Why are perfectionists more nostalgic?

Relatively speaking, the things of the past were more beautiful, and there is a big gap between them and the things of the present, so often people who pursue beauty like the beauty of the past, and they will miss the old.

I probably think that perfection is polished by time, and it is also sealed by time, and I am the same.

I also pursue perfectionists, and I miss the old only occasionally, mainly because I feel that no matter what happened before, there are things that I just miss very much, and as time goes by, the past seems beautiful.

Perfectionists The more they pursue perfection and flawlessness, the more nostalgic they will eventually find that they ignore the beautiful process of things in the process of pursuing perfection.

Perfect people are tired, because of perfection, all the constant comparison of what is beautiful.

Because perfectionists pursue perfection, not only the perfection of the present, the perfection of the future, but also the perfection of the past. So it's more nostalgic.

See how you understand it. The pursuit of perfection in everything indirectly shows that this person is meticulous about things and hopes only for better. Living or working with such a person, you can find a little joy in life or work with them.

Something new is full of unknowns.

The reality is too perfect, and nostalgia is a kind of loneliness.

Because they're going to compare these things to what they wanted to before.

Doesn't arrange their own lives.

Because the past is always good.

If it's really serious, go to a psychiatrist and advise: "You must know that not everything is perfect, perfect people and things are not approached, and the so-called respect and distance is this".

To answer hello, the first thing is to change your way of thinking and accept your imperfections. Personally, I think that perfectionists pay more attention to the evaluation and opinions of others, and it is easy to ignore their own real needs. I used to be like that, I wanted to do everything well, and I did it perfectly.

The starting point is good, but it's hard to really do it well. People's energy is limited, do everything well, meet the expectations and requirements of others, maybe there will be a sense of accomplishment after completion, but it is also easy to get tired. Over time, they will live in the expectations of others and ignore their own real needs.

There are very few things that can be done in one step, most of the work (or tasks) need to be repeatedly revised and adjusted, and it is not terrible to make mistakes, just correct them in time and get back on track. Only by getting the job done first can we strive for perfection. If you forget what you want to do in the first place for the sake of perfection, you are putting the cart before the horse.

I always blame myself for asking questions.

There's a sense of being 100 percent or zero.

Answering that things are not perfect, you can first do some small things, do what you think is imperfect, and see what the impact will be, you may find that others do not care whether what you do is perfect or not.

There is no such thing as perfection....There are only more troubles....

People who truly pursue perfection are free from psychological pressure, and their spiritual life is also quite rich, for example, some scientists almost forget the existence of their own self in order to study something. Mr. Yuan Longping, the famous father of rice, often forgot that he was hungry when he observed the growth of rice in the rice field, and sometimes he didn't know that it even rained. The motivation to find out why he is so dedicated comes from his strong interest in rice and a playful mentality.

The perfectionists you are talking about are prone to psychological pressure, and they may not have the potential to pursue perfection, because they take too much attention to the success or failure of the result, and they may be in a hurry, so they are prone to irritability in the process, or they are difficult to bear the feeling of failure when the result is not as expected.

In fact, a lot of great success is played with the mentality of the game, in addition to a high degree of interest in the investment, but also to have a try attitude regardless of the result, even if it fails, it doesn't matter, you can come again, of course, whether the object of the game can have a positive value significance for yourself and the object.

It is necessary to relieve the psychological pressure of excessive pursuit of perfection and let the parties try it, even if there is a little flaw, there is not much danger, it can still get by, and it will be much easier to look at things from more angles.

I don't know which successful person once said a very enlightening saying, "Prepare with a serious attitude and treat it with a game mentality".

Perfectionists are the least likely people to be happy, hehe.

It's easiest to put pressure on yourself, a lot of pressure.

Even if everyone else thinks he's good, it's good.

He is still not satisfied and is always critical of himself.

It's never been easy.

I also have a perfectionist mentality, all the time.

I want to open it now, why do you do it so well, who will you show it There will always be people who are not satisfied, it is better to go with the flow and get by Hehe.

