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I change the color of frustration.
What color is frustration?
How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? "The frustration is not the gray rain and fog, but the bright rainbow reflected on the rain screen.
Life is a long road, and we will inevitably encounter setbacks of one kind or another in our daily life.
Some people turn a frustration into a cornerstone for the future. Some people see setbacks as a kind of challenge, and by constantly overcoming them, they can transcend themselves countless times; There are also some people, when the slightest dissatisfaction goes well, they complain, as if he is the only one in the world who has suffered misfortune. What is the use of the first two people, who downplay the pain of setbacks, summon up courage, take the initiative, and push open a door of hope, while the latter sit in front of a closed door and cry?
Don't cry for spilled milk", in fact, many times when we encounter setbacks, what do we really suffer? Afraid of what? Change.
Yes, we are afraid that the reality is not what we think, and we fear that this setback will change the ...... of our livesIn other words, only those who are content with the status quo and enjoy mediocrity will feel great pain when they encounter setbacks, and those who want to be motivated and look forward to continuous self-breakthrough will feel happy when facing setbacks, just like the word "crisis", danger and another opportunity have come at the same time, isn't it? There is one story that touches me deeply. In a deep mountain, there was a lonely man.
He came to the bottom of the cliff and looked up, and there seemed to be a very fertile land waiting to be cultivated.
So it took a lot of effort for him to climb along the rocks and climb to the top of the cliff. As expected, the land was fertile and there were many fruit trees growing naturally, so he tied the rope he was carrying to a tree at the top of the cliff and climbed down the cliff with some fruit. The next day, he went up the cliff along the rope.
On the third day, he followed the rope and went up the cliff again. Day 4 ......On the fifth day, the second year, the third year, he climbed up and down every day along the rope he had tied. One day, however, the tree broke, and he was halfway up the cliff when he fell off the cliff and died.
It's not just the tree on the cliff. I'm not saying that sticking to the old ways will necessarily lead to failure, but to a certain extent, there are many dangers lurking in the same way. Instead of suffering and crying for a change in such a dangerous state, it is better to embrace the setbacks and accept the change, and perhaps the door you open is the life you really look forward to.
A little more calm, a little more courage to change, in order to push open the door that is hidden.
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I changed the color of failure.
Failure is the mother of success"In fact, sometimes failure is not a bad thing, how can you succeed without experiencing failure.
On a hot summer day, I finally looked forward to a cool day, and I took a shower and prepared to go inside to watch TV. At this time, Xiao Peng strode forward and stopped me and said, "Wait, let's fight."
I readily agreed, and thought to myself: "Hehe, your subordinates will beg for abuse in the future, so I'll play with you."
We set up the chess and started the war, and the surrounding chess fans were full of chess fans, Xiao Song said to me: "You have to be careful, Xiao Peng learned a few tricks from his father, and his chess skills have improved greatly, and we can't beat him!" I smiled disdainfully, can he knock me out?
Today, I will kill his majesty in public.
I set up the "head cannon", ambushed the "chain horse", and the rest of the chess pieces held the various passes. Then, I dispatched a large "car" and rushed into the opponent's position and rampaged. In an instant, after eating his horse and a cannon, there was only one of the five pawns left.
I stretched smugly and glanced at Xiao Peng. I just use a car, and you will have been beaten by me, let alone the whole army attacking, alas, today may brush you again "Commander of the Light Pole". I was very relaxed, but Xiao Peng frowned, thinking hard.
Suddenly, his eyes lit up, and an elephant flew up. I ignore it, what's the use of flying elephants? But when my car swooped down on his last pawn, he flew swiftly and swept away at once.
Ah, I've been tricked! I cried out in remorse, but it was too late.
After losing the car, the wind and clouds suddenly changed, the morale of the other side was greatly boosted, and the chess pieces poured over like the water of the Yellow River that had broken the embankment, and my guards were scattered, and finally the opponent ended the battle with an "afterthought".
Suddenly, the sound of laughter and blame rang out, and I weakly put away my chess.
Humility makes people progress, and pride makes people lag behind. "Isn't that a good lesson today?
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