What are the reasons why men are reluctant to marry a divorced woman with children?

A woman with a child will definitely have a certain connection with her ex-husband about the child, which some boys can't accept, and there will definitely be a conflict between the child or her previous relationship with her ex-husband or other factors, so men are reluctant to marry.

Because men have a particularly strong desire to possess and control, they are unwilling to raise other people's children, and they feel that this kind of behavior makes them particularly faceless, and they want to have a child of their own, and this kind of family will be particularly troublesome in the future.

I feel that I have no face, and I feel that there are a lot of troublesome things in the later stage, I don't want to raise other people's children, I want to have a child of my own, and men have a very strong desire to control.

The main reason is that after these people have children, their minds may not be on themselves, and the relationship with their children is not particularly good, and they are particularly prone to certain contradictions, and they also need to have particularly strong economic ability.

1.Do you like each other's children or not?

2.Can you accept the other person's past?

Because you yourself said that the other party is a divorced person, and the person with a child, so you have to think about these more, including some thoughts of your own family, sometimes although your thoughts are more important, but for this kind of thing, the thoughts of the family should also be properly listened to.

If all the problems are not problems, then it is easy to do, then there is only one left to think about for yourself.

Whether you can have real feelings between you is a very important thing, when two people are together, it is more important that each other can go into each other's hearts, and not think too much about some past things, if you can do this, then it will be fine.

What can't be done. You like that boy, and that woman is willing to give everything for that woman. Take a boy, what are you afraid of?

It is this boy who must be well cared for, and if he does not take good care of it, it will be counterproductive, and he is a son of evil. Therefore, family education is particularly important, if the education is good, it will be your heart in the future. If the education is not good, it will contradict you, or even destroy the family.

In fact, it depends on your feelings for this person, as well as how well you know the other person's character, and whether you can accept her child, or even treat him as your own child, these are all things you need to consider. And whether your parents approve of it, after all, marriage is not a trivial matter.

Question: Will there be a lot of trouble after marriage because of a few family trivialities?

That's for sure, after all, marriage is not love, it's a matter of two families.

You can marry. Because not all divorced women with boys are bad, there are also those women who are very good at living and thinking about small families.

Yes! As long as you like it, and don't dislike it, there's nothing you can't do, in fact, you don't need to think too much, if you have a good relationship and she can still have children, you can get married and have a child of your own!

I think it's perfectly possible to marry a woman who is now divorced and has a boy.

Whether you can marry or not depends on whether you really love each other. It doesn't have much to do with her divorce and having children.

Some people may think that a divorced woman with a son, a man marries her, and the burden will be very heavy. Or, it is no good to raise a son for someone else. In fact, otherwise, if you love someone, you naturally have to love the house and the black, if you look at people with colored glasses at the beginning, it is obviously difficult to achieve happiness.

Of course, happiness is built on a certain material basis. People who are so poor that they can't even support themselves, let alone women, are just talking on paper.

You feel that if the other person is a very good person, and the other person must have a certain impression of you, or feel that you are still a good person.

It depends on your own choice, as well as the opinion of your family, if you have no opinion, you can marry, if you have an opinion, you will probably be very difficult.

If two people truly love each other and have feelings for each other, they can marry a woman who is separated from each other with a boy.

Yes, as long as you are willing, no one can stop you, you are right.

Yes, but get vaccinated in advance, and you're going to give this boy a wife.

OK! The important thing is that she is really good to you and that she is able to honor her parents.

This kind of thing is as long as you like it, it's not someone else's business, and I'm really helping you look forward to it

Having a child alone is not a reason not to marry, marriage is based on feelings.

Would she like to have another one with you? Does she want you to teach the boy in your own way? Are you willing to think of it as your own? Can you bear the child's biological father to associate with him?

If you really like this woman, don't care if she is married or not.

It is said that divorced women with children cannot marry, why is this?

Yes, as long as you can pass the psychological level.

As long as both parties are willing, divorce and children can also be registered for marriage. Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, and it shall be forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it.

Marriage and family are protected by the State, and a marriage system of freedom of marriage, monogamy, and equality between men and women is practiced, and the legitimate rights and interests of women, minors, the elderly, and the disabled are protected.

If you are in love, nothing will be a problem.

