Can the woman s family conditions be too poor to marry?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I think that as long as you feel that the woman herself meets her own conditions, the woman's family conditions are too poor to marry. Because the woman's poor economy does not mean that the girl is not good enough, if the relationship between the two people is better, they will be happier in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    I don't know if you love her person or her family. You are marrying a daughter-in-law, not taking her family, and poor family conditions can be changed. The main thing is that if you really love your girlfriend, you should love everything about her, including her family, you love her personally, not her family, so you should marry her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Both parties to the marriage are right, if the woman's conditions are too poor, the character is very good. After getting married, the main thing is to look at character. Good character, can live with you.

    Will be diligent and thrifty. Bring family harmony. I think I can live with you for the rest of my life.

    After you get married, as long as you and your husband and wife work together. Economic conditions will improve greatly. The woman also respects her very much, and will sincerely love you and live with you for the rest of her life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Although many people pay attention to the right person now, but it is not absolute, the important thing is that you like each other, you want to live with her for a lifetime, and you also have to consider that you do not have the financial strength to give the woman backing, if you can't afford it, you must make it clear to the woman in advance, live your own small life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, according to your situation, first of all, if the conditions are too poor, it is best to think about it, after all, if the conditions are very poor, it will also affect your family in all aspects, so you still have to think about it clearly! The difference between the two families should not be too great!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, if the woman is better and she likes it very much, if she can marry within her ability, after all, she is the two of herself, and maybe her life is getting better and better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't know what your criteria are for finding a partner? However, the family conditions are very different, and it will bring a lot of problems in the future, since ancient times, there have been people who say that if the feelings of two people are average, I think it is better to plan early for the peace of the future. I wish you all happiness forever.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's up to you, marriage is about the right family, you like it, and it's nothing to marry a beggar.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Marriage should be based on affection.

    Other conditions should be properly considered.

    But not the deciding factor.

    A good emotional foundation is an important factor in a happy marriage.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That doesn't make it a reason for you to get it? He doesn't get in your way either. Other excuses for being a daughter-in-law.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love her, it doesn't matter what the conditions are, if you don't love her, the other party is the richest man, will you marry her home happily?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The man's family is not in good economic conditions, can he get married? It mainly depends on the following aspects.

    1. The boyfriend is not capable, self-motivated, and able to take on the pressure of a family. A family with good economic conditions may be able to give you a certain economic foundation, but in the end life still depends on yourself, so if your boyfriend is capable and self-motivated, then even if the family's economic conditions are not good, you can live a good life after your efforts in the later stage.

    2. Whether the man has an independent personality and a sense of responsibility. If your boyfriend is a mother-in-law and needs to listen to your parents everywhere, then such a person should marry carefully, because his economic conditions are not good, and he will have to listen to his mother-in-law in everything in the future, then the life of the two of you must be very unhappy.

    3. How many brothers and sisters does the boyfriend have in the family, and whether the boyfriend is the eldest in the family. If you are the eldest, you may also need to sponsor your siblings in the later stage, which will make your living more difficult.

    Family economic conditions are not necessary for marriage, because you are marrying your boyfriend, but the key is to see whether your boyfriend has the ability and whether he loves you enough, when your interests and the interests of the family conflict, what choice will your boyfriend make, if your boyfriend chooses home, then marry carefully, if you choose you, you can rest assured to marry.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you get married, you should first look at the person, then the family, and finally the family conditions。So whether you can marry depends first on your boyfriend, what is his character? How about work ability and interpersonal relationships?

    Is he a man who is responsible and responsible? What's his family atmosphere like? Is it a sensible family?

    What is the character of the parents? These are the most important things you should be thinking about.

    If your boyfriend is good in all aspects, his family is also very good, of course, your relationship is the first condition, then don't find fault with his family's economic conditions. No one is perfect, not to mention that you can't have both

    In short, a woman chooses to marry a man, even if he has poor conditions, as long as he has a very high fighting spirit and a good character, everything is for the two of them to be able to live better in the future, and keep working hard, so it is enough. Especially their family, it is a sensible and reasonable family, and they will not instill some lazy ideas in their children, which is much better than those families whose family conditions are very good, but they have raised children. As long as the thinking is correct, it is easy to stay rich, and those families who have been rich for no more than three generations are interested in economic conditions and do not value family education.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really love each other, you won't care about the financial problems of both men and women! Because they feel that as long as they are together, they are very happy. Because of material marriage, of course not.

    Since you asked this question, I suggest you think about it, you have material desires in your heart, he can't satisfy you, and you don't want to ruin him.

