What kind of care does a widowed woman need most?

1.Take the initiative to care.

In a relationship, whether it is love or marriage, women are often the passive recipients, but in fact, you can also take the initiative and need to take the initiative, at least in marriage, you can and need to take the initiative to care for each other and take the initiative to express your love.

When I think of him, I will send a text message to say hello, and when he gets off work, send a**call**, even if it is only a few minutes and a few words, there is really nothing to say about a few small talks, so that he always understands that there is you at any time in life, and he is not alone in the struggle.

2.Spend more time with your family.

Although everyone is busy at work now, we can't ignore the gathering with our loved ones and family. In marriage, you should spend more time with your family, let your family feel the existence of love, take time to accompany your family when you are busy, and be able to bear it together when you encounter difficulties. Instead of disappointing your family.

No matter how busy you can be at work, you still have time to eat, sleep and rest, and don't use busyness as an excuse.

3.Communicate more.

Long-distance relationships. Why is the probability of breaking up high, while the distance produces beauty, it also makes many things impossible to communicate and solve perfectly, I want you to have a hug, you are not there, I want to see your face, feel your breath, you are not there. Communication is not limited to words, a movement, a look, all express deep love.

Communicating more can make the other person feel more secure.

Don't let the other party misunderstand yourself because of some unnecessary things that affect the feelings of both parties, and more communication can also deepen the feelings of both parties, so that both parties can become more and more affectionate, so that widowed marriage.

Eliminate! 4.Accept each other's shortcomings.

People live in the world and have the ability to love others. If we don't know how to love, how can we understand what it's like to be loved?

To have the ability to love others, we must first accept each other's shortcomings and tolerate each other's shortcomings. No one is perfect, and everyone will have more or less shortcomings. And these shortcomings can sometimes be the source of contradictions in our lives. Therefore, the attitude towards these shortcomings is particularly important.

The most important thing is to take care of her children more, her husband is not there, it will be difficult to take care of the children alone, help take care of the children more and distract him more, don't be alone often, such as shopping with her and so on.

A widowed woman is most afraid of loneliness, a widow will be idle in front of people or during the day, and when she is alone or alone at night, she will feel tired and heartache, and tears will come out of her eyes. Even if you know that crying can't solve the actual problem, your heart is still stubborn, and your tears have already surrendered, so you can only pretend to be strong.

Most divorced women have broken down their relationship with their ex-husbands, and there is no so-called affection with their original in-laws. Therefore, it is easier for a man to marry a divorced woman and enter the heart of a woman and start a new life.

And widowed women, let's not talk about "there are many rights and wrongs in front of the widow's door", because women are passive when they lose their marriage and men, so their feelings for their ex-husbands and ex-in-laws' families still exist.

When a woman still has a man living in her heart, she cannot see the good of another man.

A widowed woman chooses to remarry for the sake of life, at best, just to live, and it is difficult to really become a family with a man, with one heart.

When there is no conflict of interest, the life of improvisation can be passed, but as long as the interests of men and women conflict, the woman will stand against the man and defend her own interests and the interests of her children.

In fact, whether you are remarrying a divorced woman or a widowed woman, the most important thing in rebuilding a family is to build trust.

Without trust, everything is just floating clouds.

Remarried couples who want to be happy in marriage are inseparable from mutual understanding and tolerance, and even more inseparable from open and honest communication. Respect each other's past, seek common ground while reserving differences, and halfway couples can go further.

The person who told you this sentence is trying to influence you with his way of thinking, you have to have your own judgment, what is the difference between a widowed woman and an ordinary person? It's 9012, don't let feudal superstition ruin you.

Widowed women sometimes carry children, and it is not easy for a woman to raise a child, so she has to rely on the help of men at this time. She needs a man who can support her family, but at the same time she wants someone who can love her and give her care. Widowed women are actually very painful, they will be immersed in the grief and pain of losing their spouse every day, and if someone can give her care and attention, then she will remember it for a lifetime.

If you are a friend, it is okay to give her care, and in addition, you can help her appropriately.

Why can't a widowed woman have it, can she have it! Now many people probably still believe what the old man said, Kefu! Although it is unbelievable, some men are still afraid of this statement!

Nowadays, men in society are under too much pressure, and it is inevitable that there will be some accidents in the process of making money! But these have nothing to do with women! So when you meet a good woman, you can marry whether you are widowed or divorced.

In ancient times, it was believed that the widowed woman was kefu, so there would be a saying that it could not be wanted. Of course, this is superstition and cannot be believed.

The superstitious saying is that the "widowed woman" Doukov is generally larger, and the man is afraid of being killed, not because he can't ask for it, but because the timid man doesn't dare to ask for it. In fact, widowed women cherish their present lives even more.

