Recently, I feel that something is wrong with my husband, how can I be

You can communicate with your husband calmly about this matter, and the key to communicating the letter is to listen first. It's important to listen first.

1. Tell your husband that you find something wrong with your salary, listen to your husband's statement first, and determine if there is anything that you think too much about or misunderstand.

2. If you don't think too much or misunderstand, you can express to your husband that you already know that your husband is hiding her income. Listen to your husband's thoughts, there must be his thoughts behind the fact that your husband is hiding his income, and express understanding of his thoughts or concerns.

3. After understanding your husband's thoughts, express your love to your husband and let him know that you love him, and you hope that you can manage your marriage and family together.

4. Express your views on your husband's concealment of income, and hope that you can plan your family's finances with your husband in the future.

You should look for the reason within yourself, and I personally think that unless he has a mistake in principle, it is your problem, whether it is too tired or too stressed.

Because you have a feeling in your heart that feels better than him.

It's the same as me, but I'm not married and my boyfriend is here.

Married for eight years, without any waves, after seven years of itching, my husband is not a romantic Nahuai person, in life, we do not have the so-called sense of ceremony, that is, a plain and simple life, in the face of daily firewood, rice, oil and salt, in-law relations, children's education, recently feel particularly powerless, anxiety is gradually intensifying, due to the work relationship of the husband, he will often travel, every time he used to go on a business trip WeChat, ** is not less, but recently, I found that when he was on a business trip, if I did not take the initiative to contact him, He rarely reports his own itinerary, and the little time at home is also the mobile phone does not leave his hand, for me, the children and the things of this family are not concerned, and whenever I pick up his mobile phone, he will be very nervous, has been watching what I do with his mobile phone, and when I found out that there is a chat software in his mobile phone I want to open to see, he did snatch the mobile phone and refused to let me see it, I know that there is a problem in our relationship, a woman's intuition, even if it is not a substantive problem, It's also smoothed out by the trivial things of life, there is no so-called love for each other, for the above problems, I will definitely have a big fight with him in the past, and I will grab the phone to see what is inside, but this time I didn't, but when he wanted to explain to me, I replied: Give you space and trust!

My husband was very surprised by my reply, saying that I was mature, but the real I would feel aggrieved and sad, for my husband who had no secrets with me in the past will now hide something from me, I really don't know how to go next?