What does a man s reluctance to pay for you say? Can you elaborate on that?

First of all, because the guy doesn't really like you, so he doesn't want to waste too much time and energy on you. The second is to treat you as a spare tire.

It shows that the man doesn't love you very much, is unwilling to pay for you, is not willing to spend time on you, and in his heart, you are not so important.

Yes, if a man is not willing to pay for you, it means that your position in his heart is not important, he doesn't love you at all, he just wants to hang you.

Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because there is no protection of true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!

Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

Love someone: Be tolerant with a lot of heart.

Love someone: Be open-minded.

Love someone: Respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

Love someone: Support him or her behind his or her back, not hinder him/her.

Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

Love someone: Hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know.

Love someone:...Too much love.

Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? It's not that hard.

The most important point is:

Love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

If a man says he loves you, but is unwilling to give, it means that the man's heart is inconsistent, he doesn't really love you, and he only pays you with his mouth.

That this man is duplicitous, he doesn't love you very much, and saying this is just fooling you. If you really fall in love with someone, you must be willing to pay for her sincerely.

This kind of duplicitous man, it's best to keep him away from you.

I think the reason is that this man doesn't really love you, he just talks about it, so he doesn't want to give.

The reason is that this man doesn't really love you at all, he always treats you as a spare tire, and his feelings for you are not real.

It is possible that he just talks about you and treats you as a spare tire, and does not want to treat you sincerely, if he really loves you, he will be willing to pay for you.

Whether a man really loves you, to see if he is willing to pay for you, the first thing is money, although it is very cheesy to talk about money, but whether a man loves you really depends on whether he is willing to spend money for you, and then time, a person who loves you is willing to spend time with you.

The first is time, he is willing to accompany you on dates, go shopping with you, and eat with you. The second is to be willing to pay money, he is willing to buy you some of the things you need, and is willing to spend money to make you happy.

Are you willing to pay time and energy for you, willing to pay money for you, willing to respect each other.

If a man says that he loves you and never gives, then he may not really love you, or he has his own peculiar understanding of the concept of giving and love. In a healthy relationship, both parties need to give, including time, energy, attention, and love, to name a few.

If a man only pays lip service to you, but never takes any real action or blindly asks for it, and does not care about your needs and feelings, then he is probably just using you or otherwise obtaining satisfaction. In this case, women need to examine whether their feelings are really worth the effort.

However, it is also possible that the man has a problem with the way he expresses himself, and he may need more communication and understanding to solve his problem. The best way is to build a relationship of mutual respect and trust, based on mutual support, to face life's problems and difficulties together.

It may be just lip service, and there is no strength to pay if you want to.

Not all men are this one, but some men may verbally express their feelings, but not in action. This could be because they lack the ability to express feelings, or because they don't really care about you.

It is important for Tan Qingqing to recognize that a man's words and actions may be inconsistent because he has other problems or motives. If you feel that his words and actions are inconsistent, it is best to talk to him directly, let him know how you feel, and try to solve the problem.

We men don't spend money on women, that's too normal, you just can't spend money on your women, other things are easy to say, spending money is being cheated, besides, there is no need to spend money on women before marriage, true love doesn't need money to measure!