Do many young people nowadays not want to get married?

I think that many young people nowadays do not want to get married, but they are not able to get married.

The main reason why young people don't want to get married nowadays is because the cost of marriage is too high now. Without strong financial means, it is unaffordable. Marriage is faced with the problem of bride price, and the bride price is very high now.

And now it's not just the bride price, but also a house and a car when you get married. When choosing a mate, the woman will look at the man's financial ability. If the financial ability is not very good, it is difficult to find a satisfactory other half.

Many young people are afraid to get married because of their poor economic foundation.

Nowadays, young people don't want to get married, because the expectations for marriage are relatively low. Nowadays, many young people are only children, and when two people grow up to fall in love, they can't tolerate each other well, and if there is a little friction, they may eventually break up. And many young people are now free and accustomed to it, and feel that marriage is also a kind of responsibility, which will be more troublesome, and they don't have such a good and happy yearning for marriage, so they don't want to get married.

Marriage also faces responsibilities, many young people feel that marriage is a cage, and if they want to enter marriage, they have to bear a lot of responsibility, but they do not have the freedom to live alone, which is why they don't want to step into marriage. It is true that many young people do not want to get married. There are all kinds of reasons for themselves, but I think there are many paths in life, and not getting married does not mean that you are unhappy, as long as you can choose the path you want to take, you can bear it, you can be responsible for yourself, whether you are married or not, as long as you are happy.

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As he gets older, he is urged to marry by his family. And people who get married in a hurry, some days are very good, and some days are very unpleasant.

Being urged to marry by their parents has become the main topic of communication between single men and women in modern cities and their parents.

One urges marriage, the other fears marriage, every time the two parties meet and call, it is a vicious battle.

I remember when my cousin wasn't married yet, and when she didn't have a partner, every time she went home, she would be talked to by a bunch of elders in turn, discussing the topic of marriage. The elders always have a bunch of reasons to tell you to get married early: get married early and have children early, which is good for your health and children, or get married and have children while you are young, your mother is still young and can still bring grandchildren, or if you don't find a partner now, who wants you when you are in your thirties.

Some people really don't want to get married and are very resistant to blind dates, and some people are also constantly going on blind dates, just meeting the right one.

However, even if they are constantly going on blind dates, the elders will still say: I've seen so much, why haven't I seen one of them? Don't be too demanding, who is not a partner to live, just look pleasing to the eye! Well, after all, they are elders, and the thoughts of the older generation are not always on the same channel as us.

Some single young people who are not determined, especially young women, may be affected by their age, and they will decide on their marriage partners in blind dates one after another.

Even though they're getting married, they're really not familiar with each other.

Therefore, there will be a very interesting scene: in the process of buying a wedding, the two people behaved very politely and unfamiliarly. There are few marriages that are based on the expectations of the elders, and there are few who can be truly happy.

Either he married a giant baby, did nothing after marriage, and waited for someone to serve him at home. Either he married an ancestor, he only knew that he didn't make money by spending money, and he thought that men were incompetent.

The biggest difference between love and marriage should be regarded as responsibility, when you are in love, you can not consider other factors, as long as two people are happy together, you don't have to think too much about money when you are in love, you don't have to think too much about living in the moment, just be happy, play when you have money, and the pressure of no money is much less than that after marriage.

Compared with marriage, love can be said to not have too much sense of responsibility, it is completely based on a good impression of each other, as long as you are happy, you are comfortable, and it is different to get married more than anything. After getting married, each other must have a certain sense of responsibility, and they can't do whatever they want like when they are in love.

When they are in love, they see each other a lot, only each other, and they think very little about the future. Marriage is different. Marriage is more about two people creating a future of a family together, and it will be more pragmatic than falling in love.

Marriage can be seen as an upgraded version of love, but why do some people just choose to fall in love and are not willing to get married? Perhaps the reason why they only choose to be in love and are reluctant to marry is because they are unwilling to take responsibility. It's just to pursue the good feeling when you're in love.

There are many reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married, such as work pressure, housing pressure, life pressure, loan pressure, and support for the elderly.

