My boyfriend wishes I could be bold and proactive, but what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If your boyfriend really loves you, these are not problems, love is accommodating to each other, maybe your boyfriend just feels that he can't get your response blindly and is a little discouraged, girls should take the initiative when they should take the initiative, too passive... It doesn't seem to be good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, your approach and ideas are correct and support you. If this man just wants something, then this man doesn't love you. Don't.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're right,,, if a man really loves you, he won't leave you because of anything, hehe, he doesn't love you ...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Boys are like that, and when they have a move, they want girls to cooperate.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You take the initiative to kiss him, take the initiative to hug him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Only when you have loved do you know what love is.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is not difficult. But grasp the degree. Occasionally ask her out to play, out to dinner, to watch a movie... Take the initiative to chat with her, take the initiative to show love... Because you're a girl, you need to be reserved, so don't be too proactive. That's enough.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Learn a few more tricks, now you can find them everywhere on TV and the Internet.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to take the initiative when the relationship happens.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Under what circumstances should you take the initiative? Is it acceptable to take the initiative in dealing with things? If you want to get into it, it's best to avoid it, so that you can better protect yourself?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you take the initiative for a long time, you will feel that you deserve it, and you will not cherish it again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Listen to your boyfriend, after all, it's not a bad thing to be proactive, what do you say?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The initiative is that you contact him more than he contacts you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Take the initiative to make him feel inseparable from you, not without you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just open a room and wait for him

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you're fine, you can send some messages and just hit **.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What the hell is it for you to take the initiative?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your boyfriend says to take the initiative, so isn't that easy? Take the initiative, but it means to take the initiative to speak, or to take the initiative.

    Anyway, the meaning of initiative lies in the initiative in words and deeds, so when you chat with him, you must take the initiative to provoke the topic, because there is a topic to talk about, and it can be continued slowly, so it doesn't feel embarrassing.

    Or is there some initiative in behavior, such as taking the initiative to walk, taking the initiative to go for a walk, or taking the initiative to do something? In this case, it will help to promote the relationship between the two.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Have you ever had sex before.

    Hehe. Girls are stupid.

    Tell him and let him teach you.

    Actually. Personally, I feel like it's a boy's business.

    I don't feel how to take the initiative when I do it.

    How do you call it?

    My wife used to be stupid too.

    Nothing.

    But so it is. This one.

    I'm more proactive.

    Kindness. Teach her how to do it.

    And it's more comfortable to do.

    She said I was more comfortable than I used to do.

    Then she had feelings.

    When you're comfortable, you're more active unconsciously.

    And. Call it.

    It's also comfortable when it's unconscious.

    How can you call it uncomfortable.

    You go. It is recommended that you don't let him be in such a hurry before you do it.

    The prelude is about for an hour and a half.

    It's true. I kid you not.

    After that, I'm making sure you're very high.

    And what's more. Try trying to change to a new position.

    It's also very good.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, it's normal for your boyfriend to say that this situation is very normal, because boys are more shy, so you don't have to worry, as long as you love each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Men and women have been familiar with each other before, so they will naturally have a lot of things they want to express, such as expressing their love and cultivating mutual understanding.

    Occasionally, you can let go of your reserve and take the initiative to find him or communicate with him.

    Let's learn slowly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A good girl really doesn't want to tell you what the man thinks in his heart You haven't done it and it's very simple to take the initiative If you do, you first tease him and take the initiative to ask for it or give him a hold This is the initiative.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To say that you don't take the initiative in that aspect is right because your boyfriend takes the initiative.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't like to take so much initiative and be yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm dizzy, my family is too proactive.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Boyfriend or fiancée or husband?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Accompany him more and take the initiative to chat.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    He just wants to do whatever he wants.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Husband, come up! You come up? That's it!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's not easy, if he really likes you, he will take the initiative to contact you.

    Then the first thing you need to do is to make your boyfriend love you very much.

    Let me analyze it from a boy's point of view, first of all, most boys don't like girls who are just starting to take the initiative.

    You're going to try to whet his appetite first, you know? Don't take the initiative to find him first if you're fine.

    There is always an active one in love, and since you want to be passive, you need to use a little strategy.

    There is also to make himself a little more elegant, so that he always has the illusion that if he does not take the initiative.

    Lose your feelings at any moment and make him nervous.

    That way, he'll be in touch with you all the time.

    But after all, you are still a partner, you should care about the other party or a relationship, and if he asks you to go on a date, you must also agree.

    Otherwise, your boyfriend will think that you are consciously estranged from him, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship between the two of you.

    There is also how sweet it should be to meet.

    Don't take the initiative to contact him as soon as you get home, let him slowly develop a habit and take the initiative to call you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't contact you? Isn't it annoying that someone else's boyfriend pesters his girlfriend all day long, but his boyfriend doesn't contact him? Don't worry, this content will teach you how to deal with the problem of your boyfriend not contacting you.

