Why would they rather find a divorced person than a widowed one?

They think that divorce is a personality incompatibility, and that a widow is someone who kills the other person. I'm afraid that I will be restrained, so I don't want to find a widow. In fact, this is all superstition, don't believe it.

As long as two people can respect and love each other and tolerate each other together, whether they are divorced or widowed, they are the most suitable for you.

Vary. Maybe there is prejudice against others being widows, thinking that people are unlucky people with bad luck, so they will look for divorced people.

may be because the divorce is originally due to emotional incompatibility, and then if you are together later, you may still be able to cultivate a relationship, but if you are widowed, you may really be living with you.

Hello, divorce may be a personality problem, and widowhood may be a problem of fate, which is the hard life in the proverb, Kefu's.

Because the divorced person has experienced setbacks and has no feelings for his ex, he is divorced, but the widowed may still have feelings for the former, but they can't love anymore.

If you find a divorce, you may feel that you will not be particularly uncomfortable, but if you find a widow, you may feel a gap in your heart, and you may not feel particularly lucky, so angry.

There is this saying, it is said to find a widowed Kefu, but in real life, whether it is divorced or widowed, there are married, as long as the three views are the same, they can develop.

This is not necessarily, it varies from person to person, some people like to be married in the morning, and some people like to find divorced. People who like to find divorce may think that widowhood is better than divorce, because widowhood is unlucky after all.

Fear of infectious diseases, if the deceased dies of illness, that is the source of infection, which will make people afraid, and some people have superstitious ideas, life is too hard to kill close people.

People want to find a divorced person, and they don't want to find a widowed person, because they are afraid of this person's life.

In fact, most widows are much better married than divorced.

Your notion is incorrect. No need to be superstitious.

Widowhood can be emotionally devastating.

In the old days, there was a saying called the dead widow living widow, which means dead widow and was afraid to find herself to die.

Because some people think that the widowed are the ones who are killed.

That's all superstition, and I'm afraid of finding a widowed Kefu.

It seems that people always have a sense of taboo about widowhood. Feeling like a widow brings bad luck to yourself.

No, you're not right. Looking at real life, divorced, widowed, and married abound.

If it were me, I would rather choose to be widowed than divorced!

Each of us wants to be the only one of our other half who wants to possess each other's entire life, but for these widowed people, we can't completely heal the pain in their hearts, so many people are reluctant to find such a other half, but also because they are afraid that they will be hurt, and the two will quarrel because of their deceased ex-husband or ex-wife.

Widowhood means that the person has some problems at the beginning, which is why this kind of widowhood or divorce is caused. So most people don't think about being widowed. Most widows may still have deep feelings, and basically you can't go to his heart, so why waste time?

Most people will have a bit of feudal thinking, the so-called "rather believe what it has, not believe what it doesn't", if it is widowed, there will be that personThe feeling of Kefu (or Ke Wife)., so most people mind that the marriage partner is widowed. Other than that, this is alsoUnlucky, it will be a bit unlucky. Of course, these are just psychological hints and superstitious thoughts.

If you can't marry a widow with a child, especially a first-born girl or a second-born child, this widow will, if she doesn't want to work, marry her daughter, and she will die and go to the child!

Because the marriage partner is a person who wants to live together for the rest of his life, he is extra cautious and minds being widowed because he thinksBad luck will bring bad luck to yourself, is also influenced by traditional thinking, everyone must want to find someone who has never been married! The above is a personal opinion, thank you!

As a woman, I think it's better to find a couple, if you choose to divorce.

1.If the other party has children, it is inevitable that they will have contact with their ex-wife, and if their relationship is normal, it will be nothing.

2.Look at what they left for. If the life of the ex-wife is not very good after the divorce, and the living conditions of the divorced man are better than before, and the ex-wife is a material woman, then you will be troubled There are many such people in reality, you think about it clearly.

I am a divorced woman, and the above situation is also what I have experienced, good luck.

Who said this? You try to find a divorce, the first time you leave, you have a second time, you are very rich, right, even if you are rich, you can't find a divorce, because the old saying goes:

If you have money, you don't buy land by the river, and if you have money, you don't marry a living man's wife.

It should be more superstitious, and those who think that widows will be more restrained spouses.

This kind of person feels that the divorce is only due to the discord between the two parties, or if one party has something beyond the bottom line of the other party. And I feel that widowhood is more unlucky, unacceptable at the psychological level, and there are some more superstitious ideas at work.

In fact, there is not much difference between divorce and widowhood in marriage law, and there should be no discrimination against widows. There are various reasons for the death of your spouse, and your living friends are not necessarily connected, which is completely a psychological problem, and it is the feudal superstitious mind that is at work.

I think this kind of person must be psychological, unwilling to find a widow, but only willing to find a divorced.

This question is absolutely too extreme. There are no absolutes in everything in the world. Each of us has different criteria for choosing a spouse in our hearts, and we all have our own criteria and requirements.

One. We say that widowhood and divorce are not good, then we don't see any widows. Divorced? The rest of what should be found has been found. It depends on what kind of result you want to achieve, what kind of living conditions you want to achieve, so this kind of conclusion is not absolute.

Two. The family conditions are superior, his own conditions are very good, the level is very high, the diploma is also very high, plus his career is very stable, if he is middle-aged and widowed, it is all in demand, who cares if she is widowed or divorced? Look at those rich stars, how many are divorced and widowed, aren't the rest found by others?

