How to overcome the inferiority complex caused by poor conditions?

I remember there used to be a saying that went like this: when your talent can't support your ambitions, try to make yourself good. So when your own conditions are not good enough, please work hard to improve your hardware, make yourself excellent, and become the envy of others, so how can you feel inferior.

Of course, if you are not good yourself, but you are not enterprising, or you are imaginative all day long, then you are destined to live in inferiority for the rest of your life.

First of all, be sure to read more. There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book. There is poetry and writing in the belly.

When a person's mind is full of knowledge, then this person will live a very fulfilling life in his usual life, not to mention how he has achieved it, and how can he have time to feel inferior. Reading can improve a person's temperament, reading can enhance one's self-confidence, and reading can make one look beautiful. Throughout the ages, how many people from poor families or even average-looking people have been sought after because of their talents.

So as long as your hardware is thick enough, you have arrogant capital.

Second, believe that you are the best and give yourself more hints every day. The reason why people have low self-esteem is nothing more than because they don't believe in themselves, so they are ashamed of themselves. In this way, you will be very unimposing, feel inferior, and naturally feel inferior.

So be sure to find faith. I believe Sister Feng, why are you so popular when you are so ugly, and even popular in the United States, it is because she has a confident heart. Self-confidence can make people invisibly beautiful.

Finally, people should exercise more. The reason why people feel inferior is because they have nothing to do all day long, and the emotions that are piled up in their hearts cannot be relieved, and the depression in their hearts cannot be vented. Exercising more can not only enhance your physique and maintain your health, but also make your blood flow smooth and your mood cheerful, and people will naturally be high-spirited and inferior.

Don't you keep thinking about your bad background, what if your conditions are poor? Those whose family conditions are better than yours, how much better are they than you? It's not like you're doing nothing all day.

I think this mainly depends on your own efforts, if you also work hard, even if your family conditions are not good, you will become a talent, but if you don't want to forge ahead, don't seek progress, even if your family conditions are good, what can you do, give you 100 million will you spend? Can you spend it on the right path? Can you make money?

Can you survive on your own? I don't think so.

I have always been very unable to understand those people with low self-esteem, what do they think, because my own conditions are not very good, I grew up in the countryside since I was a child, and my parents at home have no money to squander for me, so I rely on my own efforts to become a talent, the teacher will still praise you, the teacher will not despise you because of your poor family conditions, your classmates, your friends will not alienate you because of your poor home conditions, why do you want to put a cage on yourself and trap yourself in it?!

To overcome your own inferiority complex, it mainly depends on your psychological effect, as long as your heart becomes full and becomes confident, then I think your inferiority complex will slowly disappear. Read more and study more so that you can enrich yourself. There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book, if you learn more, your heart will become colorful, your life will be more exciting, make more friends, understand more truths, and make yourself no longer so humble.

And don't always think about how bad your conditions are, you can't compare with the people around you, but if you think about the people around you, they are actually not better than you, you are just poor in the family, but you yourself are very good, you can stand with them, you can study with them, work with them, what do you have to be inferior, you get your current treatment by your own efforts, there is no need to be inferior.

I think the important thing is to be strong inside, your own poor conditions are a fact that you can't change, you can only accept it, but you can't give up on yourself, you have to work hard to overcome the difficulties brought to you by this difference.

As the saying goes, three points are destined, seven points depend on hard work, everyone is not perfect, and there will be a relatively poor aspect.

Using Zhao Liying as an example, who knew her before she became famous, she was just a little girl in the countryside and had not yet gone to college, but she finally came to this position through her unremitting efforts, and she was a very good actress in the hearts of the audience. She has a tattoo on her back, which is to cover the scar left by filming. She has worked hard a hundred times to prove that although her background conditions are not good enough, she can still succeed.

I think you have to correct your mentality first, society itself is unfair, all roads lead to Rome, but some people were born in Rome, we can't change this difference, we can only accept it. But it's this difference that makes each of us unique.

We all have our own destiny, what kind of life you want, with what kind of effort to achieve it, there is no need to be inferior, because this is your characteristics, without these characteristics you are not you. The boxing champion is very low in height, but this does not affect him as a boxing champion.

Instead of focusing your time and energy on low self-esteem, think more about how to improve yourself and make up for your weaknesses with other strengths. Many celebrities are remembered by the public, sometimes just because of one of his strengths. There is no perfect thing in the world, and it is most practical to turn your inferiority complex into motivation and work hard.

It is a matter of world view and values that one's own conditions are not bad but they are very inferior.

Psychologically speaking, whether a person has low self-esteem or not has nothing to do with how good he is, but has a lot to do with his early experience.

If, in your childhood, your parents have been harsh on you, no matter what kind of good grades you have achieved, you will not be praised by your parents, whether it is study or life, your parents are always picking on you and hitting you. People who grow up in this kind of atmosphere, even if they have certain achievements, it is difficult to be confident.

Therefore, the essence of inferiority complex is a matter of world view, values, and outlook on life. This is the case due to a lack of security due to past experiences and emotional sensitivity.

Learn to overcome low self-esteem:

1. Cultivate self-confidence: self-confidence is emanating from our hearts, not all due to outstanding appearance, we must maintain full self-confidence from the heart. You can also appropriately challenge some things that you have never done before, enrich yourself, and slowly enhance your courage and self-confidence.

