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in married life.
Among them, if the wife is very short-tempered, she will get angry at every turn, and in the face of this situation, I think you can deal with it in the following ways. First of all, the more irascible he is, the more gentle we are. Secondly, communicate with him well and teach him communication skills.
Also, to him hippie smile, because reach out and don't hit the smiley man.
Many people will have an irritable wife in their married life, and the wife has a bad temper and often gets angry for no reason, which makes many straight men.
Feeling a headache and not knowing what to do. In the face of this situation, I think we can take the following measures.
First of all, the more irascible he is, the more gentle we are. If the other person is very short-tempered, then you must not be short-tempered, because two short-tempered people can't live together. We can treat him gently, when he is more irritable, we will be gentle, and when we are the opposite of him, his anger will not be ignited, so he will be confused, but he will think calmly and consider whether he should restrain his temper.
Secondly, communicate with him well and teach him communication skills. Communication is the most important thing, we should ask him why he is angry, whether it is **uncomfortable, or you** are doing something wrong, and it is very important to find the reason. At the same time, in the process of communicating with him, we can also imperceptibly influence his words and deeds, teach him communication skills, and solve problems is the key, because only knowing how to lose your temper cannot solve any problems.
Also, to him hippie smile, because reach out and don't hit the smiley man. In terms of attitude, we should keep smiling and smiling at him, because there is a saying that you don't hit a smiley person. No matter how irritable his temper is, seeing your smile and your attitude so good, I believe he can't remember the wind and waves, so he will naturally lose his anger.
In fact, the role of smiling is really great, and it can often resolve and alleviate many contradictions, which is much more effective than talking.
The above is the method that I think can be used in the face of my wife's anger for no reason.
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In ordinary life, when your wife gets angry because she has made a mistake, she must recognize her mistakes and admit her mistakes in time to reduce her emotions, so that she will not make a big noise. In ordinary life, you also need to pay more attention to your wife, because your wife's temper may be due to unsatisfactory in ordinary life and work, and the long-term backlog will arise, which will be irritable and angry.
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You need to calm down the other party first, and then find a suitable time to communicate with the other party about this matter.
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What should I do if my wife has a short temper? My wife is very good to me, but she has a bad temper and is prone to tantrums, and we quarrel every day!
Hello, your question has been received, I am honored to answer it for you, and I will sort out the answer for you immediately! My wife is very good to me, but she has a bad temper and is prone to tantrums, and you quarrel every day, my point of view is.
1. If your wife is good to you, then you should also be tolerant of her; The second is that my wife's temper is not good, and it means that I still love you if I am good for you, it is better than that kind of bad temper and bad for you. Hope mine can help you, thanks!
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I think you should be considerate of him, consider the problem from his point of view, communicate and communicate with him in a timely manner, don't quarrel with him, even if he loses his temper, you should comfort him with a gentle tone and let him calm down slowly.
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The wife you choose is also spoiled on her knees, I think this situation can be adjusted, you have to communicate with him, tell him that this is not right, and then you also have to look at him, girls are more and more spoiled, the cuter they are.
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Did you really get to know your wife when you asked this question and why is this happening?
When you and your wife first met, was she so grumpy? If you are gentle, quiet and kind when you first meet, it can only mean that either you did not understand your wife's inner self at the beginning, or it was your actions that made her what she is now.
Whoever started the trouble should end it.
The problems encountered in life are complex and complicated, if your wife is just irritable, then please sit down and talk to her, if she is not willing to share, you just need to quietly do what you should do every day, and have a silent action on the care. If your wife is not like this at the beginning and has not changed suddenly, and has become more and more irritable in the past few years, it can only mean that years of depression and no one understands her now, and you ask yourself if you have really empathized and understood her innermost feelings.
One heart and one heart and one Germany can always be.
We are not the parties, and there is no one who knows your wife better than yourself. Heart disease also requires heart medicine. The wife is short-tempered and needs more care and comfort, which can be a turbulent pampering or a silent care.
Of course, the premise of all this is that she still wants to live a good life with you.
Moreover, no matter how we say that we are also adults, we can no longer be as willful as children, we should let the other party realize how serious the consequences of being swayed by bad emotions will bring to our lives, because the other party's emotions come, they don't care about anything, what is difficult to hear, what is angry and what to do, and even the fish is dead, this is because people's "emotional" is at work, so we must learn to understand the way of the problem, not to go to extremes, so as to control the irritable mood, To make things develop in a good way, to observe from multiple angles and various points of view, we must learn to observe comprehensively, so that the other party can learn to release and vent their emotions correctly, and not let ourselves become a "pressure cooker" all the time....
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It may be that she is in a bad mood, so it will lead to a particularly short temper, you can patiently comfort her, usually chat with her more, so that her mood can improve.
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