Do you have successful online dating stories around you?

Online dating is nothing more than a form of knowing. He is not much different from the matchmaker's introduction in reality. In reality, the boyfriend and girlfriend friends introduced to you by the matchmaker are actually strangers between you, and you only have a little external information that the matchmaker tells you, such as work, family, ......These things are far from enough to achieve mutual understanding.

The most important thing is the interaction and contact between men and women in reality. The success rate of matchmaking is definitely less than 50%, and only a very small number of people are the first to date and finally get married. Generally, it is the second or nth that bears fruit.

Online dating is unreliable, so what about long-distance relationships? When a Shanghainese saw a photo of my fourth cousin, I was amazed as a goddess. I traveled thousands of miles from Shanghai to the Northeast and lived for two months just to see my cousin.

Now this Shanghai has become the fourth brother-in-law, and the two have been married and had children in Shanghai for decades.

My dating with my wife started online. After only one chat online, I proposed to meet. Soon after we met, I showed my ID to prove that what I said was .........trueI have been married to her for more than 10 years.

In fact, whether marriage and love can succeed is not a matter of online dating or "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" love. The key is that after having the Internet, TV, friends, etc., your communication performance in the real society for a certain period of time.

There are also some successful cases of online dating, from acquaintance to acquaintance and love, marriage and childbirth, there are some people in Yezhou Tong who feel that online dating is impossible, the Internet is relatively virtual, and it is common to be deceived, so if you are in online dating, pay more attention and be vigilant.

Online dating is actually another way of falling in love, and it has been criticized by people for its authenticity and reliability, because there are many ** often successful on the Internet, so the things that cause online dating have been hacked, everything has two sides, you have to believe that there are good aspects, and there must be bad aspects.

1. From a security perspective.

In online dating, the real situation of the other party is not understood. In most cases, it can only be limited to social software contact, and once the two parties meet, they will be harmed. Except for the so-called social software, it may be difficult to find the other party except for the mobile phone number that the other party has revealed to you.

Mobile phone numbers can be changed at any time. Once contact is lost, the damage he has done to you cannot be resolved.

2. From a psychological point of view.

In the absence of face-to-face communication, both parties will completely imagine a perfect object through their own imagination, and they will be deeply trapped in it. Online dating, mysterious and unreal. Online, people can speak freely without worrying about offending people.

Life is full of stress and has to seek relief online.

3. From an emotional point of view.

In real life, there are too many people who go to online dating for various reasons such as lack of time and too small a circle. Or loneliness, unhappy marriage, fraud, etc., using feelings to deceive each other on the Internet to achieve the goal. We don't know each other's real situation through the Internet.

You need to be cautious in online dating, otherwise tragedies can easily happen.

4. If you don't understand the real situation, pay carefully.

The two sides don't know each other's true appearance, age, identity, and only rely on QQ contact on the usual Internet and computer Internet. Maybe go one step closer and swap each other's ** numbers. I could hear his voice, but I couldn't see anyone else.

As the two developed over time, perhaps they had a good impression when they chatted.

Maybe he's the kind of person who can talk, who is eloquent and can speak well. The sweet words you say when you hit ** make you feel very happy and sweet, and you feel that he is your destiny. Everything is perfect, but you must know that in real life, "the human heart is still separated by the belly".

When you are in a sweet online relationship, you must not let your guard down, and you must not disclose your true information, such as name, place of work, home address, etc., before you meet a real person or enter the real social circle of the other party. At the same time, you can't give all your feelings, just feel it appropriately.

What is certain is that there are, there are examples around me, and now it is very happy and warm, and the two places are far away, and finally come together.

The mention of the word online dating may not be a compliment, in fact, online dating is just the beginning of fate, after all, it is necessary to develop a realistic love that will go on forever, if it is just an ethereal chat on the Internet, there is no moment of rushing, it is just the real beginning of love. That's it.

There are certainly successful cases of online dating, but there are very few and very few, and many online datings are associated with scams.

When it comes to successful cases of online dating, it is inevitable to talk about my former colleague of Shanyu, who was really a capital exclamation point when I heard her say her story before: Is it really possible?! Let's listen to what kind of real person this is:

My colleague is older, her family is nervous, she herself is nervous, and she has introduced her a lot, but it just can't be.

One day she had a whim, so she wanted to go to the blind date network to see it, anyway.

So Hu Weibi, she really registered one, and a few days later, someone really matched him. My colleague said that it felt good to talk, nothing awkward, and I felt that the values were quite compatible, so I made an appointment to meet.

It is estimated that the experiences of the two are similar, and they have been chatting on the Internet for a while, they both feel good, and their goals are the same, so there is no awkward chat after meeting, and the most important thing is that the two of them really have no other purpose, just to find a partner. Then since it's all good, let's be together.

Now, the child is 3 years old, and he has bought a house in Guangzhou and settled down, isn't this very exciting and inspirational?

No, the vast majority of situations where two people are together are first met in real life, and then due to school or some reasons that he Liang told him, more communication time is on the Internet, but the basis for their relationship is to meet each other in real life and know what kind of person the other person is.

