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I think you're inwardly afraid of being lonely and so afraid of offending people.
You don't have to worry because I used to be like that.
People are afraid of loneliness, but some are more sensitive.
How do you make yourself insensitive? It's about keeping yourself busy.
You should study hard now, people are busy, ** take care of so much (I mean busy, I don't even have the time to worry about this).
When I got to college, I was fine.
I used to just get into college and get in, and I forgot about it, and I didn't think I could remember that I had such an experience.
The one who lives now is called a heartless person.
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Hello landlord I don't know how you have this idea, it's not easy for people to live for a lifetime, no matter what you do or say anything, just be yourself, don't worry about other people's thoughts or opinions, a person has a person's way of living, no one can control whom, through the words of the landlord, you can see that you are very kind, but very unconfident, everyone is equal, what you think in your heart to do, if you have to follow the will of others, how tired it is to live Understand your friends, no matter what you do will support you, Understand you, on the contrary, no matter how well you do and how wronged you are in your heart, people also think that you should be so to show the real you, which is what you have to do now, there is an old saying that it is good to go your own way and let others say it
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Do you have low self-esteem or autism? Or is the college entrance examination too stressful? It's a good thing to think a lot, but it's more important to think for yourself, alas, I don't know how to say I also have such friends, I used to be like this, but now I've come out This is also an experience, I hope you have a good time, I just finished the college entrance examination medicine review, why don't you add me and encourage me together 674960994 note
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In cram school is a new environment.
Relationships need to be re-established.
Think back to why you were worried about your friends getting angry.
This is the right way to get the right medicine out of your worries as you build new relationships.
There should be no problem!
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The psychological characteristics of high school students are generally as follows, for reference:
1. Conscientiousness. High school students have their own views and indoor spaces for their own activities, whether in the distribution of their daily lives or in their views on the path of life and social development. For example, if you are unwilling to let your parents participate in something, you are not willing to let your parents enter your own house.
In this link, the development trend of high school students' IQ has been close to perfect, and the logic of abstract thinking is changing greatly from "experience" to "basic theory", and the feelings are becoming stronger, more stable, and more locked. If you don't want to confess your thoughts to your parents or teachers, you just hide them in the spiritual world or write them down in a unique laptop.
2. Stability. During this period, the development trend of high school students' physiology is rapidly maturing, but the development trend of psychological state is relatively lagging behind the development trend of physiology, and their physiology and psychological state, psychological state and interpersonal relationship development trend are not the same, and there is a great imbalance.
They are irrational, lustful, and emotionally sensitive. Some people have a sensitive psychological state of fear of frustration, negative and pessimistic, self-willed, in the face of frustration, can not bear the severe blow, once unsuccessful, a test score is not ideal, can not be properly dealt with, resulting in a sharp drop in academic performance, and then out of control.
3. Adolescent rebellion. Adolescent rebellion and blind following the trend coexist, and the adolescent and childhood period is the stage of individualized production of students, and it is also the stage of human growth and development. At this stage, there is a significant trend in the development of the psychological state of the students, which is adolescent rebellion.
They go to the other extreme by clearly denying the authoritative consciousness they developed as children, and must cast a suspicious eye on everything that exists, on objective facts that have already been concluded.
On the other hand, they show that the message shows the psychological state of blindly following the trend. They admired Hong Kong and Taiwan singers and movie stars, and produced a large number of idols on campus. The coexistence of adolescent rebellion and blind following shows that the psychological state of adolescent and child students is still in the development stage, and the mentality fluctuates greatly.
4. Blind comparison. Some students have a weird hobby that he has to spend a dozen dollars a day to be comfortable, and he pays very much money among male and female students to display the information itself. When you don't make money, you have already cultivated the habit of paying money, which is a consumption characteristic caused by the cultivation method of the only child.
Such as: mobile phones, brand shoes, clothes and pants, blindly compare with each other to chase fashion trends, friends do birthday restaurants, talk about pomp, send precious gifts to each other, as small as a few dollars to dozens of yuan, extraordinary, feel that it is nothing, if you want to use money, you will reach out to your parents. The trainees did not understand how hard it was for their parents to earn money and the real economic development of their families.
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