How to communicate with girls, how to communicate with girls

Updated on society 2024-07-24
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Do what you like. I also have to increase my experience, understand a little bit of everything, and make my life more exciting. That's the reason, if you're not interested, you have nothing to look at, all kinds of news to see, news is the expansion point of the topic, social, domestic, local, entertainment, gossip, everything to see, learn to read quickly, only watch hot news, highly discussed news, scandals, etc.

    For other factual news, just look at a big headline, just know what's going on, the content is almost the same, a news story is often thousands of words, nonsense, and the headline can highlight a central idea.

    Expand your own interests and hobbies, or know a little bit about everything, don't have to be profound, the conversation requires theory, not practice, just a little understanding of the skin, so that you can cope with the preferences of many people, when you need to study a little more.

    Chat with girls, and change positions. You have to understand that the person you are talking about is women, not men, so try to avoid topics related to boys, sports, politics, and military, and there are very few girls who understand these and are interested, so you don't have to talk about these things with girls. In addition, try to talk less about yourself and ask more questions about the other person in the chat.

    Don't talk about yourself all the time and ignore the other person, maybe the other person is not interested in your business at all, which will put pressure on the listener.

    Use interrogative sentences and less declarative sentences in chatting. For example, one of the most common starts with "It's a nice day." "This is the most common thing to hear, the weather is good, then the other person will say:

    yes", and then it was gone, the topic could not be continued, which led to the embarrassing scene, the same sentence, with the question sentence "The weather is good today, the stars must be very bright tonight, do you believe in the constellation?" Generally, girls believe in horoscopes, divination, tarot cards or something, and boys are relatively little interested. This is also what he likes, and the first sentence is to position the girl.

    If he believes in horoscopes, you can talk about each other's zodiac signs, so that you can roughly know her personality, how to do things, birthday month, etc. It is more possible to find a breakthrough point.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Speak politely, civilly, and gently.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Witty and humorous, maybe it's okay, a little self-contained.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Learn everything about her, what she likes, and what you like, so you have a common language between you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This requires you to work your own, first of all, you have to be your true self in front of the girl, don't deliberately do a good job, be sincere, let him know that you are good to him, love her, and forgive if you are wrong, slowly talk to him about ideals, life, take your time, don't rush, this thing is not a matter of one or two days

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As I heard, for a time Bhagava, into the great light of the supernatural powers, the samadhi is receiving, all the light is strict, is all sentient beings, pure and enlightened, the body and mind are extinguished in the equal realm, the perfection of the ten directions, the non-two follow the obedience, in the non-dual realm, the pure land, and the great Bodhisattva Mahasattva, its name is said, Manjushri Bodhisattva, Puxian Bodhisattva, Puyan Bodhisattva, Vajrazo Bodhisattva, Maitreya Bodhisattva, Pure Wisdom Bodhisattva, Virtuous Freedom Bodhisattva, Dialectical Bodhisattva, Pure Karma Bodhisattva, Pujue Bodhisattva, Yuanjue Bodhisattva, The virtuous and virtuous bodhisattvas and so on are the heads and all their dependents, all enter the samadhi and live together in the puja of equality.

    So Manjushri Bodhisattva in the crowd, that is, from his seat, bowed to the Buddha's feet, went around the right three turns, knelt down with his hands crossed and said to the Buddha: Great Compassion World-Honored One, I wish to gather all the Dharma people for this purpose, saying that the Bodhisattva should be pure in the Mahayana and stay away from all diseases, so that all sentient beings in the last days will seek Mahayana and not fall into evil views. As a word, the five bodies voted for him, if it is three invitations, it will start again.

    At that time, the World-Honored One said to Manjushri Bodhisattva: "Good man, good man, you are able to consult all bodhisattvas and practice the Dharma for the cause of the earth, and seek Mahayana for all sentient beings in the last days, so that you can be the abbot and not fall into evil views. When Manjushri rejoiced in his teachings, the crowd listened silently.

