My boyfriend insists on buying a house before marriage, and does not accept my contribution without

01 If there is love, compromise it, no love, no money, no need! I think it's good, you have to compromise, it's better if his family can buy a car before marriage, he buys the house, and decorates it well, you don't have to spend a penny, what are you not satisfied with? Such a family is not easy to find,The kind of premarital loan to buy a house, after marriage, you need to help repay the loan, you need to take money from your mother's house to decorate, such a man is terrible, terrifying, he can't marry at all, and he calculates you to the bones!

If you have to write your name, it doesn't mean anything, get married, it's easy to talk about it, if you want to be too deliberate, it will make your in-laws think that you don't want to live well, you will get divorced in the future, and your family's property will be divided equally, so there is no need to fight for it, he likes to do this, then do it, it doesn't matter,But other things can't be less, you have to give the gift money, 300,000, 200,000, depending on the rules of your family, three gold, hardware, is also necessary, after all, it is the Ming media is marrying, and the "ceremony" cannot be bad!

The girl listens to me, and his family has left you behind, so you should also think about yourselfTake the gift money given by his family, take the dowry money given by his parents, buy yourself a house before marriage, and this is your confidence in the future!

02 Recognize the reality, mother-in-law has a lot to do, and she doesn't compromise! My sister is very similar to you, when the two of them were going to get married, my mother-in-law was in a hurry to buy a house, and she didn't even write her son's name, and she wrote her own, the most annoying thing was the house bought with a loan, saying that she repaid it herself, but she turned her face after two years, and my sister felt that they had been together for so long, and it was not worth separating for money, after all, it was not for his family's money!

I got married like this and lived in a house with my mother-in-law's name written on it, do you think your mother-in-law was scheming with you before marriage, will you have a good life after marriage? All kinds of disgust for my sister, and what do you say about the house you bought, live in vain, and decorate your mother's house!

I don't give birth to a child, I always talk about the house, you live in my house, you have to listen to me, you can do whatever I want you to do, and then my sister figured it out and went directly to rent a house, there is no need to repay the loan to my mother-in-law, I would rather rent a house than be angry with you,Fortunately, my brother-in-law was reasonable, worked hard to make money, paid a down payment with the money he earned, bought a house, and gave his wife and children a home!

Summary: It depends on your heart whether you compromise or not! Do you love your boyfriend?

Deeply in love? Will he regret leaving, there is a friend who has been with his boyfriend for eight years, the two have never been married, and they immediately talked about marriage, but also because there was a conflict in the house, the girl broke up with the boy in a rage, and she was thirty years old soon, and she broke up, and the boy felt that the girl was snobbish, turned around and found a little girl, and got married and had children a year later, and the girlfriend he felt snobbish broke up for six years and is still unmarried!

So don't miss it, don't care what house or car you love him, go to this person, and you won't regret it even if you divorce in the futureI am most afraid of losing, and I can't find someone like him in searching, this is the saddest ending!

I don't think there should be a compromise, there should be two people to contribute, plus two people's names, and to buy a house after marriage, because there is also a problem of repaying the mortgage, two people to repay the mortgage together, and in the future sell the house in half, this is the fairest.

I think your boyfriend is just watching out for you, such a man doesn't completely take you to heart, so I think you really have to think about this relationship.

Don't compromise. Because he is doing this as a sign of machismo, girls should have their own house, which will be more secure.

If you didn't write it before marriage, you can still add it after marriage, but the premise of adding your name must be that you make your boyfriend willing. There is no need to rush this, just take your time.

If your boyfriend didn't write your name when he bought the house, then he can still add it after marriage, so that he belongs to the two of you in common property.

It can be added after marriage, as long as your boyfriend wants to, but you discuss before marriage whether the house belongs to your boyfriend's personal property or your joint property after marriage.

Adding a name to a title deed is something that almost every family faces, so we need to know a little bit about it. Buying a house and adding a name is very important for many people. The following is an introduction to some relevant knowledge about adding a name on the way to buy a house.

Contract for the purchase of the house. You can write the names of several people, but pay attention to who is the purchaser written in the purchase contract, and the real estate certificate will be registered to whom.

Mortgage loan contracts.