With the development of the economy, although the standard of living is much higher, modern young people are facing unprecedented pressure, they dare not fall in love, and even their own survival is a problem, let alone dare to think about starting a family. If you have money, no one wants to be single, which is caused by many pressures.

In the past, the carriage and horses were very slow, the mail was very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. However, modern love comes and goes quickly!

The kinder party paid money and time, but in the end ended up with "no people and money", the risk cost of marriage has increased, and it has been consumed to the fullest. Modern young people really don't dare to get married casually, unless they are really very rich and have always had the ability to support their families, otherwise they just raised their husbands (daughters-in-law) for others, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses, there are too many people who are spare tires!

Even if a person finds a second marriage, it is raising children for others, not biological children, no matter what, people will still find their biological parents when they grow up.

The previous marriage was very simple, a cow, a sheep, or even a dustpan of soybeans or a sack of sweet potatoes. Today's love, the three major pieces (house, car, ticket) are all indispensable. In the past, it was all about feelings, but now it's all about silver.

If you have less silver, you don't dare to get married, and if you have more silver, you will have confidence, which can be described as "drought and waterlogging".

Young people, without sedan capital, they really dare not step into marriage, just like some girls say: "Your little silver is not as expensive as my box of cosmetics!" ”

Although the young boy has a smile on his face, only he knows the pain and pain in his heart. Others are persuading you to get married, but in fact they can't help.

Take marriage as an example, a house costs millions, a car costs hundreds of thousands, and a gift money costs hundreds of thousands.

However, men and women living in the city have a little fear of getting married, which makes them not very eager to get married, resulting in many Cong Xian people are in their 30s and have not yet started a family. But why is this happening? This has to be analyzed from many aspects.

Whether it is now or in the past, we can see such a phenomenon: children who drop out of school in rural areas, in addition to working, will quickly decide their lifelong events. This is because they are exposed to society earlier than those who go to school, but society has reduced the possibilities for them, so they have to choose to start a family first.

But in today's information age, many people have ingested a lot of knowledge, so they will have a lot more choices, and there is no need to start a family first.

Clause. Second, the dazzling outside world makes us greedy, and starting a family has become a bondage.

Marriage represents a family responsibility on oneself, and all one's words and deeds are invisibly constrained, and even many occasions are not suitable for them. But Brother Wan is single but does not have so many constraints, coupled with the fact that the current Internet seeps into the dust imitation network and makes people see a different world, there will naturally be many people eager to contact the outside world. Who will get married at this time?

After all, chasing represents that you may give up the opportunity to open your eyes.

Clause. Third, the independent thinking is deeply rooted and the quality of life is improved.

Whether we work or start a family, we have only one motivation: to improve our quality of life. Nowadays, many office workers have become accustomed to the mode of being alone and are quite satisfied with their quality of life.

Since they can achieve their own satisfying life by living alone, why should they get married? After all, marriage involves two families, which makes many people afraid of getting married.

Clause. Fourth, marriage has too high requirements for material and money.

Everyone knows that the thing that must be experienced before getting married is the bride price and dowry, which is a big burden for an ordinary family, after all, the bride price and dowry are not a small amount. What's more, the premise of many people getting married now is that they must have a house, but now housing prices are not affordable for ordinary people.

Therefore, many people think that they do not have the financial ability to start a family at present, so they would rather be single.

In fact, late marriage is not only a major phenomenon in China, but also gradually appears in other countries, because people nowadays are still very independent in the economy, and their thinking is quite advanced, so there is no need to depend on anyone to live.

And their quality of life is not low, there is no need to live with the other half before they can have a qualitative leap in their quality of life. Therefore, late marriage is not because girls have too high requirements for men, nor because boys are not capable enough, but because everyone has different pursuits and requirements for life. Marriage is not something that everyone has to go through in their life, if marriage makes you happy, then get married and vice versa.

The bride price is overwhelming for many people who are preparing to get married. A lot of people want to solve this problem. However, the bride price itself is not illegal, so it needs to be addressed from an ethical perspective.

Specifically, the law does not clearly stipulate the issue of bride price, the suppression of bride price needs to be resolved from a moral level, and the consensus of both families is the most important factor for this issue.