A question that I feel very helpless about

I think it's better to forget it, because you dumped her, and you chased her in turn, are you sorry for her??

Even if she will promise you, will your heart go?? Dump others by yourself, how do you make up for her, I think it's okay to be a girlfriend, be an ordinary friend, you should be nice to her.

Good horses don't eat back grass, even if you are together, you will not be happy in the future!

You can try, after all, the feelings of the student days are very pure.

Try to be friends first, there will be a chance to play together alone, at this time, talk to her casually, talk to her attitude when talking about the past, if you are a little embarrassed, then you are half the battle, if she seems to be indifferent, then talk about the present, but do not cause the other party to be disgusted.

Take your time, step by step, look at her attitude, act and believe in yourself, believe in your own vision

Good horses don't eat back grass, even if you are together, you will not be happy in the future!

Don't listen to the two upstairs, chase one word!

Go your own way, let others say it, there is never casual success in the world, your table will immediately pay the price for the shallowness of your confidant, and that loss is the regret brought by wasting your time. You are right, because only by having the right attitude and being down-to-earth can you achieve great things. To insist on what is right for yourself, the truth is often ridiculed in the proof, but I hope that you can have the faith to adhere to and carry forward your good style, use your positive energy to drive your class, and set off a new trend of learning than learning and daring to fight, and you will completely form a good character for your future.

Child, there are indeed many smart people in the world: he can get good grades without studying hard and completing homework! But that's innate, and we don't need to envy it. Because everyone has what they do best, there is more to life than just learning.

Regarding studying, as you said, it is an objective fact that you are not as good as her in studying in a hurry. Don't be sad. She said, "You love to do your homework, I should learn from you", this sentence is not wrong, she should indeed learn from you, because you are right, if she really learns from you, maybe she can be the first in the class or even the first in the whole grade.

But is she now?

Your worldview isn't going to be Fenfen, is it? "You can think about it, yes and yes to her. What's so bad about struggle? No, just say no.

You don't care if your classmates are hacking you, what you need is to think seriously about whether her words are right and reasonable? No, you have a reason to refute her, you don't know how to refute it at the time, go back and think about it and come back. You feel that you are right, so you agree with her and say:

You're right. Be generous, and she won't be bothering you often in the future.

In addition, it doesn't matter if you are smart or stupid, you have to struggle. No matter how introverted you are, you must find a good friend, I believe you will find it.

Do you feel happy and fulfilling in your life of taking the time to do your homework? If you feel that the light is full, then go on, if you give up what you want, give up your principles and life just because of the sarcasm of others, and then grind together, it is the saddest. In the same way, people who always want to impose their own habits of life on others like you at the table are the most pathetic.

By the way, is she afraid that you will learn more than her and damage her free and easy image? It's just that she doesn't say it, use this disguised method to hold you back! Also, if you're really confused, check if your study method is a bit off-track?

We're all pretty much the same, and you have to think of it as a grind.

Become open-minded.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring, very hard, because the society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, not boring, because, life is like this, no one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. As long as you remember: this second envy does not give up, the next second there is a miracle life will inevitably fall and wait, to be brave to look up, the sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or any soft and beautiful thing and observe its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all happy to live, not everyone can succeed, only brother Mu wants you to work everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderfulGo for it! Finally, happy every day!

It's always been a person who wants to try his best to redeem ,,, wants to do a good job, but finds himself unable to do it... Nothing can be done. It's that helplessness...