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It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. As a younger brother and sister-in-law quarrel and scold the old man together, the eldest sister should first persuade her younger brother to let the anger of both parties disappear, and then, calmly communicate with the younger brother and daughter-in-law, you must not take the old man to scold together in a conflict and quarrel, this is a sign of disrespect for the elderly. Then persuade the younger brother to be good to his brother-in-law, and the big man will let it go, and he won't be able to suffer.
The family lives in harmony, and everything is prosperous!
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Who else do you like? You're going to scold your brother.
After scolding your brother, and then you say a few good words to your brother and daughter-in-law, see if your brother and daughter-in-law are reasonable people, or the one with a more conscientious heart, what do you think is your brother's and daughter-in-law's attitude?
Anyway, you all married her, and if he is a vexatious person, then your family will have to endure it, and your brother's life will have to live.
It's better to talk more about your brother's fault, or if you are in front of your brother's daughter-in-law, your brother's life will be difficult in the future. The old man's life is not easy either, and he must feel very uncomfortable when he sees this situation.
Today is Sunday, you pull your brother and daughter-in-law away, and I will buy you cosmetics and clothes to dissipate your anger, and see how it goes.
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The eldest sister is better to mix less. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs. Don't persuade yourself to get involved.
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Tell him to come and fight, and then talk about it later, when the eldest sister is involved, there will be more contradictions, this younger brother and sister are a little unreasonable, so when he loses his anger in the future, you can talk to him calmly, otherwise, you will also become a bad person.
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You can say that if there are any conflicts to be resolved privately, or if there are any difficulties, see if I can help, but pay attention to civilized language, don't hurt the elderly, and don't scold husband and wife, it will affect the feelings of the two people.
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This situation can only make his younger brother angry, on the one hand, there is something to make the woman respect, the so-called love and the house; On the other hand, when encountering this situation, you should protect your parents and not let the woman develop bad habits.
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At this time, everyone is angry, and it is useless to persuade him... Only drive them all out and calm down.
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As the eldest sister, no matter how much you persuade you, it's not appropriate? Because you persuade your brother and daughter-in-law to hold a grudge against you. You should find time to talk to your brother and let him take care of his daughter-in-law.
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When you are angry, you don't say a word, and when you wait for him to break the news, you can reason with him, who has dual parents? It's hard enough for your parents to give birth to you, don't make them too sad.
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Look at the crab coldly, and persuade it afterwards, otherwise it will backfire, add fuel to the fire, and your kindness will not be rewarded.
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I think if your brother quarrels with your brother-in-law, even the old man scolds you together, you must talk to your brother-in-law or your brother. Well, how do you fight with each other? I may not be able to interfere, but your mother and old man certainly can't.
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Persuasion does not necessarily work, one person gives a slap in the face, and it is guaranteed to stop.
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First go to persuade the elderly, and then go to the younger brother and sister-in-law.
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The eldest sister-in-law is actually a very sensitive character.
In the face of the contradiction between parents and younger brothers and sisters-in-law, as a daughter of a monk, her identity is indeed sensitive, whether it is from the perspective of women to persuade or from the perspective of family affection, it seems unreasonable, because the younger brother is the younger brother, but the younger brother and daughter-in-law will think that they should not be involved too much. Therefore, when parents quarrel with younger brothers and sisters-in-law, we should take the initiative to let them stop quarreling, and take our parents to our side to persuade and enlighten them, so that they can resolve the conflict.
At this time, the most taboo is to add fuel to the fire. There are some sisters-in-law who think that they can control everything in the family, and when they face conflicts between their parents and their younger brothers and sisters-in-law, they unilaterally think that the younger brothers and sisters-in-law do not respect their parents, and they only feel sorry for their parents and blame their younger brothers and daughters-in-law, which does not solve the fundamental problem, but makes things more difficult to solve. After adding fuel to the fire, in the end, it is the parents and the younger brother and sister-in-law who face the relationship between the two sides, and the sister-in-law will not bear the final consequences, so such big pants are not in favor of everyone learning, we should analyze the problem rationally, and at the same time, both sides are trying their best to persuade in a good direction.
