After middle age, the deepest point to understand, the smaller the pattern, the more broken things,

After middle age, the deepest point to understand, the smaller the pattern, the more broken things, what do you think?

After middle age, I came to realize that most of a person's unhappiness is simply overly related to the little things they are now. The so-called crates are wide and there is a ferry. After middle age, I came to realize that most of a person's unhappiness is associated with small things.

"The boxes are wide and there are ferries," he said. "A person's life is a thousand mountains and rivers.

Put your heart on the life of thousands of mountains and rivers. Relax and open the model. As you can see, I have come to realize that most of a person's unhappiness is entangled in the little things of the moment.

The so-called crates are wide and there is a ferry. "A person's life is a thousand mountains and rivers. If you relax your mind, it is not bad people and bad things that can trap you, but your narrowness.

03 There are more broken things in the eyes of the person who zooms in on the model; The bigger the plan, the more people will be able to catch the target and have a clear goal. 01People who have small models are always calculating their interests. They love to be together.

There was an old man. As he leaves, he meets a middle-aged man. We fight not only for wisdom, but also for conspiracy.

My attitude is negative, the model is relatively small, and I agree with what Liu Zhenyun said in the third autumn of one day: "At this age, I am a beggar." Little by little, I understand that most of a person's unhappiness is intertwined with the little things of the moment.

The so-called wide box has heaven and earth, and there is a ferry. "A person's life is a thousand mountains and rivers. If you open your heart and open the pattern, what you see is the landscape.

I've come to realize that most of a person's unhappiness is intertwined with the little things that are happening right now.

The so-called coffin has heaven and earth, human life, and it is a long-distance journey. If you open your heart and open the model, you'll see this scene. When you're a kid, it's the season to smile every day.

A person always misses being a child. When you grow up, you will find that as a child, you really come to realize that most of a person's unhappiness is wrapped up in trivial things. They said the boxes were wide and there were ferries.

A person's life is a long journey, and it is interesting to relax your mind.

I think this statement is very correct, because as we get older, our insight will also grow, and the smaller the pattern, the more things we will care about, and we can only see the small interests in front of us, and we cannot see the big interests in the distance.

I think so too, so after middle age, you should be bigger and don't care too much about some things, so that your body is better and you will be in a good mood.

I don't think this is a matter of pattern, this is a problem of my own mind, and a small pattern is a small heart, which will lead to more contradictions in my heart, and there will be a lot of things.

I also think so, so I think that I should be a little bigger in middle age, and don't care too much about some things, so that I can better my figure and make my face good.

<> "The bigger the pattern, the fewer broken things around."

1. Do things very low-key, capable girls never show off excessively, the quieter they are, the stronger their hearts are.

2. Don't compare with others, only compare with your past self, and compare with yourself, which is always a kind of self-reflection.

3. Don't care too much about other people's evaluations.

4. You can control your desire to show off.

5. Good at managing emotions, Yang Mi said: I will skip emotion when I encounter big things, I will tell myself, I will give you a night, you let it pass.

6. It is not difficult to do a good job without doing it, but it is not difficult to persist in it, and it is not difficult to persist in it, and it is difficult to stick to it to the end.

7. Accept that you are an ordinary ordinary person.

8. When you encounter a problem, you should find a way to solve it yourself, rather than asking others for help first.

9. Don't talk about right and wrong behind your back, in the same way, don't take it to heart whoever is talking about you behind your back.

10. I don't like gossip, some of the best independent women I know, they really never care about entertainment.

11. Socialize with others and behave politely and appropriately.

12. I don't care much about the width of the pants for the gains and losses, and I value harmony.

13. Gentle but tenacious, with its own edges and principles, calm and gentle, and strength not to be underestimated.

14. Kindness but also has its own bottom line, kindness has a ruler, tolerance is moderate, if you are so good that you have no reservations, the other party will be so bad that you are unscrupulous.

15. Beautiful self-knowledge but not sharp.

16. Connotation and well-informed.

17. Accept not to be liked and not afraid of being rejected.

18. Not glassy, if you don't like it, you don't like it, there's no why.

19. Strong action, do what you say. Just dreaming but not acting, often turn into procrastination and anxiety, as long as you are brave enough to take the first step, the rest of the things may become smooth, and people with strong execution will not have a bad time.

