What did you find out that your best friend didn t think of you as a best friend?

I played in junior high school for 3 years, and every time I asked her to give her a gift on her birthday, I didn't have any pocket money, so I gave it to her by saving. But every time I have a birthday, she verbally says that she wants to give me a gift, but every time she doesn't, on the contrary, she often gives a gift to a very cute girl and wants me to be with me, yes, but then she doesn't give it after listening to a boy who says something bad about a cute girl. I was so happy and relieved.

I have everything I have in my heart and secrets to her. But her story was heard from others, and she was a little lost.

I have always told her everything in my heart, and I believe her the most. But she didn't tell me anything, but told my secret to another friend. After I knew, I realized that I was a fool.

While I was asleep, he secretly took my phone and wrote down my girlfriend's phone number. He also invited my girlfriend to dinner behind my back.

When the new semester started, I asked him when he would arrive, and I ran to the train station alone to pick up the two of them, and waited for a long time. We were on good terms at the time, and when we came back, they didn't call me when they went to eat alone. I think it's weird. Maybe it's not that important.

We went out to eat steak together, and when I went out to eat steak, I accidentally burned her expressionless. Not a word of concern.

Everybody said I was wearing cute clothes, and she said I was ugly, well, with a very disgusted look. She often advised me not to try so hard and play like her, and in the end she won the first place in the class.

I used to think she was my best friend, and once I happened to hear her say in someone else's dormitory that in fact, I didn't have a very good relationship with Li Ting. Instantly chilled.

<> "What only a truly good friend would do for you, and you don't know how to cherish it."

One. What is a real good friend?

1.Are the people who are by your side every day, eat and live with you, and fight with you a good friend? Not necessarily!

2.When you need help, is the first person to lend a helping hand a good friend? Not necessarily!

3.When you borrow money, the person who lends it to you without hesitation is a good friend? Not necessarily!

Two. So who are the real best friends?

1.It's the person who takes the time to listen to your nonsense, knowing that you will do irrational things (referring to some of the things in life that are temperate, except for breaking the law), but still do it with you.

2.It's the one who silently supports you behind your back, Hu Wuhe, helps you, but never tells you.

3.It's the one who dislikes you on the surface, but behind the scenes he tells others how good you are.

Three-pants digging. Do you cherish it? You must have or have had such a friend by your side, do you cherish him or her?

Hello friend. Of course, we've been playing since we were kids for decades. Friends are an indispensable part of life, without friends, life will lose a lot of fun, and the road to growth will be difficult to complete because of the lack of friends.

It is a very fortunate thing to have good friends, because good friends are often hard to come by.

Friends walk together for a lifetime, and true friendship is mutual trust, and trust is a rare quality. At present, with the progress of the times, the development of science and technology, especially the development of the Internet, people's lives are becoming more and more colorful, and clothing, food, housing and transportation are becoming more and more convenient. But at the same time, the existence of the Internet has added a veil of mystery to the people behind the screen, which makes people begin to lose trust in each other while exercising their rights through the Internet.

This distrust spreads from the internet to real life, and to our very personal suspicions. This is especially true of friends, if you don't trust your friends, you will feel that life is empty, false, powerless, and even hopeless.

True friends have no sense of distance. The sense of distance is a magical feeling, it cannot be seen or touched, but it is the real parsley that exists, trembles and affects our lives. For example, childhood friends, if they are separated from each other all the year round, they can always feel a faint alienation and shallow embarrassment when they meet again, lingering around the two people, which is caused by different growth environments.

A true friend understands your heart's needs. Again, the previous example, knowing that your friend can bring you all the porridge in the canteen, take you to all the barbecue restaurants in the city, and relax with you when you are nervous, he doesn't ask others to know, he just wants you to be better. Of course, they can do more than that, they can also make space for you when you need to be quiet, keep you company when you're lost and helpless, encourage you when you're hesitating, and warn you when you're complacent.

This kind of friendship is often a two-way street, and you give me enough and important enough that I am willing to respond to you with the same heart. Understanding is the key to the heart, the key to opening friendships.