It is said that poor couples mourn everything, but materially poor couples really can t be happy?

Materially poor couples can also be happy, the most important thing is to see how two people enjoy life, the truth of poverty and poverty, and the way of living for being rich and rich, so as long as two people work together, it will still make the marriage very happy.

No, materially poor couples can also live very happily, as long as two people have a good mentality, depend on each other, bring joy to each other, and can also live happily and have a happy family.

Of course not, even materially poor couples can be happy, it all depends on the individual's creation.

Most family conflicts in China come from money. Poor couples mourn, this sentence has existed since ancient times, if a family's economic benefits are very poor, but the family expenses will not be reduced because of the pitiful income, the children still have to go to school, cram schools also need money, the teachers in the class also recommend some good books for students to buy, when you see the people around you live happily, a little family trivialities can cause a family conflict. If there are more quarrels, poor couples will have emotional dislikes, followed by endless complaints and quarrels, so families that do not have enough economic support are prone to disharmony between husband and wife.

If a family is too poor and has no money, it will not only lead to the mourning of the poor couple, but also bring about the decline of the poor parents and children. Do you remember when the child's mother beat up the child on the subway because she played with the subway ticket and lost the ticket later? 5 yuan, the bystanders felt sorry for the child, but the mother cried and said, 5 yuan is a lot, the money is so hard to earn, I only earn 900 a month!

Which parent in the world doesn't feel sorry for their children, if it weren't for the temperament brought about by poverty at that moment, and the grievances suffered because of usual poverty, they would not be able to bear it and beat their children hard, God knows how much she wants to be a gentle and loving mother, not the vicious mother who looks at money so tightly in the eyes of others.

If the family's economy itself is poor, it is more likely to collapse when the family is in crisis. When I was in junior high school, the manual work that was used as economic income at home became oversupplied due to the impact of the machine, and the things produced by the machine were more exquisite, and the family suddenly lost this economic income, and it just so happened that my sister's income was relatively high at that time, which just made up for the economic change in the family, and she could barely survive. And Aunt Li's family in the same village is not alone, not only is it the same as us, but her mother-in-law was also hospitalized because of cerebral infarction, and the doctor said that the later care is still very expensive, Aunt Li's family suddenly fell into a predicament, and the family often quarreled over where to earn money, and the family had no peace.

Therefore, economic income is the lifeblood of a family, and families should pay attention to income balance, and should not rely on a certain income alone.

Poor couples will really mourn everything. In ordinary times, the family must control the distribution of family property and income, and make preparations for emergency funds, so as not to mess up when the disaster comes, and quarrels are not conducive to family harmony, and even more so to the long-term development of a family.

Poor couples mourn everything? The most terrible thing about poor couples is not material things, but spiritual poverty.

I live next door to a middle-aged couple, and every once in a while I hear women screaming hysterically at men, and through a thick wall, I feel that subtle and dreary atmosphere. Many men in life are lacking, habitually yelling at women, yelling at women, and venting their dissatisfaction with the right. I have seen hundreds of unhappy couples, and they all have one thing in common, the so-called poverty of poor couples is not material, but spiritual poverty.

0 1, marriage needs money support, otherwise there are only chickens and dogs left, why do you say that poor couples mourn? I believe that many couples who have more or less experienced poverty often quarrel over trivial things in their lives, and the lack of faith and defense leads to a very poor relationship.

The ancients said: "Poor and lowly couples mourn everything", and said that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes". This shows that when a husband and wife encounter poverty and hardship, the relationship between husband and wife is often difficult to maintain.

Naturally, in real life, we often see the ruthlessness of abandoning their lovers and children when they are rich and prosperous, but in general, families with abundant food and clothing rarely have marriage changes. The reason is that they know how to "mourn poor couples": a really good couple is not to show affection, but to do this well, and this thing is to "work hard to make money".

When a couple falls into poverty, it is easy to have family conflicts, and when a couple really gets rid of poverty, such couples are more likely to get along with each other and grow old.

Because although money is not omnipotent, it is impossible without money, so only poor couples mourn everything.

The basis of life is oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

If there is no money, then the oil, salt, firewood, rice, children's education expenses, car loans, housing loans, etc., in life, will give rise to many problems, so that the relationship between husband and wife will be in crisis, and it will be difficult to share hardships together. If there is money, at least there will be no quarrels between husband and wife over money, and the young poor couple is facing huge mortgage pressure! For a place to live, more than ten years or even decades of mortgages have weighed them down.

<> compare with those couples who buy a house in full, can they not "mourn"? Poverty is poverty, poverty is cheap, life is not good, no one dares to borrow money, I am afraid that you can't afford to pay it back, you will be despised, you will be looked down upon when you are sick, you will be hard to support a minor illness, and you will be hard to resist a major illness, and life is better than death. Poor due to illness, saving light, and even indebtedness, it is indeed helpless.

Other people's children bought new clothes and new toys, and your children also ran back to you to ask for them, you couldn't afford them, you felt uncomfortable, and the children were also wronged.

"Poor and lowly couples mourn" comes from Tang poems, and the original intention is to describe the unforgotten and loyal feelings of the lover who passed away and was poor and lowly. But there are many exceptions, like-mindedness is the premise, the old couple is accompanied by the sand sea, afforestation such as Lazhou to the whole life, for the sake of the child for the sake of face, it seems to be happy, and the wedding of the sad execution ground is still full of fireworks. At this time, it is not one person, it is still two people, that is, it is doubly uncomfortable, the uncomfortable of blaming each other, and the uncomfortable of self-doubt.

Agree. This sentence is originally a true portrayal of ordinary life.

Poor couples mourn because at least one party is unwilling, unwilling will compare, there will be a comparison of the mentality, if there is a collapse, the collapse will be noisy, if the quarrel is to blame each other, blame the mentality is worse, and if you are bad, you can't do anything well, and the endless cycle is ......This is a typical example of "poor couples mourning", thinking that when I was in college, I and I, you and me, tender and sweet, but no matter how deep the feelings are, they can't resist the daily poverty of wealth, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, etc., and the saying that there is love scum and drinking water is full is not correct!

Couples who are not wealthy have a hard time, because they will be quite tired in order to make money.

They live very happily, they can spend any difficulties well, and they don't quarrel often in the middle of their lives.

Couples who are not wealthy have a good and bad life. This needs to vary from person to person, and some couples live very happily even though they are not wealthy.

It's a very good life, although life is not particularly rich, quietly but Yepei is two people who are very happy in life, especially loving, and they can solve any difficulties together, which is a very good day.

Couples who are not wealthy are very tired, have no stable economy, and have to worry about money every day, especially after Sulu has children, the economic pressure is greater, and life will be more tired.

It's a very good life, although the two of them don't have particularly good memories, but the two of them have experienced a lot of things together, and they have a lot of hardships in eating scum, so they cherish the hard-won life and work now.

Wealthy couples who don't have a shed don't have a particularly good life, and the two people will always quarrel because of some stupid money problems, and the relationship between the two people will fade after a long time. Branches.