2. Learn self-regulation: Learning self-regulation is very important to overcome low self-regulation. Only by truly treating oneself, correctly understanding oneself, improving one's self-evaluation, and at the same time calmly facing setbacks and strengthening psychological balance, can we slowly overcome our inferiority complex.

3. Find your own shining point: Everyone has their own characteristics, the honey of A, the arsenic of B. Perhaps what you care about the most, the traits that you think are shortcomings, are the advantages that others can't ask for.

Low self-esteem actually stems from inner uncertainty, because of uncertainty so afraid, because of fear so always dare not try a lot of exciting things, over time, become gradually closed, become more timid, and step by step deepen their own inferiority complex This character positioning. At the same time, I believe that people's inferiority is divided into two kinds, one is the perceived inferiority, and the other is the unrecognized inferiority, no matter which kind of inferiority comes from the uncertainty and fear in the heart. The so-called recognized inferiority is to know very well what you are afraid of and what you dare not do, and your first reaction before encountering something is to tell yourself that you can't do it, which is the recognized inferiority.

But no matter what kind of inferiority complex is not terrible, what is terrible is that you can't find a way to overcome it. Self-confidence is a thing, it's really different between people, I understand, so I don't want to talk to you about what kind of nonsense that plucks up courage and doesn't care about other people's eyes, they don't have back pain when they stand and talk. Life is not perfect, everyone has shortcomings, in this world, no one will always exist to expose your shortcomings, for you, what can make others care about it is only your good.

If the inferiority complex is because of appearance, there is no need to earn money to make a slight adjustment. Looks like this thing, some people also stand and talk without backache, what do they say about the parents of the body.

But they won't put themselves in your shoes and understand your burden, they don't know what it's like to be ridiculed, so just let them get out of your head. If it's because you don't have money, then you're desperately trying to earn money, and doing nothing is never an adult's pursuit. If you don't have the skills, you have to fight for time and strength, and you will find that survival is more important than what is called face.

A truly rich man never cares what others think of him, even if he wears a pair of ten-dollar slippers. Don't retreat, as long as you face it more, you won't find that there is so much to worry about. You'll eventually find that everything is so simple.

It may be because of their personality is very introverted, or it may be that their original family is unhappy, so their personality is very inferior, first of all, we must have a good attitude, but also be very confident, no matter what we do, we must be positive and sunny, you can do something you like to do to improve your self-confidence, and you can also psychologically hint that you must be confident in everything you do in the future, and you will slowly change your inferiority.

Most of it is because of lack of self-confidence, or because of lack of money, perhaps because of the environment in which I grew up. If you want to avoid low self-esteem, you can let yourself participate in more activities, so that you can learn more knowledge, and let your soul be satisfied, so that you will become very confident.

Generally, it is because of some aspect of their own defects that cause inferiority, and the best way is to calm down and not compare with others.

It's because I often make mistakes when I do things, and I don't get encouragement from others, so I feel that I am very bad. You should work hard to do something well, and be self-motivated, self-motivated, so that you will become very confident.

Friend, no one can give you a way to completely free you from this state. You have to follow your own path, and no one else can replace it. But I'd like to give you some suggestions, I hope it will be helpful to you.

One thing is for sure, we all have strengths and weaknesses, you know. But how should we deal with them? Many people have so-called success, so that the mind begins to be arrogant, only looking at their own strengths and forgetting their shortcomings.

There are also people who experience so-called failures, and then they feel inferior, only looking at their own shortcomings and forgetting their strengths. Actually, both of these situations are bad. We should not love to focus our eyes and energy on our strengths or weaknesses, we should set our eyes and energy on a nobler, more ideal standard and strive for it.

Friends, don't complain, don't pay too much attention to yourself. Because you know that complaining and having low self-esteem won't do you any good except make you more decadent. You might think that this is easy to say, but hard to do.

That's true, but if it's not difficult, what do we live for? If not, why are you distressed? If it weren't difficult, wouldn't everyone in the world become angels?

Our lives are difficult challenges in our own right, and when we face them, do we give up, or do we live a truly worthwhile life? As long as you look to the future and do well in the present, what else can you do?

In fact, it doesn't take much of a complicated process to not feel inferior. The only thing is that you have to have strong faith and overcome it all. Perseverance, to practice perseverance.

You may think it's too difficult (hee-hee, actually, I am), but, if you think about it, is perseverance still called perseverance?

As mentioned before, our lives are one challenge after another. We face challenges to overcome, not give up. Look at the positive aspects of things, and don't dwell on the state of malaise, because the more decadent you are, the more difficult it will be for you to get out of this state.

Low self-esteem, you are sensitive, a sensitive, just like keeping a distance from everyone Always compare your weaknesses with others Don't easily compare with others All say that sentence People are better than people's s goods have to be thrown away I am me Fireworks of different colors He is his two dollars a bundle of flowers.

Death doesn't solve anything.

In fact, when we say that we have low self-esteem, it doesn't mean that we can't achieve anything all day long, others are so good, or others are so rich, and I am so poor.

It's just that our own demons are doing it, in fact, we are all the same.

In the morning, we all draw the same amount of sunshine, so why should we live in the shade? As I said upstairs, find a good friend to talk to and talk about your thoughts. Or by reading more books, reading some books, and improving your mind.

Relatives, friends, these are your scruples, death, maybe you are free, but you have to think about your parents.

Put your parents' ** in your wallet, and you won't think about dying.