Some things are not what we think from a different angle, and they may be better, what does it mean

No matter what life brings us. We all need to look at things from a different perspective, which may be better than our own lives. The physical mood will be better in this life.

This kind of thing often happens in our lives, just like James is very unsatisfactory in life or work, and he will be depressed every day. Nothing can lift your spirits, and it makes you feel bad, and there is no point in doing anything.

So I went to a psychiatrist and told the psychiatrist about it. The psychiatrist listened to James, and I told James to put these things on paper. The first boss often yelled at me, secondly, I paid more than 2,000 yuan in taxes this year than last year, and thirdly, I didn't have extra money to buy gifts for my girlfriend this year.

Just when you do something to do something, you will fail in the end.

After James finished writing these things, he took the paper and wrote this sentence at the end of the first line, the boss often yelled at me that it was too good, indicating that the boss cared about me, and if the boss didn't yell at me and didn't care about me, he would be fired. So he handed the paper to James, and added the other three in the same way as Article 1. After reading it, you think it's not embarrassing me?

How can it be said that it is also written on the back? I thought about it for a long time, and finally I finished writing the next three articles, and when it was all right, the doctor took the paper and read out all the words he had written. I paid 2,000 yuan more in taxes this year than last year, which is great, and it means that my income is higher than last year.

Third. I don't have the money to buy a gift for my girlfriend, it's great, so I have the heart to make a gift for my girlfriend. Fourth, it's good to do something and fail in the last few days, so that I can learn from the things so that I don't fail the next time I do something.

Yes, this happens all the time in our lives, and if what we need is to look at things from a different perspective, then our lives will be more meaningful. Life is not as positive as we are. As long as it was a different perspective, maybe things would be different.

Believe that your life is very good and happy.

Empathy, occasionally thinking from someone else's point of view, is like a road that doesn't work, we will definitely go another way.

It is recommended to read Cai Kangyong's book "The Way of Speaking", which will help you a lot.

If you don't understand something, it's definitely right to think about it from another angle, otherwise you'll get into the horns, and if you can think about it from all sides, you might be able to solve it.

That's right, if you can't think about it from a different angle, you can ask someone who usually has a different view than you, maybe you can explain yourself with a new meaning.

Not necessarily!!!

Not necessarily!!!

Not necessarily!!!

Sometimes it's just your knowledge, or you don't have enough knowledge, and you can't understand it, but sometimes it's okay to change your perspective!

Of course, yes, I realized it.