We had a fight, help me analyze it!

It's not good to do this, you just talked about love like this when you were like this, so what should you do in the future, women, just to find a man who can let you, if you don't do this, you will be angry in the future, and then you look at other people's women have a husband who loves you very much, won't you be envious, so what, he ignores you, you ignore him, see when he apologizes to you, if he doesn't come to you, you ignore him, you can see a person's heart, Am you right, friend?

I don't think it's your fault, I think you're all at fault, it's his fault for not being patient with his girlfriend, it's your fault for not observing his temper. In fact, you still lack some communication skills. Think about it, when you see him angry with you, don't you think about the pain in his heart, or what happened to him unhappy that day.

If you want to have a beautiful love road, you have to rely on yourself to observe each other's feelings.

Hopefully, you will come out of the shadows of the past, if you get to know him. I'm sure you'll be happy.

It's a little noisy, it's nothing.

In the future, you must learn to mediate. You can't keep it like this.

If you keep arguing like this, if you don't solve it, something will happen.

Ay! As a woman, the most important thing is to know how to be considerate!

<> "Behind the quarrel is this!

Everyone is unique, and in an intimate relationship, different parties will rub different sparks and, of course, encounter different problems! Have you ever experienced such a question in a relationship?

1. Do I love the real person?

**Chat so happily, say everything, look at the chat history and giggle happily for a long time, my heart is full of sweetness, looking forward to seeing each other soon. However, when I really saw each other, it was as if the enthusiastic self on the line was hidden, and the words that I wanted to care about were not spoken. Maybe you've also noticed that the emotional gap makes the date you were looking forward to uninteresting.

Is this you? 2. Be happy together, and once you are separated, you will be heaven and earth?

When they were playing and chatting together, the two of them were as good as conjoined babies, as if all their troubles had been thrown to Java. But when we communicate separately, it is easy to quarrel, because a little thing will unconsciously think that he doesn't love me enough? Is he upset with me?

Did he not take my words to heart? Why can't you be considerate of me? ......Disappointment is never a big deal, it's often something repetitive.

Every time I quarrel, I feel that the other party is not as loving as before, but what he keeps saying is how he cares about what kind of love ......Have you ever experienced a problem that you don't know how to solve yourself?

The reason for quarrels in intimate relationships is not always the same for everyone, but whether online or offline, quarrels are usually because the needs are not met and the other person wants to meet their inner needs.

2.Be brave enough to express your needs. Explain your need so that others can better understand its importance.

For example, if you want the other party to prove whether you care about yourself, then be brave enough to say: I didn't serve you.

Full feeling, I think you can give me more responses, and my heart will be more steady.

3.Communication skills (expression + listening) on both sides need to be improved. For example, I use "I" to express my feelings: I miss the time I spent walking with you on the beach, and I want to take a walk with you ......

When your needs are met, the sense of security is naturally full, and a good intimate relationship is nurtured at the same time, have you learned how to make your needs met in a relationship?

Don't be rash when you quarrel with friends, I hope you can calmly analyze the whole process of your conflict.

If I have a quarrel with a friend, first of all, I must learn to calm down, try not to be too impulsive, because too much rashness is likely to make the problem worse, in addition to calming down, I will carefully analyze the whole process to see what is the reason for the situation but the two sides have become like this!

If you find out afterwards that it was your fault, you must sincerely apologize to the other person. Of course, if the other party is at fault first, then I will also choose a suitable time to find him calmly to talk, if he can admit his mistake or say something acceptable to me, then no problem, we are still friends! If not, then I'll take a fresh look at my friendship with him, and probably we'll just be it in the future'Ordinary'Friends!

Also, if you can't save your face, you don't have to talk in person, and writing a note is also a good way to express your meaning!

Do you get it? I hope it helps you, may you be happy, and still have a sincere friendship!

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Two people live together.

It's inevitable to bump into each other.

Don't let today be a thing of the past, don't let your story with him be an experience.

Maybe sometimes he will make you sad in one way or another, whether he was moved yesterday;

Feelings can sometimes be like bumper cars, and occasional collisions will make you happy, that's not hurt, that's a test, and it's also the accumulation of feelings.

No one will inevitably make some mistakes on the road of life, don't let the blood get carried away because of a momentary impulse and a moment of unhappiness, the important thing for the two to be together is to support each other, not to complain about each other, don't let today's comments become the handle of tomorrow's quarrel, tell him what you think in your heart, understand what he thinks.

Maybe it's easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, if the two cherish each other, there is no mountain that can't be crossed by the river.

The most superficial reasons for quarrels, bad feelings, living habits, ways of thinking, boredom.

In fact, in the final analysis, there is only one, if you don't know how to tolerate, no one is perfect, so why blame others for being lenient with yourself? If you don't know how to tolerate, unless you find someone who knows how to tolerate, you will definitely quarrel with whomever you are with.

Instead of analyzing why you quarreled, it is better to think about it from another perspective, as the saying goes, a slap does not make a sound, and try to communicate calmly.

Like a woman with water, water has many characteristics, water flows to a lower place, and does not compete with men; The drop of water wears the stone, and subtly changes the other party, and it will never be hard; Colorless and invisible, no matter how unhappy it is, it will not show it on the face, and it will communicate calmly.

A man like a stone, the stone also has characteristics, it is as solid as a rock, and it is a wall for women; Silence is golden, tolerate the other party, even if it is vexatious; Impartial, peaceful, and down-to-earth.

I remember that my girlfriend was very good at first, and then I lived together and was always noisy. Actually, I don't like to scold, every time she wants to make noise, I ignore her, and then she came in the back, this person is really boring, scolding him will not fight back!

This is normal, how do you know if you can really live without noise or trouble? If you can't accept this kind of thing when you are not married, there is still a long way to go, how can you live?

It's not that enemies don't get together.

Because you love each other, you ask each other to be perfect.

If you don't love, who has nothing to quarrel with? The process of arguing is the process of perfecting each other and changing each other, although the process is a bit difficult.

That's how the relationship between the two people quarreled. If you don't quarrel or not, if there is a quarrel one day, it must be a volcanic eruption, and everything will be over.

If you get along for a long time, you will find that each other has different shortcomings, which requires two people to tolerate each other.

Because you get to know each other better.

The lack of communication and heart-to-heart talks with each other will be alleviated if you often go out to play and talk.

Personality incompatibility, too little communication, and learn to tolerate each other's needs.

Because during the run-in period, the edges and corners of each other have not yet been rounded. You don't know what he can't tolerate, he doesn't know what you can't tolerate.