Why am I reluctant to leave a man who won t live?

Maybe you think this is the so-called love, but have you ever thought that he loves you, if he loves you, it won't make you feel miserable, it won't make you suffer, it will make you happy, maybe you once had a beautiful love, you will have a lot of reluctance, but will you really raise him for a lifetime? That's unrealistic, you'll be tired one day, break up with him, although it's going to be painful now, but in order to have a happier future, don't live so tired, take care of yourself, be happy

Maybe it's because of love.

There are some things that I know are wrong, and I can't listen to what other people say.

This is love.

I don't think love! It's a habit.

Let go slowly! Is it so hard that you will live with a man who has no career and is not self-motivated?

Decide for yourself. Anyway, it's good to make a decision early.

If you want to raise him, don't complain.

Otherwise, you don't want to raise him.

Hehe. If Wan Feng of Zhejiang Radio hears this, you will be miserable, and you will definitely squirt the blood you said. Ha.

You can try not to get too close to him, slowly. Let both people have a buffer process. You can tell that you are a very good girl. You are reluctant to think only for the sake of his future.

But I think you still have to think a little bit about yourself.

I'm sure you've got a lot of good boys around you. Try to discover the person who can bring you joy.

It's not easy for a person, so it's not too accommodating. Maybe you care about him now, but in his heart you are just a weak woman, so you can bully! He doesn't look down on you!

Find someone who can love you, even if he's a poor man. As long as you have a heart that loves you, he will do his best to give you happiness. You experience more than just the joy he gives you.

Bless to you!

I will not leave him. Because I think a man who can die for you really loves you and will do it for you, although this way is not necessarily good, but don't let go of the person who is sincere to yourself! And there are really not many sincere men in this world! Adopt it.

My experience is the same as yours, I find that he is not as attentive to me as you used to be, but I am now slowly coming out, although I still can't let go now, but I am already trying to give up, and I feel that I don't care as much about his attitude and behavior towards me as before, because I know that there will be no good results, so I hope you will work with me, I believe that the same suffering is only temporary, and it will slowly get better after a long time.

I believe some of the things that my friends here have said, because I found that everyone's experience is similar, but those who have experienced it say that there is no good result, so it must be fruitless.

A man will not give up on his family, because marriage is not the same as love. Love is a matter of two people, while marriage is a matter of two families.

Don't be silly!! If he really needs you, come back when he is free!!

Believe me, it won't work out.

I think there is always a goal in life, you don't want to destroy his family and leave him, if he doesn't love his wife and loves you, then he would have been divorced a long time ago! It's just a current favorite, and I'm tired of watching my wife! Find yourself a harbor to rely on for a lifetime, guess the importance of guessing!

I've also encountered this situation once when three words are meaningless.

Men are like that, and I suggest you listen to men and leave them half.

Leave early or you'll regret it.

Regret + chagrin + disappointment, personal experience advises you to get rid of it as soon as possible.

There is a saying: no matter how deep the love is, if you walk with hurt, you will not be happy.

If it doesn't work, it's very painful, so let's do it as soon as possible.

Change to city life. I've tried it and it works.

The question is what is the reason to leave....Leaving doesn't mean you don't care....Being together doesn't mean you care....

It depends on the situation, if he decides to leave you forever, there is no doubt that he doesn't love you anymore. If it's just going to a distant place or something, it's a last resort, don't worry too much.

That's the question for yourself.

How do you feel?

It's better to ask yourself.

Sometimes, he may leave because he feels that he can't bring you the kind of happiness you want, so he chooses to leave. But that doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore.

There are many ways to love someone.

Some people say that there are many excuses for a man to leave a woman, but the truth is, he doesn't love you anymore.

This is very realistic, men are rational creatures, you stop thinking that he broke up with you for all kinds of unavoidable reasons.

He doesn't love you, what's the big deal, you should tell him very chicly"I've been waiting for you to break up for a long time"and then leave without looking back. Why make him think you care about him?

If it's an idol drama, maybe he loves you too much.

If you say you want to be with him, and he still wants to leave, he must not love you anymore. Try?

