe the guidance of outsiders, or fear the accusations of others, follow your heart!
It's not just life that silences people, but also the complex human hearts in this world! But I still believe that in a certain pure land, there is a group of people who inspire people to do good, they may be philosophers, thinkers, or ordinary village aunts, ordinary passers-by.
Pay attention to the "psychology expert", you and I will warm up together in winter!
-
Acceptance: Introversion isn't entirely a bad thing, introversion has the advantages and benefits of being introverted:
1 Introverts tend to be more observant and think more deeply.
2 Introverts have a stable temperament, generally do not take the initiative to cause trouble, and are not easy to offend others.
3 Easier to focus. It is easier to take root in certain fields and make achievements and contributions.
4 Inner emotions and feelings are richer and more delicate. It is easier to experience and feel the inner thoughts of others, and to develop empathy and understanding.
Analysis: Introversion is neither scary nor shameful. A lot of good people are also introverts.
Introversion is just one of many personality traits, not all of you, and can't hide the rest of your aura. Everyone has so many shortcomings (and introversion is not a disadvantage), but to achieve success, it is enough to bring out the best in the world.
Social skills can be learned and cultivated, and they are not necessarily related to introversion and extroversion.
Attitude: Grow and gain in solitude, and enjoy yourself.
Allow yourself to be introverted.
While accepting yourself as an introvert, you gradually adapt to your interactions with others and increase the topics of communication.
Don't be afraid to owe favors. Don't be afraid to trouble others and feel that you can't get away. People are built up because of each other's troubles.
If you can't find a topic to talk to, then you can also be silent and smile. Even if you don't speak, it's enough to listen. Sometimes being a quiet listener can be reassuring and comfortable for the person who is talking.
Method: Learn more and learn about some knowledge, hot topics, and jokes to prepare for communicating with people.
Participate in group-type sports hobbies. In extroverted interest interactions, a person's social skills will slowly improve.
Participate in social activities, learn about social networking (see Getting along with others for details), and take the initiative to meet new people.
Try to cultivate a warm and sincere attitude and take the initiative to greet people, which will forget and ease your introversion in interpersonal interactions.
Pay attention to other people's world and focus less on yourself.
Get in touch with people with cheerful personalities.
Do sales, participate in debates, etc., and speak actively.
Children's education: 1. Actively encourage children to take the initiative to speak, communicate with children more often, and encourage and guide children to communicate with other children.
2 Encourage your child to try and not be afraid to fail.
3. Nurture your child's interests and hobbies, and encourage your child to take the initiative to participate in social activities.
4. Create a harmonious family atmosphere so that introverted children are more willing to express themselves.
5. Exercise your child's independence. Communicate more with the outside world, and parents create more conditions for children to accomplish something independently. Like buying something.
6 After the epidemic is over, take your children to visit relatives and friends, and socialize with children in the community.
-
Not necessarily, sometimes something forces you to be silent, but it doesn't have to be an introvert. Introversion is innate.
-
Hello, either born or acquired. Introverts don't have to be articulate, but they tend to prefer to be alone.
Congenital people generally lose interest in long-term social activities, that is to say, too much communication with the outside world is an energy drain for them, and laughing scum is not like the obvious extroverted personality of people who talk more and more energetic, this kind of typical introverted person is generally good at thinking, reading and other activities of solitude.
Acquired introversion is generally due to low self-esteem, changes, family environment and other external factors, and congenital introverts, they are more like to avoid communicating with the outside world.
To put it simply, congenital introversion is sullen, and acquired introversion is shyness.
Introversion and extroversion are one dimension of personality, and there is no good or bad thing. Introversion and extroversion are a continuum, and introversion and extroversion are at opposite ends of this continuum. In real life, we use both sides of this continuum. >>>More
Introverts don't actually like to talk, they just have social phobia, and they don't like to talk to people who don't know each other, but they have a good relationship with people who are very familiar with them, and they talk a lot, so take your time and start with familiarity. >>>More
What I said upstairs, although it is short but not unreasonable, in fact, this is the questioner is too sensitive, introverts are also people, extroverts are also people, they can be treated in the same way, don't think too much, you go to cater to others every day, that's not exhausting, there are not only introverts and extroverts in the world, you just need to treat everything with your own attitude, see the response is making small changes, you will definitely get twice the result with half the effort.
Be kind to her first, have a good impression of you, write love letters, and be introverted like this.
Do it, it's up to you to choose what you want to do; If you don't do it, you choose not to do it. How you organize your life is entirely up to you. With all due respect, I don't think your problem is a big deal, but I feel that you have no goals, your life is very floating, you have no focus, and you are not willing to endure hardships, in fact, you are very clear about your own problems, but you don't want to spend time using your brain, so you are asking this question, and you want to easily get the answer you want, is that so? >>>More