Am I really different? 90

Go your own way and let others say go! "In today's so-called "non-mainstream" wave, it is very rare that you can maintain your innocence. You shouldn't take the word of your peers and blindly follow the trend and go with the flow.

You just have to believe that being yourself is the happiest. Actually, you don't have to care too much about other people's comments, really. Setbacks are inevitable (not what you say), and as long as you face them with optimism, there will always be a good life.

I'm a middle school student, and I have all those so-called fashions around me, but I scoff at them. I didn't learn from them, I went to see foreign teenagers, they won't be trapped by these trivial things, it's not worth it! Perhaps, this is also the sadness of today's China.

I really envy you, it's not fake.

12 years old is the age when you don't know what sorrow is, the age when you can shout "I'm born to be useful", and the age when you can play with your temperament.

And now, sitting in a high school class, there is no laughter, and the air is stagnant.

I think it's really naïve for a person to be depressed over a little thing. For there are only two kinds of people in this world: those who suffer from your pain, and those who take pleasure in your pain.

If you behave in pain, it will make the people who care about you miserable and the people who don't like you happy. To be honest, at the age of 12, what a big thing in their eyes is a few years later, and looking back, it is such a small thing.

Keep your happiness alive and give it to others, because the world needs people like you. Life is painful enough, I don't need them to come back and remind me all the time.

I'm not a happy person either, and to be honest, I often think about things that others don't think about, like what is the meaning of life. It also hurts me when I get these things in my head, but I also have to think about these questions, because I feel that it's so sad that I don't even know what the meaning of my life is.

So, leave them alone, be who you want to be, be yourself, don't mind the gossip, as long as you're happy.

I'm a fourteen-year-old girl. I think my situation may be even more dire than what you say. Our school is in a situation of who beats who every day, and girls will also form a faction to beat a little girl, I think, you may be better if you are too simple, people with blunt sensitivity are happier, and single-celled girls will be protected by others!

You just be yourself, don't pay attention to other people's evaluations, the most natural self is the most perfect! The sadness you said is just the rebellion of adolescence, I often stare at a place and cry inexplicably, and even feel that life is meaningless, but when I calmed down, I found that this world is really beautiful! Believe me, I'm not much older than you, but I'm already in a state of rebellion, and I want you to be yourself and open your mind to others and yourself!!

I have three mothers. My biological mother abandoned me when I was three years old, you have to be cheerful. After all, there are many less fortunate people than you. 】

Everyone has their own worries and troubles, some people will bury it in their hearts, and some people will complain about small things. You are a happy child living in the moment, and you are not against the current, and the most important thing is to be yourself.

No, just be yourself, just like others, that's someone else, it's not you, as long as it's good.

The trend is not sad, it is cool, be cheerful, and be happy will never go out of style.

Really, as long as you discover your strengths, be optimistic, there will always be people who are less fortunate than you, think about the good, and always feel that you are really lucky.

distinctive, a Chinese idiom, pinyin is yǔ zhòng bù tóng, which means different from others. From Qing Li Ruzhen's "Mirror Flowers".

Idiom usage: more formal; as a predicate, a definite, a complement; Describe it as outstanding. Eastern Han Dynasty Wang Chong's "On Balance": "Therefore, the rich and noble family, enslaved children, raising cattle and horses, there must be different people." ”

Example: From his unusual way of solving problems, it can be seen that he is very smart.

Idiom Story:At the end of the Shang Dynasty, because of the construction of the deer platform, Jiang Ziya was forced to jump into the water and abscond. Yang Ren went to the palace to advise the king.

The king was so angry that he ordered his eyes to be gouged out. Yang Ren's resentment moved Ziyang Cave Daode Jun. Daodaojun mended a pair of eyes with hands for him.

Since then, Yang Ren, who has been different, has followed Jiang Ziya to assist King Wen of Zhou to destroy Shang.

[From]: Qing Li Ruzhen's "Mirror Flowers": "This is the first ancient person in today's order, and it must be outstanding and different to find it interesting." ”

Example]: From his problem-solving ideas, it can be seen that he is very smart.

Grammar]: more formal; as a predicate, a definite, a complement; Describe it as outstanding.

Source: Qing Li Ruzhen's "Mirror Flowers": "This is the first ancient person in today's order, and it must be outstanding and different to find it interesting." ”

Being different means that you are different from others, and everyone has their own strengths.

It is different from ordinary people, very distinctive, personality and characteristics.

It means that it is different from everyone else and unique.

It's outstanding, unlike the vast majority of people.

This is easy to understand, that is, it is different from the public, there is an idiom called standing out from the crowd.

I feel that my head is empty, and I am rational and cheerful. I feel that I am strong-willed, have my own judgment on things, and are not swayed by the outside world. Think of yourself as different, helpful, and unyielding. In fact, all this is a psychological trick. It's probably all your delusion.

