Is it interesting to have a class dinner every semester in college?

In fact, as a college student, it is true that you want to have a good interpersonal relationship, but it is a little redundant to have a class dinner. Students don't use their own money to party, because they don't have the financial strength to do so. Therefore, it depends on the specific situation.

It's okay to go out appropriately to increase feelings, but it's not good to formalize this behavior. After all, that's the economic base to joke about.

Our college classmates have been together for more than four years, and this semester is the last semester! Let's share our relationship experience in the past few years. Our class has never had a dinner party, most of them have a dormitory as a unit, because ten people in a dormitory have at least six or seven birthday dinners a year.

The main way for class activities to connect with feelings is the theme class meeting arranged by the college every semester, we will unite to arrange the program, arrange the venue and other columns, and our singing competition has specially set up class songs to participate in the competition; In addition, our class will also organize a visit to some cultural centers not far from these neighborhoods, or the seaside of the tour, on a voluntary basis, and the cost is very low. Another time, the class went camping to the beach, climbed the mountain, etc., as long as someone is willing to organize and drive, it can make the class get a lot of emotional sustenance. As far as the dinner party is concerned, it is more monotonous, and it does not make the class group show more of the impressive feeling of sharing happiness and suffering......There are also more games to deepen the cooperation and happy ...... among students during the various themed class activities

Yes, you can contact the feelings of the students.

After the club held a successful event, we had a dinner, we had to invite guests to a scholarship dinner, we gathered friends and roommates for dinner when we fell out of love, and we got together to celebrate our ...... on our birthdayDinner parties have gradually become the norm in university life.

Of course, there are also college students who will be troubled by this: everyone calls me to go to dinner, to go or not to go? If you go, you have to spend more money on living expenses, and if you don't go, you won't have enough face......

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In my experience with dinner parties, dinner parties are usually divided into:Dinner with friends in the dormitory, dinner with student union departments or clubs, and class dinnerThese three categories. Many students have joined many student organizations and clubs in their freshman year, and their extracurricular life is rich and rich, and there are a lot of dinners, especially in the graduation season.

Dinner parties are usually AA system, and the average consumption per person is about 50 yuan, but it is also a lot of expenses to have more dinners. Too many meals are really unaffordable for many students. Except for a few students who have a mine at home, they can eat and drink at will, and most of the students take out money from their living expenses to have dinner.

Fifty to one hundred dinners per capita are indeed a lot of expenses. A fifty-year dinner allows me to eat three meals a day.

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About the number of dinners, there are not many in the fine

The main thing is to follow your own wishesIf the people at the dinner are your best friends, and if you especially want to go, then go. If it is a student union department or a club dinner, there is no special meaning and you don't know many people, so if you don't want to go, don't go. You have to learn to refuse, you have to refuse if you are hard-skinned, make an excuse, and ignore it.

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Dinner parties can be arranged on weekends, and even if you are free on weekdays, you should use them for studying, after all, the purpose of going to university is to study. When everyone is free, it's not too late to come out and exchange feelings.

College dinners, don't let it take up a lot of your time

Instead of spending that time sitting in an awkward environment and eating, use the time to improve yourself. For example, I didn't know anything in the first semester of my freshman year, and someone told me to go and go, wasting a lot of time on dinner parties, and my studies were not improved. <>

In general,Don't worry about college dinners, go whenever you want, but be modest and selective. University is used to learn professional knowledge, but at the same time, university life is also to learn to enjoy it

As a sophomore, my advice is to learn to judge, you go if it is useful to you, for example, you can meet some seniors who have made achievements in learning, and those who are useless to you, such as a class dinner or something, in my opinion, it is useless to socialize, there is no need, there is no need to go.

Speaking of dinners, they are generally divided into three categories: dormitory dinners, class dinners, and club dinnersIf you gather too many times, not only will your wallet be overwhelmed, but it will also be easy for people to get bored. I only had two meals in my freshman year, one was the first team building in my class, I'm sorry not to go, by the way, you can get to know your classmates; The second is to have dinner with seniors and listen to their suggestions for freshmen in college.

I think college dinners are becoming frequentIt is very unnecessary to get together before the holidays, after the start of school, and all kinds of dinners like classmates' birthdays and holidays. If you think about the classmates who have a birthday party, there are more than 30 people in a class, even if you don't know each other, half of them have to help celebrate the birthday, AA is at least 50 yuan at a time, then you have to spend nearly 1,000 yuan on the dinner。Dinner parties are just part of university activities, and there is no need to give too much added value.

Some first-year students I know have paid too much attention to club dinners and even delayed their studies and classes, which is naturally not worth advocating.

For dinners, I do this: if it's a department or club dinner, then only choose one or two that you think you like, and the seniors in it are the ones you really want to know, you can go, if you want to mix a familiar face, you can leave it behind, just find a reason to refuse.

After all, school is a temple of learning knowledge, and learning is the first priority。In my opinion, the so-called acquisition of certain resources and social skills through socializing such as dinner parties is nothing more than a misconception of society. It is better to change the way of communication, calm down, concentrate on learning, and improve yourself by having a meal.

<> I thinkStill going to goDon't be afraid, as someone who has finished college, I can say that I frequently appear at the teacher's dinner. At first, it was embarrassing to pick my feet, but now I can deal with it calmly

ActuallyWhether it is a university department dinner or a teacher's dinner, the nature is the sameThat's what they're forStrengthen communication and understanding between peopleto create more possibilities. ThatSince this is an opportunity, we should do more and more, not to mention creating network resources, even if we listen to classmates and teammates, we can also open our eyes and enrich our experience.