Only one person's name can be written, because the mortgage purchase can only be handled according to the principle of who takes out the loan and who signs, to ensure that the signature on the purchase contract, loan contract and real estate certificate is unified, and the reason is to avoid the bank's loan risk.

Real estate warrants.

There is only one person's name on it, and the requirement is one person, one certificate, held by the first owner, and the share of the house is filled in the column.

Certificate of co-ownership (use) of real estate rights.

The other co-owners of the property are also co-owned in the field of occupying the share of the house, which legally marks the joint ownership of the property, and the two parties agree on their respective capital contributions or shares.

There are three ways to add someone else's name to the title deed, that is, to increase the co-owner of the house: property registration, sale or gift.

1. The name of husband and wife is different before and after marriage.

Add name before marriage. According to the gift, sale and purchase method shall be handled according to the application of both parties.

1. For gift, the husband and wife need to go to the notary office to handle the notarial certificate of gift, and one of the husband and wife will donate half of the property rights to the other party, and then both parties will bring the real estate certificate, ID card, and notarial certificate to the center to go through the formalities;

2. For the sale, both parties need to sign the sales contract, and then bring the real estate certificate, ID card, and real estate tax payment certificate to the center to apply for processing.

Added name after marriage. In this case, the public only needs to provide the identity certificate of the husband and wife, the "Marriage Certificate", the "House Ownership Certificate", the "Housing Registration Application" and other application materials, and jointly go to the housing registration department with jurisdiction for interview, and then go through the relevant housing ownership change procedures. Deed tax, individual income tax and business tax are exempted, and only house registration fees and stamp duty are charged.

Therefore, it is relatively simple to add a name after marriage!

Note: If the names of the two people were not written when the purchase contract was signed before, the names cannot be added when the two certificates are applied for later, and the loan can only be carried out after the two certificates are completed. The name on the purchase contract is the same as the name on the title deed.

2. Parents and children add names, and it is most appropriate to choose to give gifts.

If the property between parents and children needs to be changed, you can consider buying and selling second-hand houses or gifting them.

Gift process: You need to go to the notary office to handle the notarization of the real estate gift, and then go directly to the housing authority with the two certificates of the house, the ID cards of both parties, the household registration book, and the marital status certificate.

No, the other party is afraid that you are worried about his property if he is not married, this kind of person is particularly selfish.

I think I should marry him, I think the house is all outside the body, and I can't stop marrying each other because of the problem of the house, it's all a trivial matter.

No, the other party will calculate the property very clearly if he is not married, and he has two thoughts about you.

I think it's normal for your boyfriend to do this because it's a pre-marital property that belongs to him, and it can't be said that he doesn't love you without your name.

I think it's normal, you don't get anything if you don't pay, and you don't have to think too much.

In real life, getting married and buying a house has become a rigid need. Whether a couple of lovers can enter into marriage depends not only on the emotional foundation between the two people, but also on whether the material conditions are rich.

Love is always full of variables, and no one knows whether a relationship can lead to ultimate happiness.

I have a friend who has been in love with his lover for 8 years, I thought it would be a model of sweet love in our lives in the future, but after so many years of getting along, this relationship still failed to make this relationship go into happiness. I don't know exactly why the two broke up, but it was a fact.

Feelings are never destined, and no one can give an accurate answer to whether a pair of lovers enter marriage or break up. In this situation, even if you are about to get married, it is normal for your boyfriend to be reluctant to write your name when buying a house.

Maybe you think he doesn't love you enough, but can you touch your heart and say that you can never leave you for the rest of your life?

Whose name to write when buying a house is never a person's businessIt is better to decide who pays the money.

Real life is so interesting, just need to buy a house has become a reality, but for most boys, they simply can't afford the high price of housing. When it comes to buying a house, the boy's parents often need to empty their savings and even owe a lot of debt to make a down payment for the boy.

Whose name to write when buying a house is not only the boy's own business, but also largely influenced by the boy's parents. If you don't pay a penny when you buy a house, and you want to put your name on it, your future in-laws will of course not be happy.

I think it's very simple, why do you put your name on a house that someone else has spent their life savings to buy? Are you thick-skinned?

Love will eventually come into reality, and in real life, material things are one of the most important factors in love and marital life. If you want to put your name on the house, then give a part of the money, and don't always think about taking the initiative in life just because of one gender.

