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Talk to people who have been going through the same thing, and if you have someone who has had a similar experience to you, especially someone who hasn't had a knot in your heart, talk to them more. First, it will be easier for them to understand and understand your feelings, and second, you can also see from them their views on the problem. It is easier to help you untie the knot by showing up with people who have had the same experience.
Third, sometimes the moment you say all your unhappiness, the knot will naturally open, and the reason why some knots can't be opened is just because you lack someone who can listen.
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The only way to resolve the knot is to face it. What happened then? What do you feel?
What comes to mind? Is your own interpretation of this feeling correct? Is there anything you have to do or neglect?
And so on and so forth. Only by examining one's heart little by little like peeling an onion and adjusting one's perspective on problems can it be possible to truly open the knot in one's heart.
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If you really can't think about it, try not to think about it, do something else to distract you, and after a little time, you will find that those things are nothing more than that.
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Adjust your mentality slowly, things will always pass, and your efforts will not be in vain, but your efforts will not be in vain.
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Don't get too caught up in the "quagmire" of right and wrong
Right and wrong is only one angle from which we look at the problem, everything is complex, and each of us sees only one side of the picture. What's more, the so-called right and wrong are only right and wrong in one's own mind. In real life, there is no absolute fairness and correctness, some are just trying to make yourself as correct as possible in all kinds of mistakes.
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We might as well remember the sentence: in this life, it is impossible not to be injured, I only hope you know how to stop losses in time and do not look back.
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It will definitely be difficult to accept and lose at that time. But we have to work hard to accept, people have to go through a lot in this life, and they may not all be able to achieve their goals, at least we have worked hard and left no regrets, which is enough.
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You can only comfort yourself and start again, and perseverance will reap the rewards.
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