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If the mother-in-law is young and has a good physique, there is no need to live together, because there is a generation gap between the two generations, and it is easy to have conflicts between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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In fact, the widowed mother-in-law is supposed to live together, because she lost her husband and was a poor person, but she still raised her son and married her daughter-in-law, so I feel that his son and daughter-in-law should honor her. As a daughter-in-law, if you don't have a good temper with your mother-in-law. You can let your husband adjust more from the middle, and you can deal less with your mother-in-law.
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It's better not to live together, there are a lot of inconveniences, you can live closer and take care of it often.
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It depends on the old man's wishes, if she is willing to live alone, and both parties are more free to live alone, let her be.
If she is not in good health and needs to be taken care of. At this time, there is no wife, so you should live together and support the elderly. Let her get out of her loneliness as soon as possible.
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Filial piety to the elderly is a traditional Chinese virtue, the elderly need to be taken care of when they are older, and it is also the responsibility of being a child.
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As an elderly, if you have the ability to take care of yourself, try not to mix with the Japanese women, there is a big difference in living habits, and the elderly and their children should keep a bowl of soup away.
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As a mother-in-law, it is better to live separately and stay closer, and often look at and take care of her.
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There's nothing wrong with this. If you get along, you live with your mother-in-law. If you don't come, you will live separately.
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Yes, after all, you need to take care of yourself when you are old, and it is more convenient to be together.
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In fact, I think it's a family after all, and the elderly don't need to think too much, just get along normally.
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The widowed mother-in-law can live together temporarily, because of the loss of the other half of her life, sadness, loneliness should be accompanied by relatives, but do not live together for a long time, the living habits of the elders and juniors are different, the concept of life is different, and it is easy to have conflicts when living together, you can live separately, and often go over to accompany you on rest days.
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If the widowed mother-in-law is old and needs someone to take care of her, it is nothing, Bi Jing is an old man. If the elderly and themselves are willing, they can live together.
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It depends on the age of the mother-in-law. If you are young. It's better to go it alone.
Because there are many things to compare with. If you are older. Need to take care of.
Together. It's easier to take care of. But.
It also depends on what your mother-in-law means. Just let him be.
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Why can't we live together? Because your mother-in-law has lost her husband and lives alone, how can you bear it?
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Legal Analysis: There is no relationship in law. The death of one of the subjects in a marriage relationship will inevitably lead to the termination or extinction of the marriage relationship.
This is because marriage is a complex of the common life of a man and a woman, and the relationship between husband and wife is a special personal relationship, which presupposes the existence of the lives of both spouses. If the husband dies, the marriage is automatically dissolved, and the in-law relationship with the in-laws is also dissolved.
Legal basis: Article 51 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The marital relationship of a person who has been declared dead shall be terminated from the date of the declaration of death. Where the declaration of death is revoked, the marital relationship shall be restored on its own on the date on which the declaration of death is revoked.
However, this does not apply to the spouse who remarries or declares in writing to the marriage registration authority that he is unwilling to reinstate.
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A widowed daughter-in-law has a legal obligation to support her in-laws, or an obligation to assist in support. Although the woman's spouse is deceased, for the elderly who are unable to take care of themselves or are financially independent, the granddaughter and grandchild of the elderly who can afford it should bear the obligation and responsibility to support the elderly.
As a mother of a granddaughter or grandchild, she still has the legal obligation to assist her children in supporting the elderly. At the same time, if the widowed daughter-in-law has fulfilled the main obligation of support to her in-laws, she can be the first-order heir to inherit the relevant inheritance. Therefore, after the daughter-in-law is widowed, whether from a legal or moral perspective, it is still related.
Grandparents who can afford it have the obligation to support their grandchildren who have died or whose parents are unable to support them.
Legal basis] Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly
Article 14: Supporters shall perform their obligations to provide financial support, daily care, and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly. Supporters refer to the children of the elderly and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law. The spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.
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Legal Analysis: A widowed daughter-in-law has a legal obligation to support her in-laws or an obligation to assist in support. According to the provisions of the relevant laws, although the woman's spouse is deceased, for the elderly who are unable to take care of themselves or are financially independent, the granddaughter or grandchild of the elderly person who can afford it should bear the obligation and responsibility to support the elderly, and as the mother of the granddaughter or grandchild, she still has the legal obligation to assist the child in supporting the elderly.
At the same time, there are relevant legal provisions that if a widowed daughter-in-law has fulfilled the main obligation of support to her in-laws, she can inherit the relevant estate as the first-order heir. Therefore, from these aspects, the daughter-in-law is still relevant after being widowed, both legally and morally.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1074:Grandparents who can afford it have an obligation to support their minor grandchildren whose parents have died or whose parents are unable to support them. Grandchildren who can afford it have the obligation to support their grandparents who have died or whose children are unable to support them.
Article 1129:Where a widowed daughter-in-law has fulfilled the primary obligation of support to her parents-in-law, or a widowed son-in-law has fulfilled her primary obligation to support her parents-in-law, she is to be the first-order heir.
Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly》 Article 14 Supporters shall perform their obligations to provide financial support, daily care and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly. Supporters refer to the children of the elderly and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law. The spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.
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1.After being widowed, it is up to you to decide whether you want to cut off contact with the Pohuai Lu family.
Article 1129 of the Civil Code provides that where a widowed daughter-in-law has fulfilled the main obligation of support to her parents-in-law or a widowed son-in-law to her parents-in-law, she shall be the heir in the first order.
Try not to let the in-laws, educational philosophy and living habits are different, and the views on children's education are inconsistent. And the child will increasingly not understand the mother. The child should bring it himself.
To be honest, I think your husband is too unwilling, and he will end the company at every turn. Moreover, he should not suffer much. If that's the case, I want to start a company. It's so hard.
After all, the living habits of young people and old people are different.
If, according to what you said, if the mother-in-law dislikes the daughter-in-law, then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had better live separately, live separately, and go to see the mother-in-law during the New Year's holiday.
We should give living expenses. Because it was very hard for my mother-in-law to help take care of the children. Give some living expenses so that the elderly can buy some food they like to eat. Mother-in-law has no time to work with her children, so she has no income**, and it is more convenient for mother-in-law to buy food for her children.