was pestered by a boy, and he also confessed, but I don t like what to do with him. 20

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    First of all, don't be afraid, not only will it not solve the problem, but it will make him unscrupulous.

    Secondly, you must clearly tell him that you don't like him, don't let him pester you anymore, in fact, he pesters you often by mistakenly thinking that you didn't directly reject him, he still has a play, you use the most direct way, the most clear words to tell him, generally speaking, he quit when he sees no play.

    Thirdly, if it doesn't work to tell him clearly, tell your father that a little furry child like this may be difficult for you to deal with, but it is not a problem at all for an adult man, and it can be dealt with very easily.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I didn't feel it, so I ignored him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, find a better one among his brothers, show him that you have no feelings for that person, and ask him to help you persuade that person to give up.

    Secondly, let the people around you know that you have nothing to do with him, to prevent rumors from spreading, it is really not good, let your parents go to the school to communicate privately with the teacher, so that the teacher will take it seriously.

    For this kind of vulgar task of a rogue nature, it is really not possible, you can privately negotiate with the person you like to transfer schools together.

    I hope it will be of some help to you, and I wish you to get rid of his entanglement as soon as possible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can't solve this by yourself, and you can't ask for help from the Internet.

    I haven't heard that sheep have a way to deal with wolves, unless you are a pleasant goat Only people who are afraid of him, such as parents and teachers, they have a lot of ways to deal with this kind of people!

    You're in for it! Try it if you don't believe it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you hate him, reject him outright and be firm with him. Don't drag the mud and water, and don't give him any hope, all at once it will completely cut off his thoughts. Otherwise, he will come back to bother you in the future.

    It's okay to refuse outright.

    There are two ways to solve the problem:

    First, if you are tired of Sun Manuscript Yan, there must be a reason, find the reason and prescribe the right medicine, if you have done something wrong in these places, then apologize.

    Second, since the other party is tired of you, don't be hot and cold, he is not the only boy in this world.

    You said, "Jingqin, you are a good person, but I don't like your type, I wish you to find a better one." ”

    Look down and don't look up, usually perfunctory, just ignore him (her).

    After all, it's a family, as long as he doesn't do anything inappropriate to you and your boyfriend, harmony is the current theme. When your new house is renovated, won't you leave him? Out of sight, out of mind! It will be good then!

    With such advanced technology, you can use a pinhole camera to record his violent behavior in your quarrel, and then go to court to sue for divorce, if he really dares to threaten your life, then you have legitimate defense, which is allowed by law.

    Why do you want to change his course selection if you like him? Anyone who changes other people's things without their permission will be angry, I think what you did in this matter is really wrong, you should take the initiative to apologize and get his forgiveness!

    Tell the teacher to sit in a row, don't dare, sometimes there are many people who will take your tolerance as their own capital to show off, and they will only be always when they dig him twice.

    If you don't like it, you ignore it, treat it coldly, and you are reluctant to have an attitude that is not responsible for others or yourself, and you will bear the consequences.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Many of the reasons why boys have been pestering like this are because the girls were not clear enough to refuse at the beginning. You may say it very tactfully and subtly for the sake of the boy's face or can't bear it.

    Let him think that there is still hope, and that you are only hesitant because you are reserved or concerned about something. He feels that as long as you work harder, you will agree to his pursuit. At this time, girls should tell their true thoughts to boys clearly and harshly.

    If you don't have any interaction with this boy in your daily work and study, and you won't have much interaction in the future, you can tell him like this, "I really don't have the slightest affection for you, you are like a stranger to me, not even a friend." I hope you can stop pestering me like this, it's impossible for the two of us. No matter what you do, I won't like you, so you might as well give up.

    From then on, all social networks will be blocked, and you will hang up directly when you hit **.

    Of course, if you have some mutual friends with the guy or if you see each other often, you can talk to him like this. "I may not have expressed it explicitly, I don't have any liking for you, I just treat you as an ordinary friend! If you do that again, we won't even be able to be friends.

    Don't let me drain the last bit of your friendship, leave it at that. ”

    Boys are good-faced animals, and he will also understand that your ruthless statement is really not interesting to him, so he will be restrained. Girls should also pay attention to keeping their distance from him in the future, do not have any communication, and treat him as a complete stranger. After a long time, boys will naturally give up!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If this boy is not only not good-looking, but also not very good-looking, then really don't think about it, such a boy has a problem with his character, and there will be no good results when they are together, but if you really don't want to have a little intersection with him, for this kind of pestering boy, the best solution is to find a boyfriend, if you have someone around you, he will not bother you, or reject him fiercely, and don't leave him any face, in front of his friends, so that maybe he won't pester you. I think it's hard to solve the problem of someone who will keep pestering you, find a boyfriend, it's better, there is no trouble, and someone hurts, someone loves, how good.

    I've met this kind of boy before, first of all, I will try to talk to him to see if I can be a good friend, if it really doesn't work, that is, don't do anything, stranger, you must not be merciful, you speak mercilessly, he will think that there should be hope, and he will continue to persevere.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is a well-known truth that twisted melons are not sweet, but why can't it be done? If a girl doesn't like a boy, she will keep rejecting it, and she won't leave any affection at all, so if the girl keeps rejecting you, don't stalk anymore, because even if it goes on like this, there will be no good results.

    When you reject the boy's confession and he still keeps pestering, then you have to make it clear to him, you have to maintain a very firm attitude, don't leave him any way back, if you hesitate a little, maybe he will take advantage of the loophole, he will feel that he still has a chance, he will continue to work hard to pursue you, so you can't be soft-hearted. If you are soft-hearted, you are leaving a chance for the other party.