The dinner party is not so scary, in fact, the atmosphere is very relaxed, not as formal and serious as everyone thinks.

<>I remember when I was in college, every semester the teachers and the leaders of the student union would organize dinners, and my experience was thatJust be politeFirst and foremost, it isThe dinner party organized by the teacher is a must-attendanceThere is no reason why you can't really go to participate. Think about itEveryone in the class went, but you didn't go, whether the teacher will have a certain opinion about you. Of course, some teachers don't care about these sections, but we don't know if every teacher is like this.

Not only for this reason, but it is also the least respect you have for your teacher, even if you have a reason why you can't go, you must tell the teacher in advance, and take time out of your busy schedule to organize a party, if you don't go, you will inevitably have some pimples in your heart.

<> there are also small details to pay attention to at the party, such as yesTake the initiative to pour water for teachers and seniorsWhen you see that something is missing on the table, you have to take the initiative to ask the waiter to add it. It's not a slap in the face, it's a reflection of your high emotional intelligence, and no one will hate sensible children。At a partyYou don't need to be outstanding, just grasp the degree

Mainly, it isCourtesyYou are far less socially phobic than you think, and the dinner party is not so scary, just eat and drink enough and be happy.

Charlotte, where have you died all these years? You don't come to the class reunion every year, what difficulty do you really have to tell us all, even if everyone can't help you, can't you still be happy?

I also struggled with this question in my freshman year, but now that I am a senior, after three years of college, I have a very clear answerI think if you're really interested, you can participate, but if you're thinking about other reasons, such as face, connections, and so on, there's no need not to participate.

Useless socializing is a waste of time

From the first year of joining the department, for the next three or four years, there will be countless dinners, as little as three or four times a month, and as often as twice a week. The time of the dinner is variable, but usuallyThere are a lot of people, for more than 10 people, and usually in the evening, some of the more playful departmental dinners will even arriveWee hours of the morning。Having dinner with a group of classmates who don't know each other is actually quite painful, and the whole time is itProfessional smirk

If you go to a dinner party and are just embarrassed to refuseYou don't have to worry about this, except for the extremely important dinner party, if you don't want to go to the rest of the dinner, it is no problem at all. It's not just one person who doesn't go to every dinner. Since you don't want to waste time, just say it and use this time to do something else.

If you want to accumulate popularity at a dinner party,That probably doesn't work very well. Everyone's feelings are very superficial at dinner, and they won't write you down just because they have eaten a few more meals, and they won't help you because they have eaten with you a few times when they really encounter something. In fact, when you actually go out of college and out of society, you will find that some of the connections you met in the so-called party of the university are useless, and the fact is that I am nowI can't even remember who those people were.

These kinds of gatherings are useless socializing, so you don't need to waste time on them.

Join a fun dinner and relax

Departmental dinners usually arrange events with prior noticeIf you are interested in this activity, you can go and have fun. At this time, you don't need to think too much, as long as you feel that your time can be arranged, just participate and enjoy it. If you have fun this time, then continue to participate in the dinner party you are interested in next time, and if the experience is not good this time, you can consider it next time.

For example, there are the first class dinners and the first department dinnersIt is better to participate in a constructive dinner, but the next messy dinner is not necessarily, after all, time is limitedMeaningless potlucks are just a waste of time.

There are many kinds of dinner parties at the university, and you need to weigh whether you want to go or not.

On the one hand, some gatherings are indeed necessary, such as dormitory dinners, class dinners, etc. Class dinners not only increase the opportunity to communicate with classmates and connect with each other, but also bring the distance between students and teachers. Having dinner in the dormitory will enhance the relationship between the roommates, and they will become more familiar with each other and more harmonious, after all, the dormitory is a place where you will stay for a long time in college. Originally, everyone was not familiar with each other, but when we drove to the same city and lived together, there was occasionally an opportunity to sit together and have an open meal and chat, which was not a kind of happiness!

On the other hand, the money for dinners, college students generally need to spend 50-100 fees, and where does the money come from, most people are pulled out of the living expenses, although the money is not very much, but it can indeed eat a few meals by yourself, and if it is a useless dinner, you will only listen to people boast about it, and there is no benefit, not only a waste of time, but also a waste of money.

As an adult, we should know how to allocate our time and energy reasonably, know what we want to do and what we should do, and not compare our hearts.

Mine should go or go, and those who need to go can not go.

If it is a dormitory dinner, you can go there, so that the dinner can increase the relationship between the dormitory members, and it will have a great relationship with the previous relationship.

The other type of dinner party can not be avoided if it is not required. For example, if you have a professional dinner or some party or something, you don't need to participate if you don't feel that it will help you, but of course, in the end, it depends on your personal wishes and needs.

In the end, we must learn to judge what meetings we can attend and what we don't need to attend, and we must have the ability to judge.

That's my opinion.

Divide what the party is. Sometimes the party of the whole class may only be once a semester or even a year, so most people go, and as a chance for friendship and communication between classmates to increase feelings, you can go, if you don't go, it will also have a certain impact on the relationship with your classmates, and it will be very rusty.

But there are some club gatherings, or hometown gatherings, which may not have any substantive content, just for the sake of eating, drinking, and relaxing, then there is no need. After all, time, energy, and money are limited, so let's not take the unnecessary moral kidnapping of the so-called "not going to the group" to heart.

After all, college is a process of slowly transitioning from campus to social person, and you need to exercise yourself well, so this is also one of the ways to exercise, but pay attention to a degree, don't socialize for the sake of socializing!!