I'm just a very ordinary, very ordinary, very ordinary person.

I just have a lot of shortcomings, nevertheless.

I still have one or two good friends.

Actually, I'm not bad, I'm not worse than others.

Let's live like this ...

Spend more time with people with cheerful personalities.

Mix in the crowd more.

Experience their joy and experience their joy.

You can learn a lot of "grassroots" things from others.

Learn to relax, learn to be happy!

Don't force it, it's easy to get sick.

Wishing you happiness!

Perfectionists are prone to psychological stress, which may eventually lead to mental illnesses such as depression.

Those who have the mentality of excessive pursuit of perfection must first know that the pursuit of perfection is the driving force for human progress, and the key is not to go too far, which requires them to overcome it from their hearts, if they can't overcome it themselves, they should seek the help of a psychologist.

Hehe, everything goes naturally, the world is like this.

I'm not completely out of perfectionism, but I've realized how to change!

You remember that reality is imperfect, and when you face reality, you face yourself with imperfection.

The reality is not terrible, and you don't even have the courage to face it! It's not terrible that others don't accept themselves, it's terrible that you don't accept yourself! When you face reality and accept yourself, you can be close to perfection, when you don't think about how perfect you are, but when you do things in a down-to-earth manner, you can be close to perfection, but I mean close, so always be sincere and humble to the people around you, because everyone must have something you can learn, and there must be something you can't learn at all!

Of course, you are the same, so don't feel inferior either! May you join me in getting rid of vanity, arrogance, inferiority that is what is called"Perfect"!Let yourself be at ease!

I remember when I was chatting with a netizen before, they told me a story: Once upon a time, there was a painter who wanted to paint a painting that everyone could like. After the painting, go to the place where the crowd gathers to show it.

He placed a pen next to the painting and added a note that every viewer could mark the painting if they thought it was lacking.

In the evening, the painter retrieved the painting and found that the entire picture was covered with marks - not a single stroke was not blamed. The painter was very unhappy, disappointed and bitter about the attempt.

He decided to try another way.

The next day, he copied the same painting and took it to its original place. This time, the attached note puts it another way, asking each viewer to mark the pen he admires the most. When he retrieved the painting again in the evening, he found that it had been completely scribbled again—everything that had been blamed had been replaced with a mark of appreciation.

The painting, which is also covered with markings, represents two very different results – one is complete obliteration and the other is complete appreciation.

In fact, it is not difficult for us to have similar experiences in life. Many times, we complain that the people around us don't understand our work, that our boss doesn't see our work correctly, and that we can't give a perfect evaluation ...... about our work performanceIn fact, everyone will always have different opinions and opinions about the same thing, and those opinions will be logical and completely valid, the difference is only a difference in emphasis.

As you can see, we can never achieve an outcome that satisfies everyone. So, all we can do is satisfy some people. Not obsessively insisting on a perfection, not being paranoid about one's own wishful thinking of perfection, that is already a kind of perfection of life.

There is no such thing as perfection in this world.

Perfectionists are nothing more than fantasies. There will always be flaws.

You just have to be confident that you're a great person right now.

As for whether it is perfect or not, you can't see it yourself.

Just keep moving forward and improve all aspects of yourself.

Don't think about whether you're perfect or not.

Is there a standard for perfection?

Since you are a perfectionist, do you need to give up the pursuit of perfection?

The pursuit of perfection does not have to be perfect in everything, but what is perfect?

As long as you are conscientious and do your best, doing better is your own perfection!

Don't give up.

Once you give up, it will be even more empty.

Perfectionist, complete 30 rings of freeport life every day for 3 consecutive days, you can start absolute perfectionist, complete 30 rings of freeport life every day for 7 consecutive days, you can start and you can't give up halfway!! Be careful not to give up!

In addition, it is recommended that you calculate it on a calendar day, that is, from Monday onwards.