It's not going to go well. This problem will occur, which shows that the other half is divorced and has children, so such a marriage will not go too smoothly. If you don't mind the other party's divorce at all, don't mind the other party with children, love each other very much, and think that it is not a big deal for a divorced woman with a baby, you will not ask this question at all.

Since you have asked this question, it means that it is a thorn in your heart, and it will become a very big obstacle to your future marriage, so such a marriage will not go well.

First of all, you will mind the other person's past. You are the first marriage, your wife is the second marriage, so you will mind his past very much, you will worry that he will compare you with his ex-husband, you will also worry about whether he really loves himself, and you will worry about what he will have to do with his ex-husband, his past is a time bomb for you, it will explode at any time, because you don't trust him enough, your past is blank, and his past is rich, and you are not sure that you will bring him a better life than his past life.

Secondly, you can't treat two children with a bowl of water. Suppose you have a child, you will take care of it from birth, so your biological child will definitely be closer to you, your stepson is not your biological son, and he will not be so easy for you, assuming that both children want to buy a house, then you will definitely prefer to give the money to your son to buy a house, rather than to your stepson, this is a very normal psychological state, and it is also human nature.

But for your wife, both children are his own flesh and blood, so he will mind even more when he sees that you can't treat the two children fairly, so your marriage may have conflicts because of this.

In the end, you will have a sense of self-defeating. You have never been married, your wife has been married, a second marriage is with a first marriage, you will think that you have suffered a loss, and you are still a man married to a second married woman, more or less will be sneered at by the people around you, so your psychology of suffering will continue for a long time, in your married life you feel that you have suffered a loss, you will want the other party to pay more, will hope that the other party loves you more, but marriage is not just a one-sided payment, so your wife has been paying for a long time, he will also be tired, Your marriage will also have all kinds of problems as a result.

It will go well, because in the face of real feelings or love, marriage history and emotional experience are not particularly important, the most important thing is the relationship and love between two people.

If this divorced woman with a baby is kind, hardworking and down-to-earth, then such a marriage will go well, after all, it will be happy if there is a good wife in the marriage.

Such a marriage should not go too well. Because after all, the conditions of the two are too different, so there may be some gaps after marriage.

Not really! I'd rather be a single for the rest of my life than marry! The first financial problem, if you are very rich, you can!

Huabei! Even if you give her flowers, she says you should! Second!

Kids Questions! You're going to have even more trouble! The child is at fault, if it is his own!

It's okay to hit or scold! It's not your own child, you can't beat or scold! It's not deep, it's not shallow!

In a dilemma! I'm still angry! When you meet a child who is sensible, you can save snacks!

If you are not sensible, no matter how much you pay, it will be in vain! So I advise you not to look for a child!

First of all, once you marry, it means that you still love this woman, and secondly, if you marry, it means that you still tolerate the children brought by this divorced woman, so this has nothing to do with whether he has children or not.

Yes, it mainly depends on how the two people get along. The main thing is that you can accept it in your own heart? My family introduced me to an object that didn't tell me I was married, but when I first met her, I heard her say that she was married. I was stunned.

It's okay, it is estimated that you can only find a divorced man, there are not many women who are not married and men who want to divorce and have children, everything is left to fate, fate is not in a hurry.

As long as true love loses any face? It doesn't matter what others say or think.

Of course you can, but reality will hit you again and again, depending on whether your life is good or not, not to mention a woman with no children, even a single dog will be hit by reality.

If you have no worries about food and clothing now and in the future, pursue her! If you need to work hard, just give up, youth is still immature!

There's nothing you can't accept, but you have to think about it, and if you think you can accept the following points and be prepared, then love.

1.Can you take it, child?

2.Will you have your own child in the future, and what are you going to do with this child?

3.Can your family accept a second marriage? What to do against you?

4.Does her family agree?

5.Can you accept the gossip around you?

If he hadn't been married, it would have been difficult for his parents to agree. Of course, it depends on his determination! If he is determined not to marry you, and his parents are helpless, then apply for a marriage certificate directly, and other things can be said.

Heck, I'm also looking forward to such a myth, then I will believe that there is true love in the world.

If this boy loves this woman very much, then he will marry this woman, because she wants to live in a family with this woman, so he will not dislike whether she has children or not.

Quite possibly; Because the other party's three views and conduct are very good, and they both love each other very much.

I think so; I think that if two people really love each other, they will not care if the other party is divorced or if they have children, and they will bravely go to each other.