Walking on the road of life, you are your most solid support.

Normal. After all, your boyfriend also spent a lot of money to buy this house, if you don't make it to the end in the future, then this house will have to be divided into half of you, and it is normal for him to have this worry.

I think that's normal. Because before marriage, the boyfriend bought his own house, which itself belonged to his own property. And you weren't married to him at the time, so it's normal not to write your name.

Of course it's not normal, in this case, you should make it clear to your boyfriend that you want to live with him for the rest of your life, and I hope he can write his name.

If you don't pay, it's normal, after all, it's someone else's hard-earned money, and it's impossible to give it to you who may break up at any time, but if you pay, it's not normal.

It's normal, after all, you didn't pay to buy this house together, and your boyfriend will also worry about the ownership of this house after breaking up.

Of course it's normal, because after all, this is pre-marital property, and no one knows if you will marry your boyfriend for the property.

I think it's normal, because in the real world, people are often very concerned about money, and even couples have to settle accounts.

In fact, it is normal for him to feel that the relationship between two people is not particularly confident, so he would do such a thing.

It must be normal! It's not like you buy it together. Now that the divorce rate is so high, I'm a little worried about normal, don't kidnap morally and say that you don't trust the woman, if you really want to kidnap the woman, why do you ask to write your name?

After all, there are a lot of cheating marriages now. Of course, if the man does not buy the house in full, you can ask for a name.

This shows that he still has reservations about you, you have to ask clearly what is going on, or what he is difficult to say, you must ask clearly, so as not to cause conflicts between the two sides.

Why do you write your name on the house you bought with full money before marriage? Are you expensive? If it is a down payment that allows you to jointly bear the mortgage, you can not write your name, but you must repay the loan in the woman's name after marriage, so that even if the man wants to divorce, the woman has evidence to prove that she participated in the repayment in marriage, and she will not be kicked out without anything.

If you are not married and buy a house, of course it is normal to be reluctant to write your name, but if you think about it in another position, will you write your boyfriend's name when you buy a house?

The full amount of the man's money before marriage has nothing to do with you. If you need to repay the loan or go out to renovate something, you should write it.

Summary. Before marriage, buying a house by himself is like buying a piece of clothing and jewelry, which has nothing to do with him.

My boyfriend didn't approve of me buying a house before marriage.

Hello. I can now.

Can you tell us more about the specifics? Why don't you agree to buy a house before marriage? Do you pay for it yourself or two people?

Bought before marriage, said personal property.

Bought after marriage is said to be the joint property of the husband and wife.

Yes, he didn't agree with his personal property before marriage, I said that I wanted to buy a house before I met you, and besides, there was no problem with giving myself a guarantee, he said that I would leave a way back for myself

Is it your own money.

If it's your own money, it's totally fine.

It's my own money, and he didn't pay for it, and he said that it was stressful to buy a house on both sides, and he said that few men wanted to buy a house on both sides

What kind of logic is this.

If you have this in mind, then you have to be careful.

I think he's pretty calculating.

How nice it would be for a daughter-in-law to bring a house to marry. Live a good life, it's still family's.

He said that I didn't really want to marry him, and that before I got married, I wanted to divorce and leave a ......way out

Before marriage, buying a house by himself is like buying a piece of clothing and jewelry, which has nothing to do with him.

Does the house he bought have your name on it.

You shouldn't have consulted with him.

It's also a mess. He thinks that if I buy a house, he will also buy a house, and the mortgage on both sides will feel a lot of pressure If I go to work, the mortgage will be paid by him if I don't go to work, and then it will be my pre-marital property, and I think he still thinks that when I buy a house, my income will not be used for family expenses

If he pays off the mortgage, he can't say anything.

Then write the name of the individual.

The names of two people.

Because when I met him, the business failed and he was still paying off the debt, and he had limited financial ability to buy a house, meaning that I would take some money to buy a house with him and write the names of two people How to say it, I am usually very good to me, and I will send me a message every day after talking for two or two years, and I will take the initiative to report when I go, and my temper and personality are quite stable I don't have a good temper He is quite assertive and not a mother, a straight man

His opinion is fair. The two share a common name and share the mortgage.

I thought you could afford to buy a house all at once. So to put it that way.

Your husband is very good, and he doesn't ask too much. Fair and reasonable.