"The Absolute Perfectionist represents that you have completed 210 Freeport Life activities in a single week.

No way, you need a licensed psychiatrist!

No one knows what Leslie Cheung committed suicide for, you don't mess with the definition because of his perfectionism, perfectionism is a kind of biased behavior of character, if it is serious enough to affect normal life, then you have to carry out a formal psychological **, you don't want to die, how can you kill yourself, and when it comes to homosexuality, it's not that you can change if you want to, you won't change if you don't want to, congenital sex is destined from the day your genes are formed in the mother's womb, like the same sex and don't like the opposite sex, in fact, it's nothing, It still takes a certain process for the broad masses of Chinese people to accept, and if you are the same sex, the premise is that you must first identify with yourself, so that others can identify with you. Perfect people, things, and things do not exist, and the existence of Venus tells us that the so-called perfection must be defective. Don't take yourself too seriously, it's actually beautiful to live a relaxed life, same-sex love is no different from the opposite sex, it's just that some people think about it deformity and demonize same-sex love.

Love itself is borderless, genderless, ageless, distanceless, nothing incidental, love is love. Be optimistic. Don't think it's too dark!

First of all, we are all ordinary people, and it is impossible to be perfect in everything, so you don't have to be too obsessed with looking at things!

Secondly, as long as you do your best, no matter how it ends, you should be happy and don't take it too seriously!

In addition, communicate more with friends around you, people are social animals, and Robinson's life is not allowed in modern society.

Good luck!

The problems we encounter are different.

I was admitted to a university because my major was not ideal.

It's a little depressed.

I've thought about dropping out.

Later I went to see a psychiatrist.

No pills, no hypnosis or anything.

It's the kind of chat.

I went there five times.

50 minutes each time.

Psychiatrists are professionals after all.

They have solved a lot of problems that have been bothering me for a long time.

Seeing a psychiatrist is not a big deal.

They won't treat you like a patient.

They usually become the people who come to them for consultation as visitors.

Let go, be strong, perfectionists are fragile psychologically, they are afraid and run away from imperfections, first of all, you have to realize that this is a pathology, this kind of psychology wastes your life, time, and strength, and will make you more and more silent and autistic. Don't set limits on yourself, and don't be sharp, there are some questions that don't have answers, and maybe you don't understand that, because I don't know what your specific symptoms are. Perfectionist people are mostly introverted, autistic, and restrained.

In fact, this will do you all kinds of harm and no good, you have to be strong, the most important thing is that you have to be calm and positive, when you care about something very much, you yourself must be very painful and depressed. Let go of the mood, it's not a big deal. I also have a bit of a perfection tendency, and I would like to encourage you.

Your personality is very similar to mine. But I'm not a college student, and I'm not from here. I will say my personal thoughts.

I've always felt that I'm different from others, and I've always thought that I could do something in the future. I also feel like I can invent something. And, as you said, it's not fun to do anything with others.

I think there is only one occupation that is suitable for me; Entrepreneurship.

But I still advise you not to pursue perfection everywhere, I am because of that, so I always feel inferior because of my own desires and unsatisfied. It's better to let go and be content. Although you can't do it sometimes, I still hope that you will work hard to change, and if you can't do it yourself, it doesn't mean that others can't do it.

When it comes to work, let's go with the flow.

Perfectionists are respectable! But since it will never be satisfied! It's going to be very tiring.

I'm the one who came here! Suffer from it! Therefore, I advise you to say:

The world is not perfect! Gu Shiyun: The moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have joys and sorrows!

It's hard to do it all! It's so perfect that even God would be jealous! Isn't it good to be a little free?..

Whatever you like, just work hard! In fact, in this life, everyone is pursuing the perfect result! It's a pity that a few people can understand that in fact, all we can enjoy is the process!

Perfectionist, general choice.

Art: But since you said no, there is.

Critic: Criticize and correct mistakes by criticizing the current evils of society.

Writers, poets: This kind of person is also more suitable.

Scientific researcher: a mind to study.