    A good man, the supreme Dharma King, has a great dharani gate, called Yuanjue, who flows out of all pure and true beings, Bodhi Nirvana and Paramita, teaches the Bodhisattva, and everything is based on the pure consciousness of the Yuanzhao, and the ignorance is forever broken, and the Buddha is the way, and the clouds are ignorant.

    Good man, all sentient beings come from no beginning, all kinds of upside down, like charming, the four directions are easy to deal with, vainly believe that the four major are their own appearance, and the six dust shadows are their own mental appearance, such as their sick eyes, see the empty China and the second month.

    The good man is empty and unpretentious, and the sick are obsessed, and because of the delusion, he is not only confused by this emptiness and nature, but also confused by the place of the Buddha, so that there is a vain reincarnation of life and death, hence the name ignorance. A good man, this ignorant one, is not a real being, like a person in a dream, who is not nothing, and when he wakes up, he has nothing to gain. If the emptiness is extinguished in the void, it cannot be said that there is a definite place for destruction, why is there no place for life.

    All sentient beings are in the absence of life, and they see birth and death in vain, so it is said that the name is reincarnated in life and death.

    A good man, if he comes to the place to cultivate enlightenment, knows that it is emptiness, that is, there is no reincarnation, and there is no body and mind that is subject to his birth and death, and there is no reason for it, and there is no reason for his nature, and he who perceives it is like a void, and he who knows the void, that is, he is empty, and he cannot say that he is unconscious, and he has no sending, and if he is so, he is called pure enlightenment, and why is it called pure enlightenment, and because of this, there is no reason for emptiness, and there is no reason for not moving in the world, and if there is no cause for the cause of seeing and disappearing in Tibet, and there is no reason for seeing the reason, such as the Dharma realm, and the perfection is all over the ten directions, it is called the Dharma practice of the cause and place. Therefore, in the Mahayana, the bodhisattva has a pure mind, and all beings in the last days practice according to this, so as not to fall into evil views

    Manjushri should know that everything comes as it comes.

    From the original cause and place, all with wisdom.

    Attaining ignorance, knowing that it is like emptiness, that is, it can avoid circulation, and like a person in a dream, it cannot be obtained when he wakes up, and the awakened person is like a void.

    Equality does not move, and the consciousness is all over the ten directions.

    That is, to become a Buddha, there is nowhere to be disillusioned.

    There is no attainment of enlightenment, and the nature is perfect.

    In this, bodhisattvas can develop bodhicitta mind.

    All sentient beings in the last days, cultivate this to avoid evil views.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Chasing women is to be patient, the so-called anxious can't eat hot tofu, it's good to be able to chat online, but I think it's better not to be frequent at the beginning, first see if he also likes to chat online, it's best to have her mobile phone number, it's still necessary to send text messages, I think texting is better than chatting online, and I don't know how big she is, in short, you have to like her or recognize her words take your time, look for some topics that interest you, you try to follow her topic. Finally, I wish you success.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First, the girl introduced, both parties are very clear about the motives of recognition, so there is a lot less secretiveness, secret love and the like, straight to the point, is to go to the object.

    Second, the two sides did not know each other before, and it is normal that there is no topic, and the main impression of the other party is the appearance and vague understanding of the personality.

    Third, if the other party's first impression is not disgusted with you, you may wish to create more common topics, how parents educate, what are the requirements for themselves, what things are in school, how they came over, and then you can ask the other party about the attitude of love, how do you feel about it, anyway, I have a good impression of you, I hope to continue to communicate with you, fourth, insist for a period of time, you can make an appointment to go out for a walk or dinner, and so both parties feel familiar, you can make some light jokes, You can casually hold hands, hug, and announce the next stage of the two of you with these iconic gestures.