20. Economic independence and planning for the future are the most important of Hu Liang.

<> "Girls, remember that the bigger your pattern, the fewer broken things around you.

1. Don't gossip, don't overly probe into other people's privacy, be careful when speaking, don't talk excessively, and don't enter a circle that doesn't belong to you.

2. Don't dislike the poor and love the rich, you can enjoy the best, you can also bear the worst, eat food stalls with Chanel, and don't be enslaved by material things.

3. Don't be glassy, allow anyone to leave at any time, and allow things not to go as you wish, accept that time backfires, and accept the fact that you are ordinary people.

4. Have your own plan, have your own plan, know what you want, what you don't want, and what preparations to make in order to get these needs, and have a very clear goal for your life plan.

5. Financially independent, you can pay for your own heart at any time, and you are not dependent on anyone.

6. Knowing the world but not the world, leaving a glimmer of room for everything and not falling into the ground.

7. Have your own principles and confidence, bad people will not make your popularity better, but will make you "good and bullied", reasonably show your temper, and refuse unreasonable requirements.

8. Hold it, put it down, don't cry for the spilled milk, let him go through the people and things in the past, don't explain or entangle, take it, and let it go.

9. Refuse to procrastinate, do it when you think of it, write a schedule, complete it, and improve your ability to act!

10. Have the courage to be hated, no one can be happy to be liked by everyone, think less about other people's ideas, refuse self-spiritual internal friction, live in other people's labels, it is better to live in your own definition.

11. Don't stop becoming beautiful, according to skin care, find a style that suits you, apply sunscreen all year round, and learn to wear light makeup.

12. Don't persuade others, the values between people cannot be completely consistent, for the different opinions you put forward, you are generous smiles, respect others, but be loyal to yourself.

13. Be educated, don't interrupt others' speeches, don't swear, don't discuss others behind your back, and learn to smile at others.

14. Focus on doing things, concentrate on dedication, and treat feelings and careers half-heartedly.

15. The "wh0care" mentality is subdued, and the WHO care mentality makes the rent not confused, and the small things don't care, and it is cool and sassy to maintain a whocare mentality.

What kind of pattern you have, what kind of destiny you have, those who do big things are not informal, people are middle-aged, or many things will seem powerless, but have your dreams stopped? I don't think you should stop thinking and striving for the goal, your life is not over yet, so you should play this game of chess pieces in life.

Fate is like this, testing you step by step to see if you have a strong will. Everyone has their own dreams, children, young people, including middle-aged, don't look down on your own abilities too much, believe that you can do it. As long as you want to do it, nothing is impossible, don't always limit yourself to thinking, think about what you want to do, what you want to do, the key is whether you have to give, to cash, don't talk about it, you will achieve nothing, whether you are a teenager, or middle-aged.

When people reach middle age, maybe the resources that can be used will be more mature, more or less there will always be a few sincere friends to help you, you have to learn to make good use of the resources of the side, lay out your own life, spread your own net, and let more harvest into your heart.

A person will always face a lot of unsatisfactory, a lot of failures, to middle age may face the problem is far more than we imagined, don't be too irritable in life, to relatives or friends, broad-minded, as broad as the sea, boundless, grateful, grateful to their brothers and friends, relatives, lovers, grateful for everything to you, now you will come to such a lucky step, let you know the world, based on society.

Patterns make you more motivated and want to amplify yourself. Then you have to learn to think about problems from a different standpoint and empathize. If a person wants a larger pattern, he will arm his brain with more knowledge, have more plans, see more highly, can withstand greater pressure and pain, control a larger situation, and will not make himself so confused.

In the end, don't put yourself in a position where you can't do anything, you will win the game of life.

Rabindranath Tagore said: When people reach middle age, they will give up their illusory world and unrealistic desires, and always limit them to what they can do. ”

After decades of life, I suddenly found that when I reached middle age, I didn't usher in the glory of opening up, and I was still an ordinary person struggling in the mud.

As the saying goes, young people don't know the taste of sorrow, and middle-aged people know everything.

recognized that life is not easy, so he became stronger and stronger in the difficulties of fate;

is used to going it alone, so he gradually matures in the changes of roles;

I have seen the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and finally learned to be calm in the impermanence of the years.

Looking back on half a life, I gradually understood:

The best way for middle-aged people to live is to have the courage to carry things, have the ability to handle things, and cultivate the pattern of turning the page.