I was confessed by a boy in my first year of high school, and he was still chasing after refusal, wh

Don't be afraid to hurt him, refuse again, because he won't pursue you again if he's afraid of getting hurt.

Continue to refuse, do you accept him for the sake of him selling you milk tea, and the gift) If you don't like it, refuse it, don't even accept the gift. Except for those gifts for the holidays) Usually he gives you milk tea, you really don't want to take it, lest others think you are greedy. Milk Tea Strategy:

I don't like milk tea" or girls are greedy for beauty "will have tooth decay", it's okay not to accept it) gift strategy: don't accept it, "it's too expensive and can't accept it" and so on, he said no, you don't accept him, let him stand there or something,)

Language Strategy: Estimate that he asks you: accept him or not. You just say, "Accept something, we're classmates, aren't classmates very good!" Don't you want to even be a classmate! ”）

In short, it's ruthless!! It must be ruthless! Otherwise, not only he will regret it, but even you will regret it) what do you regret, regret why you didn't reject him earlier).

In short, if you can ask this question, it means that you don't like him, and you will refuse it. Tell the teacher!! Ha ha!!!

Actually, there's no best way to hurt him in any way, it's just big or small.

I advise you to make it clear to him as soon as possible, so that he doesn't love you more deeply and hurt more.

The most direct way is to find a handsome guy and say it's your boyfriend and get him to give up.

But it seems to be ruthless, but this may be the solution.

Try it, maybe.

You are a good person ...

I'm not worthy of you, the good guy card is a panacea. Tried and tested.

Let's just say it, it won't hurt、。。 After you refuse, he can't figure it out and immediately find another one.

You're unlucky enough, or you let him chase him, and he'll slowly figure it out anyway. Anyway, it doesn't affect you (it's useless for you to refuse, unless you make him desperate).

Tell him your attitude, let him die, hurt now more than later, and don't have to cause you unnecessary trouble....

You tell him that I don't want to be in a relationship now, I have to study hard, and if you like me, you have to support my decision, let's study hard together, and don't waste time on love.

Issuing good guy cards. Being beautiful will also affect your studies, and another class flower is going to be annoyed to death I hope you can concentrate on getting into a good university, and it's OK to talk about college as much as you want

Long pain is better than short pain, ruthless, otherwise it will not be good for anyone.

Tell him you have a boyfriend. (It is impossible not to do harm).

My advice is: don't be sad, although you failed on the surface, you still managed to send a signal of love to each other, and established a relationship foundation from strangers to each other, achieving a breakthrough from 0 to 1! Accept this reality.

From then on, I kept my mouth shut with him and didn't talk about emotional topics, and I forbearance in my heart, of course, this is difficult, but I still hope you can do it. From today onwards, it is necessary to use strategy --- points method to take him down.

The method is: now estimate by yourself a charisma score in his heart as the basic score, ten out of ten points, how many points can you give yourself now? For example, 3 points is the basic score, then every time you establish a relationship with him, you will score this interaction, recall that this interaction feels bad and deduct 1 point, feel very ordinary and have no emotional interaction plus points, feel okay plus points, feel that the interaction is very harmonious plus 1 point, and so on.

To plan for the long term to achieve this goal, you need to do the following three steps:

1. You have to understand these truths 1. Friends can be friends for a lifetime, but couples can't.

2. No one hates a suitor.

3. The other party is confessed that there is no obligation to agree to the relationship, and it is normal to agree and refuse.

Second, after the mentality is correct, we must overcome the mentality of not daring to see him take a detour, it is best not to use chat tools when you can meet, and it is best not to deduct words if you can voice, etc., if you can't do this, then you can't say to yourself, you did your best! Reach out to him generously in the manner of an ordinary acquaintance, and gradually establish a friendship, note that you are not friends now, and eliminate the current embarrassing state of being friends. You can't be in a hurry in this process, such as inviting him to come on his birthday, participating in his holiday celebrations, asking him to help fix the computer when it breaks, etc., and you must not get drunk in the middle of the night and call him to pick up or borrow money.

3. Repair both inside and outside 1, dress with ** maintenance makeup, this still needs to spend some effort to study and learn, just don't go too far. 2. Quit bad habits in mannerisms and conversations, such as exploding foul language, deleting the font of the mobile phone...3. Strive to improve your academic ranking, create the possibility of closer development, and improve your academic ability is definitely a ...... that can make up for the shortcomings of your appearanceOk,When the points reach the full score state, you can hint together.,Anyway, it should be very calm and calm at that time, right? In this process, you will really find out whether you really like him, and when you improve yourself, your vision and pattern will follow, and the boys you meet will be better!

To be a slight Wu Lier, don't be afraid of being rejected, and after being rejected, you have to comfort yourself more, it's not that you are not good enough, it's that he doesn't know how to appreciate, and you should keep smiling when you meet in the future, greet you kindly, and be generous.

Don't worry, be strong in your heart, don't think about it all the time, keep a proud posture, and even if you are rejected, be very chic.

After the rejection of the confession, the boy should recover his emotions. He doesn't have to pester the other side or ask the other side why. Because this will only make the girl more and more bored, and the boy should understand and rationally solve it is best.

At this time, he doesn't have to bother you more because you need to attract her again. At this moment, you should sort out your emotions and allow yourself to return to your normal daily routine. You don't have to get caught up in the spiral of rejection.

Let the girl see your atmospheric side and your open side, and let the girl have a different opinion of you.

After the rejection of the confession, you should no longer pursue the perfection of the other party, just for the sake of your own rationality for a while. When boys recover their emotions, you need to make yourself stronger, when girls see that you have a better life, it will arouse a certain curiosity, in this link you don't have to break up with the girl, you can be the other side of the thumbs, meaning that you are still there, but can not disturb her every day, let the girl make you the illusion that she does not care, so the girl will have doubts and feel that she cannot catch you. You need to make the most of your strengths and have your own highlights, so that the girl feels that it is not right to reject you, and that the girl has an uncertain state of mind.

In this link, you should improve your style, enrich your extracurricular life, and make yourself look better. After all, you can only attract others if you are good. You should understand that only confident and happy boys are more elegant.

The low-level pleasing that has been going on will only greatly reduce the value of your use.

That kid should understand. If they want to pursue perfection to the girl they like, they don't have to use humility as a form of attack and they don't have to try all kinds of warmth to impress her. They should understand that attracting girls according to their best selves is the best option.

Only when the boys become better and stronger, they are not afraid of rejection.

If you fight back completely, you will become a new person and it will be even more mysterious to the girls. At this moment, you will once again strive for perfection. Only the pass rate can you get the most perfect love.

If the confession is rejected, then continue to pursue the other party, you can be cautious and continue to tell the other party your feelings under the condition that you can accept the feelings of the other party, but don't express your feelings too much, and also understand one of the other party's thoughts.