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1. Understand the reasons and emotional needs of the father's behavior

Human behavior has a motive and a reason, why did your father behave in these ways? You can think about it and analyze it and make targeted solutions. My father had a cerebral thrombosis and said that he was no longer able to make money.

It can be seen that he has a strong sense of anxiety and fear about his physical health and aging, and feels that he is sick, old, and loses the ability to make money, and thus loses the value of life.

Therefore, it is understandable why your father's behavior is the way it is, the key lies in the negative cognition and negative emotions in his heart, in essence, he is asking the family for emotional and relational safety and comfort, and to meet his emotional needs. On the surface, his behavior is infuriating, but in reality he is also a pathetic person who expresses himself in his own way.

2. Give play to the role of children's emotional connection and alleviate parental conflicts

As a child, you are the natural emotional connection between your parents. Although children should not interfere too much in their parents' affairs, they can still play the role of children's emotional connection at critical moments of conflict and help parents ease conflicts and solve problems. Your father's willingness to go home with you and tell you about his worries shows that he has a great sense of trust and dependence on you.

In fact, he is also asking you for help, hoping that you can help solve the problem.

Then, you can play your part in helping parents to reconcile and defuse conflicts. The first is to stop blaming and questioning your father, empathize with him, express your understanding, understanding and concern for him, and dispel his worries about illness and inability to make money.

In addition to comforting the father, don't forget to comfort the mother, empathize with them, give them enough emotional satisfaction, and let them feel the care and support of their families. Then communicate with them separately to understand their inner emotions and needs, and use positive ways to help them convey and connect emotionally, strengthen mutual understanding, and eliminate misunderstandings and confrontations between the two.

3. Guide parents to reflect on their own problems and seek solutions together

You can take the initiative to arrange a suitable time and place for parents to meet and communicate, and solve problems together. You can act as a guide and reassuring person, guiding parents to reflect on their own problems and find solutions together. At the same time, you can also show them your stance and attitude, as well as the emotional support you can provide to them.

Let parents understand that no matter what, you as a child will care about and support them, but also hope that parents can clear up misunderstandings, create a good and harmonious atmosphere for this family, and let you feel the love of your parents.

Through emotional satisfaction, and knowing and moving with emotion, I believe that your parents can also calm down, think rationally about the problems of husband and wife and family, change their attitude towards each other, and start a harmonious family life again. Finally, you should pay attention to self-awareness, adjust some negative emotions in your own heart, and avoid suppressing and hurting yourself.

Find a way to prove to him that his mother is not good with others, and make his mother care for him more so that there will be no more quarrels.

I think at this time, I should let my father and mother communicate well, and don't always quarrel, because quarrels can't solve the problem.

I think it's better to ask your mother what she thinks, she must be uncomfortable in her heart, and she is slandered every day for trumped-up crimes.