The stability of the family requires everyone's dedication, whether it is parents, younger brothers, younger brothers-in-law, or even themselves, they all need to contribute to this relationship. Many people understand this, so are able to have family relationships.
China and China live in harmony and develop in great harmony. But some people don't understand these blindly, thinking that only by mastering all the rhythms by themselves can they make a great contribution to the whole family, trying to control everyone's thoughts and destiny, in fact, the final result is the disintegration of the family. Therefore, we should have a holistic view and proceed from the interests of the whole when facing family relationships, rather than relying solely on individual gains and losses and feelings.
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I think the eldest sister-in-law should try not to interfere in the quarrel between the younger brother and sister-in-law, if the quarrel is very strong, we can stop it, if the two are just a small quarrel, we try not to participate too much, because the husband and wife generally quarrel at the head of the bed, and the end of the bed quarrels with today, and tomorrow it will be fine, and the sister-in-law will be more embarrassed to get involved.
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I think you should enlighten your parents, let them relax, don't care too much about their affairs, live for yourself, and don't worry too much.
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You can communicate with your parents and try to keep a certain distance between the two, so as to effectively avoid conflicts.
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1. Generally, you should not persuade this kind of thing at the time. If you persuade at that time, it will be very difficult to find out the disadvantages whether you are standing there, and you will quietly talk to your brother later.
2. The most important thing is that you have to make your brother-in-law feel that you are fair, don't be partial, she may be emotionally lonely, and she can confide in you, indicating that you are her trust, don't hurt this trust, how can there be so many rights and wrongs in the family judgment family. Lap code.
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Summary. Hello dear, glad to answer for you. 1. First of all, at this time, you should have a good talk with your younger brother, ask him why he quarreled with his brother-in-law, and whose reason it was, but don't join your supervisor's assumptions.
2. Then persuade them to calm down, first persuade your brother-in-law not to be angry, it's my brother who is not good, I make you angry, I apologize for my brother, do this, my brother-in-law will not feel that she is an outsider in this family. 3. Finally, mediate and persuade, although the younger brother is his own family and the younger brother-in-law is a foreign surname, do not favor the younger brother and have prejudices against the younger brother-in-law, and correct their contradictions and mistakes fairly and justly.
My brother and sister-in-law quarreled, how should I persuade them.
Hello dear, glad to answer for you. 1. First of all, at this time, you should have a good talk with your younger brother, ask him why he quarreled with his brother-in-law, and whose reason it was, but don't join your supervisor's assumptions. 2. Then persuade them to calm down, first persuade your brother-in-law not to be angry, it's my brother who is not good, I make you angry, I apologize for my brother, do this, my brother-in-law will not feel that she is an outsider in this family.
3. Finally, mediate and persuade, although the younger brother is his own family and the younger brother-in-law is a foreign surname, do not favor the younger brother and have prejudices against the younger brother-in-law, and correct their contradictions and mistakes fairly and justly.
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First of all, what is the contradiction between your brother and your brother-in-law? If it's because of some trivial things, then you don't want to meddle, you just need to be a middleman, if the contradiction between your brother and brother-in-law is relatively big, you have to reconcile, after all, there must be a reason for the contradiction between the husband and wife. You can persuade the two of them and let them communicate well, after all, any problems between the husband and wife can be solved.
If the two of them really don't have any feelings, you don't have to worry about them. You just have to be yourself, after all, you are the bridge between the two of them, if the two of them really can't get along, then you have to persuade them. You can ask your brother to visit your brother's daughter-in-law more, after all, your brother-in-law is pregnant now, if your brother doesn't visit him often, he will definitely be a little unhappy in his heart, you can let your brother visit her more, so that the relationship between the two of them should ease up.
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