In the eyes of the older generation, this is unlucky, maybe it will be a coward or something, or it will bring disaster to the family. The feng shui and fortune telling in people's mouths are unscientific, but they are very uncomfortable, and some masters are indeed accurate, so even if you don't believe it, you have to respect it.

These are all statements of the past, who can escape the things of birth, old age, sickness and death! It's just a matter of the other half going first! Those boring sayings that come are okay as long as two people are happy together!

Don't care what others say, who is the right person for your own life is the most important thing!

Who said you can't have it, now there are more men and fewer women, widowed women? As long as you are young, it is still very advantageous to find a partner, and many widowed women also fall in love with young men.

Widowed women are not particularly taboo, but don't pay New Year's greetings to their elders in a year, they are all worshiped before the year, and there is no visit to the door for a month, followed by the widowed woman in front of the door, don't talk to men, that is inherited from the old society, and now the new society is not so particular, women and widowed women also have to survive, and they have to work and live in society.

I don't think that's the right way to talk about it, as long as you have the same interests.

I can't agree with you, widowhood is not a woman's fault.

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It's just a conjecture on people's part.

Are you afraid of her Kefu? Superstition only.

It should be more superstitious, and those who think that widows will be more restrained spouses.

This kind of person feels that the divorce is only due to the discord between the two parties, or if one party has something beyond the bottom line of the other party. And I feel that widowhood is more unlucky, unacceptable at the psychological level, and there are some more superstitious ideas at work.

In fact, there is not much difference between divorce and widowhood in marriage law, and there should be no discrimination against widows. There are various reasons for the death of your spouse, and your living friends are not necessarily connected, which is completely a psychological problem, and it is the feudal superstitious mind that is at work.

I think this kind of person must be psychological, unwilling to find a widow, but only willing to find a divorced.

Compared with women who divorce due to the breakdown of their relationship, those marriages that end due to widowhood are more unfortunate, especially after widowhood, they have to endure more pain and stress than men. Almost all people hope that their married life can be happy and long, and they can grow old together with their loved ones and spend their lives together. Unfortunately, happy marriages are always very similar, while unhappy marriages are unhappy in their own way.

So a widowed woman, what is she photographing the most? Let me state a few of my views.

First, the obstacle to remarriage.

According to the superstitious saying of the ancients, a widowed woman, her numerology is very hard, Kefu, so the general timid man, who wants to accept a widowed woman, he is afraid that he will be killed, of course, this statement may be a kind of nonsense, but many people he would rather believe it, not believe it, in case this situation really works in his own body, then it is too late to regret it.

Two, children. We all know that children are the mother's heart, and every remarried woman has to think about the problem of the child first, and the object of choice must pass the child first, otherwise, everything can be exempted, so it is really not easy for a widowed woman to remarry. Of course, if there is fate, everything can still be discussed in the long run.

Third, the problem of the elderly and property.

Widowed women, may be more or less old and young, if you let it go at this time, you will have a disturbed conscience, if you can't let go, it is really a big burden, and there is a question about the inheritance left by the ex-husband, that is a hair and move the whole body, a little mishandled, may lead to burning, in short, widowed women really have many inconveniences.

To sum up, there are three major misfortunes in a person's life, the loss of a father at an early age, the widow in middle age, and the loss of a child in old age, which is the biggest misfortune in life, so a widowed woman, what is most afraid of, there is no exact answer to this, it varies from person to person, some people, she is like a bald head who can't be killed, and when she encounters difficulties, she will face the difficulties, so the future may be bright, but some people she can't withstand a little blow, so the situation is not optimistic.

A widowed woman is a widow, and there are many difficulties for widows, such as: it is inconvenient to have sex, it is easy to be talked about and seduce other men, and the strength work can only be done by herself......Wait, it's hard to put into words.

First, no one listens to you when you're depressed. Second, there is no one to help when there is something going on at home. Third, if you have too much contact with other men, you will let others poke your backbone.

If you support a family alone, and no one can discuss things, you will be very lonely.

The biggest difficulty is that there is no one to rely on, so there is no one to discuss at home, so you have to make your own decisions. It would be nice if I used to be more independent. Then there is the emotional can't accept it, no matter what the usual feelings are, at least you can talk, and now you don't even have someone to talk to relieve your loneliness.

There are also some gossips or something, and the city is better, but I am afraid of those women in the countryside who have nothing to do.

There is nothing wrong with these two best friends, what is wrong is that women who have experienced marriage and childbirth history remarry, and most or even all of their thoughts and energy in life are still on their children born in the last marriage. The responsibilities and obligations formed by the last marriage have become lifelong obligations and even the whole of life during the last marriage history, 90% of the thoughts of the woman who married a woman and went home are not on the step-husband, and the men who have the conditions to choose are of course unwilling to marry these women, which is very simple

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