Love can only fall in love without getting married when both parties are afraid of marriage, after all, marriage is not necessarily the road to happiness, and two people who love each other work together to create happiness for each other! What you said makes me a little vague, is it that he really has the intention of getting married and the bride is not you, or is it an assumption that you have come up with on your own?

If it's the former, when he still loves you, fight for your love again before he gets married Even if he can't marry you for all kinds of unavoidable reasons, you have to make a final effort for your love! Love is two things, since the other party can't give you the happiness you want, then nostalgia can only be a harm to each other...

If it's the latter, then I think you're too worried, as long as the two people who love each other, as long as you can feel the full love between you, no one can easily separate you! Feelings are originally a fate, cherish fate with fate, when love is still there, please don't doubt too much just love fiercely, only then when the day the love is gone, you will not regret it, because you have loved, it is enough.

Leave him, since he already has his own life, bless him from afar, don't bother him anymore! You also have to go down, start a new life like him, and wait for the start of the next relationship!

You don't want to be numbed by love, if he loves you, why did he choose that woman and not you?

He can be a junior for you, he can have both. If he is such a careless person, why should you suffer?

Could it be that you have been a junior all your life and wasted your time on a man with a wife? By the time you sacrifice too much for this man, by the time you are seventy or eighty, it will be too late for you to regret it!

You feel like you should let it go. Out of his world, in fact, in the near future, there is a man waiting for you.

This is related to the happiness of your life.

You're so stupid, you're really low enough to be a junior, women have to know how to cherish and respect themselves, if you even look down on yourself, who else can afford you?

If you really love him and grasp the present, but he is married, you really have to let go of him, you have to think about your future, he can't give you a future when he gets married.

There is no other --- to leave him, otherwise both will lose.

First of all, I don't know if you're a man or a woman.

Let me tell you, if a man likes a woman, he will be more generous than usual, but different people have different understandings of the concept of being willing to spend money, maybe his daily living expenses or something add together, only 10 yuan, but spend 100 for you Don't frown, 100 is generous to him, but do all women think that spending 100 for her is willing to spend money for her, not necessarily.

It's not a good thing for men to spend money, and it's not a bad thing for men to spend more money for you.

Let's see everything.

It also depends on your understanding.

After all, love is for two people, and it can't be forced.

Oh, probably, people in love always think a lot.

Don't care about this, as long as the happiness of love, what else do you care?

If love is not happy, what's the point of spending more money.

If love is not happy, what's the point of spending more money.

Not necessarily, he must also think about all the expenses he will face in the future to live together!

Of course it will, but within what you can afford.

No, people who really love you won't leave you in the event of a big misunderstanding, haven't you explained?

If he really likes you, he feels that he will not leave you, and the person who really likes you is any time you look back and will always see his shadow.

He is not firm in his liking or his heart is fragile, so he is hurt.

If he didn't know it was a misunderstanding and broke his heart, he would have left.

How big of a misunderstanding is that to make someone who really likes you leave?

If the boy is immature, it will.

Live like this. Anyway, in this society, whoever leaves can't do it.

A typical hedonistic type, there is wine today and drunk today, probably a post-80s man, because many post-80s men around me are like this, but after giving birth to a child, they will be more restrained, after all, the feeling of being a father is different. I think the best way is not to talk about him, but to restrain him with practical actions, and if you don't have children, you can have a child, so that you will be more relaxed. The premise is that you have an emotional foundation, and if you don't have a foundation, don't gamble with your children.

Divorce does not mean that you will leave, oh, the owner of the tower is cautious.

You can go to court and sue him. Reason: As the guardian of the child and the breadwinner of the family, he has the responsibility to take care of the family, which is also a responsibility given to him by law, and he should be punished for failing to perform his duties.

You can also find out what he's spending his money on, I'm sure it will help you.

Ask him, do it every day, go out every day.

Question: Can you tell me what to do with me.

You have to understand him.

He spends and you spend, and when he has no money, he knows that he is making money, and you secretly save some money for the child's food and shelter, and then you study a set of plans, such as the radical method, and you spend money, and you spend the most, and it is you and him who suffer the most, but you can't let the child suffer, and then he is probably a little self-conscious.

What are you going to do with such a man, divorce him.

It's really bad luck for several lifetimes to encounter this.