It depends on what kind of living environment you want to pursue, what kind of material conditions, and what kind of living standard you want to achieve?

Such a man is not doing a proper job, has no serious job, has no economic income, do you look for him? Hang a guy's name, you can eat it as a meal! So don't be too one-sided.

What kind of conditions? What kind of standard are you looking for? Pretty girl, admire tailor-made.

Or we will feel that our conditions are more superior, and the eldest girl wants to choose a better one, so you think that finding a divorced and widowed second marriage will make you feel faceless. Then it depends on the conditions of such a person, family background, assets and career, is it very stable? If the conditions are very good, don't you look for it?

What are people pursuing now, and who doesn't pursue better material conditions? Who doesn't want to struggle for a few less years can be blessed. Who wants to spend a day unkempt outside in the wind and rain to earn money to support their family?

So nothing is absolutely the same as my idea, so just adopt it!

Widowed people are most likely to compare the current with the deceased because they miss the deceased, but after all, there is no perfect person, and there are always some ways that the current is not as good as the deceased. It is easy to have psychological imbalance, so it is easy to complain about the current situation from time to time, causing conflicts between the two sides. To handle this kind of relationship well, the main thing is to trust each other and tolerate each other.

Treat each other tolerantly, and at the same time both parties understand more, after all, both of them have experienced pain, although the experience is different, as long as both parties treat each other sincerely, through a certain run-in, they can live well. Now people's opinions are different, in fact, people like their spouse who passed away saved a lot of trouble, and they didn't have to worry about her contact with her ex-husband or ex-wife when they got married. It can be said that such a marital state will be more secure.

Because two people will not have any selfish thoughts, let alone doubt each other, so this kind of marriage is also very good. It is good to choose widowhood, and most of the divorced people will not live a good life, because the first marriage cannot be managed well. There is no way for widows to live a good life, so that most of the remaining half can still live a good life.

My lover also left me first, I don't want to find one anymore, I want to find a widow who is also looking for me, every family needs to be managed with heart. Some people say that they are looking for a divorce, not a widowed person who remarries, because divorce is heartbreaking, and widowhood is missing. In fact, whether remarriage is happy or not is not necessarily a matter of rules and regulations, widows and divorces.

Marriage varies from person to person, depending on personality and quality, and for external reasons, even if personal experience accounts for a part, it may also excuse one's inferior behavior. For divorced and widowed people, the average marriage seeker, men are very mindful of widows, they say that widowed women are hard-working and hard-working, and they are more willing to marry divorced women. Ladies don't seem to care much about this, and under the same conditions, they are more inclined to widowed men, who they think avoids the messy relationship between their children and their ex-wives.

Of course, this is only the case in our small place, and it may not be representative.

It feels like these people are all very negative in their mindset. And it feels like living with these people can also become unhappy.

It may be because divorced people are very taboo about this, for fear of bringing bad luck to themselves.

It's because they're not sure if they'll be able to live happily ever after they're married.

Because they don't like widowed remarriages very much, probably looking for something young, beautiful and optimistic.

For widowed people, it is possible that they will not be able to forget their deceased partner, and when they do not belong to a new relationship, they will unconsciously compare the other party with their deceased partner.

Human life is fragile, everyone wants to bloom in a limited time to bloom infinite wonderful, in the process of getting along with each other, will also choose to put their most perfect side, leave in each other's hearts, if you encounter an emergency, it will also leave an indelible in the heart of the other party, affecting the management of intimate relationships, very testing of personal comprehensive quality, knowing each other is easy to stay together, if the other party leaves themselves due to accidents in a marriage, it will also leave an indelible impression in your heart, Stepping into a new relationship is naturally unforgettable.

Widowhood and divorce have different attitudes towards the previous stage.

For widowed people, whether they like each other or not, it is because their partner suddenly had an accident and had to interrupt the intimate relationship, which is a thing that is not prepared for anything, which naturally causes a huge blow to their spirit, and they may be immersed in the pain of losing their partner, and it is difficult to get out of the divorce for a long time, because they have lost hope in love, so they will choose to break up with each other.

It is better to find a divorced person than to find a widowed person.

Everyone has the right to decide the direction of their own life, if you want to have a perfect relationship in life, whether it is divorced or widowed, you can consider, if the conditions of both parties are equal, you should be divorced, because divorced people are more experienced, know how to cherish each other. I also know how to cherish a relationship, and I hope that everyone can establish a correct concept of mate selection in life.

What is my personal opinion?

I think there are 1000 Hamlets in 1000 people, everyone will have different views on different issues, there is no right or wrong for marriage, whether divorced or widowed, they have the right to re-enter the marriage hall, I hope everyone does not look at everyone around them with colored glasses.

It's because widows basically can't let go of their wives. So you can't get into his heart, you can only be an outsider.

This is because a divorced person shows that the relationship between two people is inappropriate, there is no other party in his heart, and the widowed person must still have each other in his heart, and there is no way to integrate into his life, and he feels that two people are unhappy together.

The reason why I say this is because for many people, they especially believe in some old sayings that widows are not good.

I don't want to divorce and just want to be widowed, which means that because the relationship between the husband and wife is not good, or the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, but if you choose to divorce, you have to divide the family property, or share the debts, as well as disputes such as child support between the elderly and children, so it will be more troublesome and the reputation is not good. And if you are widowed, all the above problems are solved, and the ultimate goal of solving marriage problems has been achieved, and you can still leave a good name. This is just my personal opinion, I don't know if I am right.