For example, the habitual thinking of finding the law has been deeply rooted in our instinct, so that in the face of purely random things, we are committed to exploring the "law" behind it and declaring our differences. For example, buying lottery tickets, some people will always take the probability of the appearance of the number as a law that can be explored, and do their best, but they don't know that the law is a probability.

Then there is pretentiousness, he is the center of the world, and it is difficult to accept the reality that he is an ordinary person. Those who work blindly think that their work is more important and feel that they cannot leave themselves. Is that really the case?

In fact, you are not as special as you think!

It's important to re-examine yourself!

My name is Wang Youtong, and some people think I'm a boy, but I'm a girl. I have a bit short hair, but I can play the piano. I'm whiter, and I always wear two small braids.

I love to play the piano, and I have been learning it since kindergarten until now, and in the eyes of my piano teacher, I am very different. Other little girls have thin fingers, and they play the piano like a bird flying, how brisk. But I played it like a little turtle, slowly, and it was hard to hear.

The teacher said that I couldn't play the piano, and my classmates said that the forward beat was unpleasant, which really made me so sad. My dream is to perform at the Hangzhou Grand Theatre, but a person named Lingling said that my hands are so thick that I can't go on any stage, and the Hangzhou Grand Theatre only allows children who are full of grade 4 to go on stage. Therefore, I practiced hard, 2 hours, 3 hours a day.

Finally, after my unremitting efforts, I stepped onto the stage of the Hangzhou Grand Theater! I competed with a child who was taller than me and won the second prize. I heard that I was going to Hong Kong for the finals, but I didn't know because I was only 6 years old, and I couldn't sleep alone, so I could only go when I was 8 years old.

It's a pity! The above is my "glorious history" of learning piano, and everyone thinks I am amazing! No, I also have a lot of shortcomings, sometimes, I am very sloppy, I see "about equal" as "equal", "too" as "big", "day" as "husband", "imagination" as "fragrant", "teacher" as "fourth"...Don't look at my many shortcomings, I also have a lot of advantages, at home I will help my father beat his back, help my mother wash the dishes, and help my grandmother wash her feet.

Mom said more"The daughter is an intimate little padded jacket", I listened to the beautiful sail in my heart.

This is me, a little monkey, a little girl who can play the piano, a sloppy little girl, and a lovely baby. Finally, please remember me, Wang Youtong.

What do you mean?

Everyone is different A person has a human appearance, and everyone has their own characteristics.

Do you wish you were someone's shadow? What's so good about being like everyone else? Live your own difference, this is your own life!

Speaking briefly about myself, I'm 24 years old, and my experience is very different from a lot of people in their 20s.

But I don't think there's anything wrong with that, it's just that I have more memories in my life than anyone else.

What do you mean by Hengliang?

Everyone is different A person has a human appearance, and everyone has their own characteristics.

Do you wish you were someone's shadow? What's so good about being like everyone else? Live your own difference, this is your own life!

Speaking briefly about myself, I'm 24 years old, and my experience is very different from a lot of people in their 20s.

But I don't think there's anything wrong with that, it's just that I have more memories in my life than anyone else.

What do you mean?

Everyone will be different A person has a human appearance, and everyone has the characteristics of each write-off person.

Do you wish you were someone's shadow? What's so good about being like everyone else? Live out your own differences, this is your own life!

Speaking briefly about myself, I'm 24 years old, and my experience is very different from a lot of people in their 20s.

But I don't think there's anything wrong with that, it's just that I have more memories in my life than anyone else.

Faith is what sets me apart.

Four years ago, my sister, as a 37-year-old mother, was about to give birth. There is no doubt that for a person who has been frail and sick since childhood, who is dozens of times more sensitive to pain and nerves than others, and who even wants to be my sister and she wants to be a sister many times in my eyes - our whole family, including my parents, my mother, my brother-in-law and me, and even herself, feels that a natural birth is simply a fantasy.

Since becoming an advantage coach, my biggest realization is that many times people are not successful and unhappy, not because they are not able to get close to success and achieve happiness, but because they do not believe in it. Most of us are very remorseful and less aware of the great energy and treasures that lie in our bodies.

The power of believing

Although I am talking about a relative I am familiar with, and she is also an ordinary mother, I am still quite shocked, my sister has never left her parents' side since she was a child, and she obeys her parents' arrangements in everything, but out of natural love for her children, in the case of many retreats, the Lord and Yedong choose to bear pain and risks, which makes me really see the power of "believing".

This reminds me that in my advantages workshop, many friends came with confusion about life and career, and many people wanted to know how to find their advantages, and how to get out of the confusion, find the direction of life, and make more correct choices after discovering them.

But in fact, the advantages of the former family are only the first step, and many people cannot get out, not because they did not find the advantages, but after discovering them, they do not accept or believe in their own advantages.