The parents of relatives dislike the woman s family conditions

Updated on society 2024-05-27
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    China is an ancient civilization with thousands of years of traditional cultural attributes.

    There are pros and cons to this kind of accumulation of ideology and culture, and what happens to you is the most powerful illustration of the disadvantages.

    What is called a door-to-door pair?What is called the Great Rebellion?

    My conclusion is that since we love each other, we will definitely be together.

    If you are separated, this can only mean two points, the first is that the love is not deep enough, and the second is that you do not have the right understanding.

    The solution is simple, it's up to you to do it.

    I'm sure you'll be happy, because my girlfriend and I are struggling with traditional ideas.

    If you can do it, you will do it well!

    As long as you work hard, you will succeed!

    Here's my answer to someone else, cut it a bit.

    In just this afternoon, I don't know how many related questions have been repeated.

    Reality is a lie that someone else weaves into yourself.

    If you love her, don't separate, because your love is only something you can understand.

    I still hope you can be happy and welcome. If you don't know anything, you can contact me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The main thing is what you think yourself.

    If you're just going to give up just being told about it.

    Then I think you're either immature or not very loving.

    Only you know if the shoes are suitable or not, and the same goes for your wife.

    Brothers, believe in themselves, master themselves.

    As long as you feel fit, nothing else is a problem.

    If you're shaken by yourself, then think about it.

    Men: Don't be indecisive.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Think about it, will someone teach you to say these things?If the woman knows, she will definitely put a question mark on you, and besides, no one can say anything about marriage.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's the same as me!It's too unfair to give up talking to women, conscience is the hardest, and there are so many feelings for a long time, and it also delays people's youth ......Hey, people's hearts are selfish, !!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The man's parents suspect that the woman's condition is poor, and how should the woman's parents deal with it.

    Hello, the reason for the man's parents is easy to understand. Any parent wants to be the right person, or the conditions are complementary, and they don't want their children to carry a heavy burden for the so-called "love". There seems to be a solution, and that is that you can show that you and your boyfriend will not need to carry your family burden in the future.

    But this, can you do it? This issue should not be delayed for long. It's been a long time, and it's the girls who are hurting.

    Boys can be backwards compatible, but girls can? The probability is small. As a woman's parents, there are actually very few things you can do, mainly the two children, not the things you can handle.

    Hope mine is helpful to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Xiao Ke thinks that you have to find out what they dislike you badly, so you can prescribe the right medicine.

    If you want to marry someone else's daughter, people must have a lot of requirements for you, and if you can't meet it, of course people are not willing to marry you the baby who has been raised for more than 20 years.

    The first thing you have to do is to find out that you are not good, and try to change yourself so that the old people can change their opinion of you.

    For example, if you don't have money, a house, or a car, then you have to be an excellent young man who is motivated. You can't have no money, no house, no car and never be motivated, complaining a lot about your job, so how can people trust their daughters to you.

    It's okay to have no money, but you have to let people see that you have the capital to make their daughters happy, that is, as the saying goes, potential, if you don't have potential, then study hard, work hard to earn money, at least in your attitude, let people feel that you are motivated, and let people rest assured that they will hand over their daughters to you.

    If you don't have the potential, you still hang on to your children, smoke a cigarette and drink a drink, and every day you just scream that you don't have money until the end of the month, who wants to marry your daughter.

    There is also the old man who prefers introverted boys, the old man has lived so old, not some sweet words from you, some promises to swear can be sent away, what people want to see is a person who may not talk much, but has weight in speaking, instead of having a mouth like a fart, and the words that have been said are as gone as a fart.

    Stability is the most important thing, don't let the elderly think that you are like a child, you also need their daughter to take care of, mature and stable is the preferred condition for the best son-in-law, a mature man he knows that he feels sorry for women, a stable man, he will not put too much pressure on women, he will let his daughter-in-law still live in the same world as a girl, instead of facing a lot of locks all day long.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are disgusted by the woman's parents, you will definitely be in a bad mood, and if you plan to continue with your girlfriend for a long time, then you should not care about this. First of all, you have to know the reason why you are disliked by the woman's parents, you have to find out why they dislike you, if you don't know, then you can ask your girlfriend. But I think if you are disliked by the woman's parents, it means that they may not like you in a certain way, or they are dissatisfied with your job, and there will be many reasons why they dislike you, so it is best for you to figure out these reasons yourself.

    The most important thing between couples is communication. No matter what happens, you have to communicate with your girlfriend, and the two of you will face difficulties together and solve problems together. If you don't know why his parents dislike you, you can ask your girlfriend and ask him to communicate with his parents.

    The most important thing is that you have faith in your love and that the two of you work it out together. Your girlfriend should tell him why his parents dislike you, and if you can, make a change about it. <>

    You have to be confident enough to believe in your own abilities and believe that you can handle these problems. If you are disgusted by the woman's parents, you should not be too sad. You have to be good enough so that they will like you.