    We can often see that most of the female friends who are in love around us are very happy, their boyfriends always care about every detail of them, and they will take the initiative to chat with them every day, but there are also a few girls' boyfriends who are not like this. What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't contact you? Girls should have an in-depth understanding of this problem, this is a common problem, only you know the coping strategy can make your love go further.

    If your boyfriend doesn't contact you, it may be because he is busy, and you have a break when he has free time, so he can't bear to bother you.

    In this case, the girl can take the initiative to contact her boyfriend, go to his place of work and wait for him to get off work, chat with him while eating, let him know that you want him not to be busy with work and ignore himself, or take the initiative to contact himself for two or three days a week, and also show that he can understand him, if you encounter any difficulties at work, you can tell yourself and help him share, so that your relationship will not fade because of not contacting, anyway, it may be because of your active contact to become warmer.

    Secondly, if he is not busy with work, but he does not take the initiative to contact you, then you can have a temper tantrum with him, pretend to be angry and ignore him, let him notice that he has not contacted you for a long time, when he admits his mistake to you, you ask him to contact himself often in the future, if you still make this kind of mistake, then it will be over between you, give him a vaccination, make him nervous, and naturally dare not contact you in the future.

    Another strategy is that you can ask your boyfriend's brother to help him and let him remind him that he hasn't contacted his girlfriend for a long time, and if this continues, the girlfriend will run away with someone else, so that he will definitely contact you in a hurry.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    1. Take the initiative to hint that you have time to date.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, ask you, when will you take the initiative to contact your boyfriend? Be.

    Zhi is not your special dao don't love her, version.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Boyfriend bai friend doesn't take the initiative to contact you, does it mean that du he is not so interested in zhi you dao is dispensable, you contact him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    My boyfriend and I are just bai, but I never take the initiative to contact him, usually he contacts me. 、

    Even if he doesn't contact DAO.

    I'm not in a hurry, and it's useless for you to be in a hurry.

    It's true, it's not that you really tell you not to contact him, maybe it's true that if you don't contact him, he won't contact you, but if you keep fighting like this, you won't have hope, and it will only make your relationship more and more stiff.

    Why bother? Put your mind on level. Let's live your life first.

    When he feels that he doesn't have you by his side, he will wonder and contact you, if he really hasn't contacted you, it proves that he doesn't care about you anymore, so why bother with it???

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Have you ever had sex before.

    Hehe, girls are stupid.

    Tell him and let him teach you.

    Actually. Personally, I feel like it's a boy's business.

    I don't feel how to take the initiative and how to call it.

    My wife used to be stupid and couldn't do anything.

    But so it is. This I'm more proactive.

    En taught her how to do it and it was more comfortable to do.

    She said I was more comfortable than I used to do.

    And then when she feels comfortable, she unconsciously takes the initiative.

    And. It's also unconsciously when it's comfortable.

    How can you call it uncomfortable.

    You go. It is recommended that you don't let him be in such a hurry before you do it.

    The prelude comes for an hour and a half before saying really I don't lie to you.

    After that, I'm making sure you're very high.

    And what's more. Try trying to change to a new position.

    It's also very good.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Could mm be a little frigid? If this is the case, it is best to consult a doctor.

    Although it is said that you should express your true feelings in Heyi, you can also pretend to feel some and respond to your boyfriend, because this is mutual, you should also consider your boyfriend's feelings, which is also a way to enhance the relationship between two people.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    He has a problem with his technique, you can touch him more and praise him more, and it will be fine. Slowly you will feel it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Then when you do it with him, touch him more, take the initiative to kiss him, even if you can't call him, you just yell and call him by his name affectionately.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Let's take a look at some European and American **, it's always good to practice.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The answer is really all master, apprentice, I'm here to the master, please press.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If your boyfriend wants you to take the initiative to find him, I think you should go, because this is a new era, and both boys and girls can take the initiative, so it will be more pleasant to get along.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think if you can, there is no problem with your relationship, you can take the initiative to find him, and the feelings are mutual. He wants you to take the initiative to find him just to see his place in your heart, after all, it will be very tiring for a person to take the initiative for a long time.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    My boyfriend wants you to take the initiative to find him, I think you can go to him if you have time, and contact your feelings more, after all, you have to get along with each other to be more intimate. But the relationship is mutual, not only can you take the initiative to find him, but your boyfriend can also take the initiative to come to you, you need both parties to cooperate well, you need both parties to take the initiative, and the relationship will be better.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's okay to take the initiative appropriately, and for men, they may also want to be able to get your love, and he can feel that you love him.

    Usually two people get along, if they are sincere, they will be happier, they don't care who takes the initiative, love is natural.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you really love him so much and like him, then you should go to him desperately. If you don't love him, you don't have to look for him.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's okay if he's too busy and you're free.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Go for it if you like it.

    Sometimes boys like to be pampered too.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Are you worried about becoming a beast walking on the roof Will the rhythm of the heartbeat be paused At the end of time Endless words to say Endless excuses Will you be ruthless Dissect who I love with pride Can I accept you Is it addictive Please land slowly Healing banana endure Qin thrashing.

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