    Money can't solve all the problems in married life, let alone guarantee the quality of marriage, but now people seem to think, and affirm, that if you have money, you will be happy, and all the problems you encounter in front of you can be solved as long as you have money.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, you think you fancy this boy's money, or his character, if he has no money now but a person who has the pursuit of ideals, and is very good to you, I think you can consider accepting him, if you feel that her family conditions are not good, parents can't help him, and his ability is limited, can't give you want to make an appointment, then it's another matter, hope to adopt, I wish you happiness!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Their economic conditions are not good, whether they can marry or not, mainly depends on yourself, if you value your character more and are willing to suffer with him, of course you can marry, if you are more well, for the sake of married life and children's education issues, etc., maybe you need to think about it, because it is really difficult to have no money in this society now.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on whether you fancy money or love, if you want to marry money, then you can't marry, if you want to marry love, you want to make yourself happy, of course, as long as the man is good, the family conditions don't matter, he also wants to marry, the most important thing is good character, such a man can take care of you and give you happiness, such is the real man who can marry.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The man's poor family economic conditions are indeed a barrier between two people, but I think the most important thing about whether this person can marry depends on whether he is self-motivated, whether he is sincere to you, and whether he is good to you. If the answer to these questions is yes, then I think this man can be married, because it is the most difficult to find someone who is true to him in his life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Marriage needs an emotional foundation, but also needs a certain material foundation, the man's family conditions are not good, the key is whether you are true love, whether the man is worthy of your love, if it is only a temporary economic condition is not good, he loves you very much, can let you see a better future, you should believe in your choice.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are an emotional person, I think you should marry love, if you are a rational person, you should not marry so early, whether you can marry depends on whether you want to marry love, on the contrary, your boyfriend is not your ideal, so you will hesitate, if your boyfriend is not not your ideal, don't marry, there will be a lot of contradictions after marriage, and the harm to each other will be greater.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The man's family conditions are not good, can he marry? It depends on whether you love him or not? Don't care about her?

    If you love him. Regardless of poverty. Rich.

    will marry him, if you don't love her. Good condition. Also.

    Don't marry him. You're not married to a human being. Money.

    It is people who love. If you fancy it. Money.

    If the man's family conditions are not good, then you should not marry him. You have to see that he is human. The conditions are not good.

    To marry him. It's the right choice. Think about it yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Those materials are external things, the key is that your boyfriend's contribution is worth it if you do it for him, the rest doesn't matter, the days are run by two people!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It mainly depends on whether the man is able to bear it, whether he is motivated, what is the character and style of the individual and his family, and the most important thing is that you should be psychologically prepared, understand your situation, make a rational choice, and see if you can accept it

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Whether the current economy is good or not is not equal to whether your life will be good or not in the future, who you marry is very important, because he determines the state of your life for the rest of your life. Who you marry is more important, he is likely to determine the level and height of your life. Don't marry what you will, and don't marry against your will.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to pay less in order to pursue a comfortable life, you can choose to give up; Make sure it's a sincere feeling, value these more, and you can stay.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This situation must be carefully considered, after all, the experience of the ancients is still more reasonable, if you can stand his family, then you can marry, after all, this is something you must face after marriage.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, you have to communicate with your boyfriend about this concern, and then see if he is hardworking and can endure hardships, and he can still live a life in the future. is afraid that he will be too lazy, and then be comfortable with the status quo.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I want to ask, are you going to marry her or give him a fight? It's good that the family conditions are not good, but you have your hands, can't you start from scratch? Now there are many people who are starting from scratch and doing very well, do they have to have a cup of money that will throw you away?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is easy to ask for priceless treasures, and it is rare to have a lover. In addition, don't bully the poor of the young, don't bully the middle-aged poor, and don't bully the poor of the elderly.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, as long as you also feel that he is the person you entrust for life, then don't add pressure to him, and earn your own money and spend what you want to buy in the future.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, you can get married, as long as you really love each other. If the conditions are not good, it can be improved, but if the people's hearts are bad, it is difficult to change.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello! The premise is what kind of person is the boyfriend, as long as the boyfriend is responsible and responsible, caring that you and your family are worth marrying, and the man in his twenties has good family conditions that his parents earn, as long as the man has the ability to create value.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, when looking for a partner, you should first look at the person and see how the character is?

    But the economy is not in life. Missing. If the man's family because.

    Illness or poor economic conditions due to various reasons. This is acceptable. But if it's because of laziness.

    Good gambling. In this way, you must not marry it. Because the economy determines your social status, the economy determines the standard of living of your children, and the economy determines you.

    Lived in. in this family. Whether it is happy or not.

    One of the reasons. If because of illness. So what. is acceptable.

    Because the family is sick again. Would give to this family. It is impossible to cause.

    Turned over. Financial difficulties. But also prove this home.

    Very responsible. So that the man can marry.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Whether it is love or marriage, it is never inseparable from the support of money, so whether to choose a man or not, women will consider the man's family and economic situation, which is of course understandable.

    And at this time, a man who is relatively poor and has no money, you don't have to be so entangled in whether to marry him, just ask your heart to see if you can see the future in him.

    Marriage is not about falling in love, and again, marriage is not about falling in love. Married life requires an economic foundation, which is a hard condition, and this is not only a matter of your own problems, but also family problems.

    The economic account is difficult, this is not a reluctant problem, to a large extent, it will drive the personal concept of consumption, to make a simple example, in the case of affluent conditions, you want to buy a brand-name bag, this is normal, no one will point fingers, but in the case of economic constraints to buy, you have to cold to the thousand people. Even if the man agrees, the other family members will definitely object, and the contradictions are stacked in this way, and they will not stop until the moment of the end.

    If the relationship is deep, he is now at a low point in his life, and the days are still long, and it is unknown after that.

    It's a balance between emotion and reality, and when you ask this question, you're already putting your boyfriend on the scale of value. Whether the scale is tilted or not, I know best.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think that the poor economic conditions of the man's family should not become a barrier between two people, because as long as two people are willing to work together, they can fight for their ideal life, and there are several couples around me who used to live very poorly, but after decades of common struggle, now they are living a very good life, so no matter how difficult and dangerous it is, please don't give up easily, because it is not easy to meet the right person in your life.

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