    Five, open vLetter, click the + sign in the upper right corner, select Add Friends, enter zyfwxzs, and you will be provided with some topics for communication every day, you can laugh together, be surprised together, ridicule together, study together, and help here, I wish you happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It must take a certain amount of effort to chase a girl, you have to understand what activities, topics, and things she is usually interested in! Focus on this aspect and talk to her. There is also nuanced care, if you are more shy in person, you can first chat from the Internet or text messages from time to time every day to care, what is the cold, pay attention to adding clothes, remember to bring an umbrella when it rains, and often bring her some small gifts or delicious food.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because, feel free! Because you can't be casual, it leads to self-tension!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can't find a topic when I play ** with a girl, I don't know why, I feel like I have a lot to say, but I am nervous when I hit **, I forget everything, and I can't find a topic when I don't feel nervous, I feel very uncomfortable.

    Because I really wanted to talk to her, but I couldn't find a topic, I wanted to talk and laugh with her.

    I'm really stupid, you guys help me come up with ideas, how can you talk and laugh casually?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find a topic she likes, a topic she is interested in, or talk to her, tell her what is on your mind, and then she will feel that you believe in her, and you will communicate with each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, it's very simple.,Girls are easy to coax.,You try to find some topics to talk to her.,Slowly you'll get acquainted.,But if some girls really don't want to pay attention to you.,You have to be interesting.,Don't make people disgusted.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because, feel free!

    Because you can't be casual, it leads to self-tension!

    Maybe I can help you, I hope you will find the perfect answer to how I should communicate with the girl sooner.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you have to communicate with her sincerely, girls generally don't like hypocritical boys (I don't say that you are hypocritical here, just in general); Secondly, girls are very curious creatures, so when you chat with her, you should have some topics and events that can attract her curiosity; Besides, you must not be boring when chatting, otherwise she will only be perfunctory with you; In the end, you can't be too serious when chatting with her, be a little worse, make some inconsequential jokes, it doesn't matter! In this way, I believe she will have a good chat with you, and then after the accumulation of time, your relationship will get better and better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1, girls are also very busy, so most of them don't have time to care, occasionally idle will talk to him, girls also need their own space, no time to always take care of you. , 2, are you sure she doesn't have a boyfriend so she avoids suspicion? 3. Some girls don't like to be ambiguous with boys and don't want to give each other any false hope.

    4, 18 years old, college, right? Start your own life, why live in the world of high school? People also have a new circle of friends.

    These are my words from my experience as a girl.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    To women, you have to be near and far, sometimes you have to care, and you have to be indifferent to something

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Find out what they like and what they like

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, if you have nothing to do with her, you must hate you, and secondly, are you also a high school?,It is recommended to go to QQ drifting bottle to make some friends are anonymous friends,It's best not to add as a friend just QQ drifting bottle communication,Safety,Anything can be said。

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In my opinion, we should first understand each other's interests and hobbies, and we must know ourselves and each other in order to do what they like. In this way, you can get twice the result with half the effort.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is true that you need your extroversion to drive her, in fact, if you are familiar with it, you will not feel that she is introverted.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Texting!!

    100% effective.

    Because introverted girls are embarrassed to talk face-to-face and shy.

    Therefore, only texting, not face-to-face chatting, is easier for introverted girls to communicate. It's true.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Introverts also have a wintering heart, but they are too shy to express it, if you want to date her, it is recommended to use the form of multiple people, of course, there must be her confidant and friend present. Introverts like people who are talkative and have a sense of humor, so you should also do your homework, find out what she likes, and then it's time to do it!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't be in a hurry, just grind slowly, it doesn't like to talk, you just nod to her, it's been a long time, it's naturally familiar, it's unsuspecting, it's talking about something else.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Understand each other's hobbies and do what they like.

    Anyway, I'm quite introverted, so I like to draw, listen to songs, play games on the Internet, and talk to people who play games.

    So it depends on what she likes......

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Any girl has a fiery heart! ~

    Extroversion and introversion are made for others to see.

    Only when no one is around.

    will show your true self! `

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