    Keep a certain distance from this boy, if you are afraid of hurting him, you will be a little better to him than before, so there is no need to do that, keep a certain distance from him, so that you will be particularly safe, and slowly withdraw from his life He is used to it.

    Don't drag your feet on this kind of thing, you have to say that it's not because this boy is not good that they are not together, but because it is not what you like, everyone has their own favorites, turnip greens, each has their own love, so there is no need to force others to dislike themselves.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Those who say good are persistent people, and those who are not good are stupid, simple-minded, and elm heads. Let go of your mentality, make it clear to him, if you continue to entangle, you can cut off contact, take a leave of absence to go out for two days, and change cities. Maybe it will be better to get the result, girl, some people miss it forever, think carefully, maybe they are very good, the charm is not shown at all, follow your heart!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Refusing to refuse, refusing to refuse, maintaining an eternal attitude, and always having a cold attitude, I don't believe that he can continue to be endlessly entangled. Of course, such a boy is not necessarily true love, because what you can't get is the best.

    In my freshman year, the classmates in the class were all people I had just met, there was a girl Xiao Liu who lived next door to me, and the relationship between the two of us was very good at the beginning, because when the school did not start, we chatted online every day, and the chat was very pleasant, and after the start of school, we also ate together every day, went to class and played together. But one day, she suddenly told me that there was a boy in the class who talked to her every day, and would care about whether she was eating or not, whether it was hot or cold. As soon as I heard this, no, there was definitely something wrong with it.

    Sure enough, the boy later confessed to her, but she was very obviously refused. I clearly remember the night of Christmas, when the two of us went to fetch water together after school, and prepared to go back to the dormitory, but then the boy took a large box of chocolates and chased after him, and suddenly felt that I was so redundant, but I couldn't run, I could only watch quietly, and there was a boy from another class next to me, and then the boy saw that Xiao Liu would never accept it, so he said to me: "You take it for her."

    So I reached out and took it, and walked back to the dormitory in awkwardness.

    But that boy may really like it, and he has been pestering, either sending a message or calling **, but Xiao Liu has never replied to the message or picked it up**. Because she has someone she likes, over time, the boy is just interested and no longer has any actions.

    To be honest, there are not many boys who can insist on chasing someone for a long time now, but most of the boys who have been pestering after refusing are impure in purpose, and when they can't get it, everything is good, but after they get it, they don't know how to cherish it, which is a common problem for everyone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In my sophomore year, I always met on different occasions, and some just smiled politely and greeted each other. Towards the end of my sophomore year, I heard from my roommate that he had found the other half of his heart. My roommate also jokingly told me, you see that if you don't agree to others, everyone will be single, and you are still a single dog.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Xiao Chen chased Xiao Jie for four whole years, but Xiao Jie never responded to him, and every time he pursued, he ignored it, did not agree, and did not refuse to waste it like this.

    Later, Xiao Jie got married when she met the boy she liked, and when Xiao Chen learned of this scene, she was heartbroken.

    was originally a vigorous confession many times, but finally became a grave of love, which was also a fatal blow to him.

    Falling in love, or who we want to confess to, there is nothing wrong, who gives whom a gift doesn't matter much, if you really don't like each other, then refuse his confession, although we refused at the time, he will be very painful and sad, but that is temporary, the long pain is better than the short pain, let him get out of this impossible love as soon as possible.

    We rejected each other's confessions and didn't want to be with him, whatever the reason, as long as rejecting the boy's confession was a relief for him.

    Ordinary people, at that time, you rejected may have some sadness and sadness for three or five days, but in the end, the rain will pass, and he will continue to find his own happiness, and you can also go to find your happiness.

    Many people say, I can't refuse him, he spent a lot of money on me, I'm afraid that when I refuse, the two of them will pretend to have contradictions, yes, there may be, if that's the case, we have to deal with some problems when refusing.

    We can't be together, if you reject him, he won't have too many emotions, he really pays for you, even if he gives you a gift and gives you any benefits, he won't want it back.

    Some boys, when you refuse his confession, will want to return his loss, but this is a small problem, since you don't like him, then he can't accept the gifts he gives you, especially those expensive gifts, otherwise it will be entangled in the future, it's really such a boy, then you can't like him even more.

    The girl accepts the benefits of others, not to take advantage, but to see if this person is the person she likes through dating, if she doesn't like it, there is no need to continue dating.

    If you are not sure whether you like him or not at the beginning, then you can't accept the expensive gifts from the other party, and you are making plans when you like them, for fear that you can't cause unnecessary conflicts when you like him in the future.

    So, when we find out that the boy in front of us, you don't like him, he has to decisively reject him when he confesses to you, although it was a pain at the time, but it was also a relief for him, since we can't be together, everyone should not waste each other's time, let him find his feelings.

    Once when Xiaolu went to chase Xiaorong, he never refused to be with him at that time, nor did he express his intention to be with him, and only after a year did he refuse people's confessions and was unwilling to be with him.

    The two of them wasted a year like this, which is unfair to both parties, since they don't like it, they should be relieved as soon as possible and let the other party not stick to it.

    Sometimes, we meet a boy we don't like at the beginning to chase us, since we don't like him in the first place, then we should break it off, refuse his pursuit, even if the other party is stalking, we have to reject him ruthlessly.

    If we are one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe he just doesn't have the feeling that you don't marry, at least he thinks like this Wu Sen now, you are dissatisfied with him in many places, and Tan Tanggao just doesn't feel for him, he has to pursue you, you try to avoid him.

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