    If you can, you can visit your girlfriend's parents on holidays or on their birthdays. Buy them some health supplements, talk to them, and at the same time become better and better, so that they believe that you are capable enough to support their daughter, so that they can slowly like you. Let your love be stable enough, so that your love can be supported by your parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Falling in love is a crucial process in life, and all the problems that arise must be dealt with from the beginning!

    If you are in the stage of love, your girlfriend's parents are dissatisfied with you, then please don't be impatient, don't be angry, as a man should be calm and steady to deal with all problems, face positively, show the best side of yourself, please first understand why the woman's parents are dissatisfied with you, is your family background, education, work income or life, before you and other people's daughters want to continue to date, you must be patient to understand their original intention of parents to raise their daughters, That is their treasure, is the most important person in their lives, they must hope that she has a good home, he must have a good place in all aspects to be able to shelter their daughter, so, please listen patiently to the reasons they give, if you can't agree, please communicate rationally, if it is really your problem, please be sure to correct it in time! <>

    If you have entered into marriage, you already have your own family, even if you are now at odds with your wife's parents, please treat them well, because there are no parents in the world who have twisted their children, and their dissatisfaction with you cannot be unjustified and unfounded, unless it is an unreasonable parent, you must know that no matter whether your child is married or not, in the eyes of her parents, she is always a child that she cares about, and they will always consider her and pay attention to her living situation, so please reflect on yourself in time, If you don't take good care of your family, work hard, don't care about your wife, or if you are not motivated at work, if so, please work hard, treat your wife well, be filial to your parents, and they will eventually agree with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As long as you take down your object, no matter how disliked by her family is, she can turn it over. The main thing is that the woman is dead set on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you love your boyfriend very much, and your boyfriend loves you enough, I think you can persevere, because the relationship is a matter of two people, nothing to do with outsiders, as long as the two of you have a good relationship, but there is a premise, that is, you must have a good job, a stable income, you must have the ability to ensure that your mother's side will not become a burden to your husband, without the help of your mother-in-law's family, only you are independent, not relying on your husband's family, so that their parents will not say anything.

    But if you love your boyfriend very much, and your boyfriend doesn't love you as much as you love him, I suggest you choose to give up, because after marriage, you will be very tired, there is a word called subtle, embodied in marriage is that if his parents don't like your family, they will often say in front of your boyfriend, how is your family, even if your boyfriend doesn't feel it at first, but after a long time, your boyfriend will slowly feel that it is indeed the case.

    Then there is the in-laws will also be a little disgusted with your parents, after a long time, it is easy to have conflicts between the in-laws, the two of you will be very tired in the middle, a lot of pressure, maybe there will be inexplicable quarrels, noisy will hurt feelings.

    Everyone wants their son to find a family with good conditions, so that the burden of being a parent will be light, and the pressure on the son and daughter-in-law will not be too great in the future, after all, the conditions of the previous generation are good, and the juniors do not need to spend a lot of money to take care of them in the future, and even the juniors will have children in the future or live, work and parents can give great help, it is normal for the man's parents to dislike the woman's poor family, after all, many women's parents will also dislike the man's poor family.

    If this situation really happens, as long as the boyfriend really loves you and you all communicate well, then this kind of problem will still be solved, the dislike of the man's parents is temporary, and people's hearts are flesh and blood, if they see that their son has a firm will to go on with this woman, I think the man's parents will not have to stop it, after all, it is the son who wants to live with this woman for the rest of his life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The woman's parents dislike that your family is poor, so you have to put on your confidence to talk to them. If you really don't come together in the end, you have no regrets.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think the reason why the woman's parents dislike your poor family is that he is worried that his daughter will suffer in the married life, and you just need to prove that you are a self-motivated and capable man.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should tell his parents and reassure them that you will work hard. In the future, she will become rich and will give her daughter a good life without worrying about food and clothing, and now the family's poverty is only temporary, not for a lifetime.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You are in love with your girlfriend, married and have children, not with her parents, if you really love each other, you have to show it, try your best to make the woman's parents feel that you are worthy of trust, let the woman's parents promise you to be together, material things are important, but your attitude towards them is more important.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think this is understandable, after all, no one wants to marry their daughter to endure hardship. At this time, you have to promise the woman's parents that you will not let your girlfriend suffer a little grievance.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you should sit down and have a good talk, you have to show him your confidence. If you really can't succeed in the end, there's nothing to regret, just try to get stronger.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The woman's parents are worried that their daughter will not be happy in marriage, and you can promise them that you will work hard.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you need to communicate well with your husband, and hopefully through him he will explain to his parents the values you are working on together, and hope that you will be recognized.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The woman's parents are also for the good of their children, you should talk to them well, say your thoughts, and communicate to solve the problem.

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