I have a crush on Shi Dingfang, what should I do if I have a crush on someone.

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Crush is a painful thing because you like it but can't or dare to say it.

    I don't know if you can't say it or don't dare to say it.

    If you can't say it, it's better not to say it, and you don't have illusions when you know that there is no result, it's better for yourself and for the other. Since you have already loved, you can only bear the pain yourself. Then time to slowly resolve your pain.

    If it's because you're too timid to say it, then you shouldn't say it. It's normal to have a crush on the opposite sex until you like someone, so why be afraid? That's where you have to look for problems in yourself.

    Is it because your homeschooling is more traditional? Your parents forbade you from touching the opposite sex from an early age and formed in your mind the awareness that "it is shameful to be in love"; Or because of pressure from the people around you, afraid that people will laugh at you; Or because you are timid, unconfident, and afraid of rejection; Or are you confused by your own psychological problems?

    There are so many possibilities that cause you to dare not confess and fall into the whirlpool of crush pain. You should find out for yourself why you want to find a solution.

    Seeing the name of your crush, I think you're a man. As a man, I should show a little confidence and courage to come out, and since I dare to love, I must dare to speak. Think about it, if you are together in the future, you are still so timid, so courageless, how can you bear the burden that a man should bear?

    How do you protect her, how do you give her the security they deserve?

    You may be fantasizing that the other party may feel you one day, and then take the initiative to confess to you. If the fantasy is too different from the truth, you will be more miserable. Don't be in pain, as long as you see it, you will have the courage to dare to love and dare to do it once, and be a real big man again!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Usually care more about her, this is too important, a boy who doesn't care about himself, how to make a girl feel secure, it is impossible to be your girlfriend, care is still preliminary, create more opportunities to be alone, under normal circumstances, the relationship will start from this long time, crushing a girl will make you crazy, too not calm, you can obviously feel that you are immature, and you will have a crush on other girls in the future, I hope you will change at that time.

    If you like her, it doesn't mean that you won't like other girls anymore, let it go, that girl is not yours anyway, because there are other girls waiting for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love has to be shouted out loud、、、 even if she knows!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't say it, it means that she doesn't know that you like her, you say it, even if you refuse, she knows that you like her, she will dream of you when she sleeps at night, and she will take the initiative to come to you to play the next day.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Crushing on a girl will make you crazy.,It's so not calm.,Obviously, you can feel that you're immature.,You'll have a crush on other girls in the future.,I hope you change at that time....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Say it, kid. If you refuse, take it as an emotion, and it's good to remember it later.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is still a chance to succeed if you chase it, and if you don't chase it, it's no fun at all! Take your pick.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go for it! But I advise you, you'd better inquire about his current situation! For example, there is no boyfriend within! So as not to embarrass everyone in the end!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is still a chance to succeed if you chase it, and if you don't chase it, it's no fun at all!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Make a bold confession! Is there so much time in life to miss? It's useless to think so much! It's so close!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time is the poison of all love, there is no love that cannot be forgotten, only the memories of the first love that cannot be forgotten, and it is best to leave other people's feelings alone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I shouldn't like it, and if I like it, the boy should look at her more or take the initiative to talk to her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Confess to him! If you're afraid that he won't like you. Give it a try, too.

    You won't regret it after trying it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Go and talk to him, it's better to say it than not to say it, it may not lead to results, if you don't say it, you won't get anything, if you say it, at least he'll know that there is someone who likes him all the time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Would love it! What girls need is security! It's easy to fall into the deep pool of love, unable to extricate yourself, that guy can't play a girl.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What does it look like to have a crush on someone?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I suggest that you don't confess, because you are still young, don't take it for granted that you have feelings for her, and then identify it as love, maybe you will think of her very well in your heart, but when you are really together, there will be a lot of contradictions. Therefore, it is recommended that you do not confess until your mind matures again, and then think about whether you are suitable or not.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Confession may fail, but if you don't confess, there will definitely be no future, and you definitely don't want your crush to become the most painful memory, just because you don't have the courage to step forward and face her beautiful smiling face.

    ps: I don't know your specific situation, I guess you don't know each other very well, right? You don't have many opportunities to do things together, do you? (The class is different?) Confessing rashly, in fact, the success rate is not high. Do you have a chance to have more contact with her?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The willows on the branches blow and there is little grass at the end of the world.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's because I'm not confident enough in myself, I'm afraid that I'm not worthy of it, and I'm afraid of being rejected.

    If you feel like it's right for you, don't give up, there's always an opportunity to take action.

    If you feel that you just have feelings, you don't dare to go on, forget it, after all, it may not be suitable to be together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If that girl doesn't have a favorite object, and she doesn't get tired of you, you can choose to take the initiative, after all, it's not easy to meet someone you like, and it's a pity to miss the group. But before that, you have to make sure that you really have a crush on her, otherwise it will hurt to break up again after closing the sedan chair or spike.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Her hesitation means that there is a chance, but the opportunity is not something you can control, it depends on her decision, she has her considerations, if you don't know the reason, there is no way, the reason for this kind of problem is definitely not convenient, you know, so just wait when it's okay, if you're busy, forget it, you should find something else, just find someone else.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, you have to let him know that you like him, and then ask him QQ, ** number, find him often, be friends with him, and let him have a good impression of you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look at how he feels about you, if you also have a good feeling, there are many things that don't need to be said much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Either you've been secretly in love with him, or you're bold enough to tell him, depending on what you think of the relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be brave, love to speak out loud and always be the same, to move her with your heart, but also to relax, we have always put ourselves in a mask cover, open our hearts, speak out bravely, come on.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What does it look like to have a crush on someone?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The manifestation of a crush on someone is that he will always look at you in class; The manifestation of having a crush on someone is that you want to see them all the time; The manifestation of a crush on someone is that the heart beats faster when you see them; The manifestation of a crush on a person is that he will appear in front of him from time to time and want him to notice him; The manifestation of a crush on someone is that they see that they are not in their sight, and they will look left and right to find them

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I have been looking at her (him) with my spare eyes, pretending to be handsome in various poses, pretending not to care, etc.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's hard to say, but if you don't make a move, maybe other girls will have to do it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Try to be bold and at best make a joke.

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