College life is rich and colorful, there are a lot of people in the school, there are a lot of boys and girls, so many people will choose to fall in love in real life, especially in the face of this school, because the distance is very close, two people have to go to college for 4 years, if Pei Yuan said that the relationship is more stable and respectful, talk about it for two or three years, and they know each other very, very well, and then they also have a lot of imagination for the future, it is more convenient to communicate, and it is easier to solve contradictions, so I feel that real love is more reliable, Online love can only stay in the longing, and the Internet is really a very terrible thing, after beautification and retouching, the opposite side may be a 200-pound fat man, but after retouching can become a 100-pound handsome guy, there is really no way to understand, the risk is too high.

The sweet love on the Internet only stays in everyone's sour lemon flavor. Everyone just saw some online love every day being announced, and then felt a little envious, but there are very, very few people who really practice online dating, or almost none, at least there is no around me, everyone can come into contact with all kinds of the opposite sex in real life, there is no need to take a big risk to talk about a virtual object on the Internet, not to say what the other party looks like, and even to say that there is no way to determine the gender of the other party, there is no need to take this risk.

Online dating is risky, and you need to be cautious in your actions, at least you should know whether the other party has used beautification, whether you have used retouching, whether you have used a voice changer, whether you have really had a relationship with him, determine whether he is a man or a woman, and what does he look like? You've identified some basic conditions, things that are easy to understand in real life, and then you can talk about the personality of two people.

Online dating is very unreliable, because in normal love, what you like is him packaged by him, so what you like in online dating is the golden Buddha statue that you and him jointly shaped, which is superstition, not love.

There are no examples of successful online dating around me, and there are a few couples who have made it but broke up after a few months.

When we first start in a relationship, we will try to show the good side of our personality, but we not only have the good side, but also the bad side.

When we rely on our good side to gain the love of the other party, we will slowly relax and expose our bad side, and there are many feelings because the other party can't accept our bad side and break up.

It can be said that when we fall in love, we are hunters with disguise, and love itself is a hunt or a deception, and there is rarely a love without deception.

If love itself is a deception or a hunt, then online dating is a superstitious activity in which both you and she participate.

The two of you will not meet until the relationship reaches a certain foundation, and all your impressions about each other are made up by the other party, and none of them are true and most likely false.

And when your relationship reaches a certain point, it's time to meet, what does that mean? It shows that the two of you have succeeded in shaping a golden Buddha statue, and you are convinced that it is extremely religious.

But this golden Buddha statue looks golden on the surface, but it doesn't know how many lies and deceptions it contains, it can make you obsessed with it for a while, but it can't fool you for a lifetime.

When two people rush to appear, maybe this superstition will not end, but how long can the glitter disguised by deception and lies last? There will always be a day when it will be shattered.

Putting aside for the time being, this Buddha statue is forged with deception and lies, this Buddha statue is just a Buddha statue after all, cold and cold without temperature, and it can't really accompany you.

Distance is a real thing between you and him, and loneliness brings you together and makes you choose to leave.

There are many successful examples of Benxian around me, but most of them don't live for more than three months, because Benxian makes the emotional fire between two people more and more vigorous.

When the fire of love burns to the extreme, it will either burn more vigorously, or it can only be slowly extinguished.

If you want to burn more, you need long-term companionship, but you have to date online because you can't be together, so how can you be with you for a long time?

There are successful examples of online dating around me, when we are looking for a partner, we must see whether the other party has a sense of responsibility, but also to see whether the other party is self-motivated, to see if the other party is good to you, as long as we have love standards, whether it is online or offline, you can find love that suits you.

It's still relatively reliable, and there are successful examples around me, but there are not many such examples.

I have examples of successful online dating because I have a friend who met his wife online, and the two of them are now living happily.

There is such an example, I have a friend who she and her husband met through games, and the two are now married and live very happily.

In reality, many people also come together through online dating, and most of us look at online dating with a negative view, but ignore its positive impact. Everything has two sides, this is completely depending on the respective mentality of both parties in online dating, as long as you are really quietly loved, to give, each other can accept each other in reality, you feel happy together, happiness It doesn't matter what other people say. After all, love is for oneself, not for others.

1. Online dating is actually very tiring.

Why is online dating particularly tiring? Many people will feel that two people in online dating don't know each other, so two people don't need to spend money on each other, they just need to chat with each other. But it's not really the object.

Because it is an online dating, two people can only communicate through their mobile phones and get to know each other. Sometimes, when two people have a conflict, they will keep arguing, even a cold war. They can't solve problems face-to-face like couples in reality, and sometimes the accumulation of some contradictions will make each other collapse.

2. When dating online, you can't distinguish between reality and the Internet.

Why is it that when talking about online dating, it is not clear to distinguish the relationship between reality and the Internet? When two people are dating online, two people can only carry out ** at most, but in fact, they can't do anything. So I don't know what the other party is doing, what the other party is thinking, it's all my own guess.

It's like falling in love with a mobile phone every day, it's not easy.

3. Online dating may see the light die.

In fact, many of those two people who pretend to talk well on the Internet will collapse in reality. Why is that? It's because of the power of the current mobile phone p-map software, so that lovers with such a screen can't see what they really look like, and can only see those who have been refined by themselves.

Therefore, some people are too powerful, causing the lover of the other party to be unbearable directly after seeing him, so there are few successful cases in online dating. But it's not that there are no successes, in fact, there are still successes.