How to establish a relationship, what does it mean to determine a relationship, and what is a relati

Now your relationship is not good enough, it may be that she doesn't believe in you enough and doesn't want you to send her home. You should learn to be patient, be patient, and don't get angry, it may be that you are not good enough. Besides, a cheerful and lovely girl like her is generally a bit willful, speaks more directly, and doesn't know how to hide it.

So don't take it to heart, communicate with her often, and have a good relationship with her. Also, you should observe her carefully and fully understand her personality, personal hobbies, and life habits, so that you may be able to understand why she is the way she is.

It's like a wad of RMB in front of you, you pick it up and put it down, if you don't grasp it yourself, you can't do anything about it.

If it's just a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, the partner agrees, and if you get married, pay a deposit.

On what basis? In love? Tie the knot? Cute girls are likeable, but they can't help it! It's good to follow the feeling.

Defining a relationship means that the two of you are already boyfriend and girlfriend. The two of you can get to know each other, and you can see each other. This will determine the relationship between the two of you.

The relationship between the two of you is certain. You can ask him, what is the relationship between the two of you? He can tell you that, too.

This is your relationship. If the two of you haven't met yet, then the two of you are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, and you can go and meet him. Then you are sure of your relationship.

The two of you are boyfriend and girlfriend. This way you can meet and the two of you can be sure of the relationship. In this way, the relationship between the two of you can be determined.

If you haven't met yet, the two of you are friends. You can go to him, and then you can be sure of the relationship between the two of you, and the two of you are boyfriend and girlfriend.

1. Keep your distance and give both sides a little space for themselves.

Some people are tired of being together for a long time when they are in love, and they are together in everything they do, and after a long time, they will find a lot of shortcomings in each other. Suddenly, I found out how it was different from what I imagined, how could he have so many shortcomings, and then began to complain to each other.

Love is like a grain of sand, if you hold on tightly, you will lose more, and in the end you will have nothing. You might as well change your mind and leave some distance for the other party, and the effect may be better.

Second, when there are contradictions, do not have a long-term cold war.

It is normal to have conflicts when you are in love, both parties are in a run-in period, and conflicts often occur, but you must be careful not to enter a long-term cold war. There is no right or wrong in emotional matters, and if both parties really love each other, they will not fight because of a little thing. The long-term Cold War is an ordeal for both sides, and if it is not handled well, the relationship may end here.

At this time, girls should insist, boys should be a little bigger-bellied, if the boys who fall in love do not take the initiative to break the cold war, and have not taken the initiative to solve the problem, it means that the love is not deep, not generous, cautious, not tolerant of girls, if this is the case, forget it, drag it is harmful to both parties, harm yourself, and harm others.

Love without spiritual communication is empty, if there is always nothing to say to each other, you can't enhance mutual understanding, let alone enhance feelings, and many conflicts arise here. If you don't communicate, how will the other party know what you think? Don't think about understanding you, you don't need to say, the tacit understanding of the heart is accumulated over time.

Therefore, if you want to better understand a person and better maintain the relationship between two people, communication is really necessary. Something is said, and if there is any contradiction, it will be opened.

Sometimes silence is golden, sometimes silence is a knife, love without communication is an increasingly obvious false connivance of the other party, or a kind of indifferent indifference! In fact, many of these are very hurtful! Sometimes the other person wants more than just a compliment from the lover!

It's almost nervous care! What you have to do is to communicate and exchange more, so that you can solve the problem and maintain a good relationship between the two sides.

Falling in love is not a person's business, it involves the feelings of two people, for two people who have just confirmed their relationship, how to communicate correctly is very important, so how should two people interact after confirming the relationship?

The first point: the sense of ritual in love.

Boyfriends and girlfriends who have just confirmed their relationship can do something more ritualistic to deepen their bond with each other.

Like doing something at a fixed time. Some common behaviors usually include opening a couple's space, saying good night and good morning every day, and calling each other a ** every day, not too long, five minutes and ten minutes. Of course, you can also kiss each other's foreheads every time they meet, hug each other before parting, and so on.

The second point: the sense of complicity in love.

It's a great idea to give each other a unique nickname and to come up with a unique name that only the two of you know.

Such a corresponding title can be "big guy, small guy", or it can be a joke "big pig's trotters, small pig's trotters..."These nicknames may seem insignificant, but they are a good lubricant and bond for both parties, which will give the two people a sense of complicity with each other.

The third point: the sense of dependence in love.

The key to cultivating a sense of interdependence is to share each other's feelings. If you encounter any fun and funny things in life, you can share them with each other.

After confirming the relationship, we must maintain a certain amount of mutual contact, and we may call ** every day, send WeChat, and if we are close, we may want to meet often, have a meal together, watch a movie, and chat! As a girl, you may want your boyfriend to accompany you shopping.

But we also said that distance produces beauty, if two people are tired of being together every day, there may be friction and misunderstanding, or there will be more contradictions, which is not conducive to the further development and getting along with two people, so in addition to the necessary daily ** or information exchange, I think we should also keep a certain distance, well, when getting along, you should ask, you should ask, you shouldn't ask, especially some, well, what did you do with whom today? Or why I can't contact you when I call you, some small details like this, don't pursue it too much, this may make the other party feel that you let him have no space for himself, and he will feel that this relationship will make each other feel very tired, so I think that when it is time to be intimate, there should be a corresponding appropriate distance, so that the relationship between two people can be kept fresh in real time, and this relationship can be longer.

Ha, you're too naïve, you have a boyfriend and go to the hotel with your ex-boyfriend, so this woman doesn't take you seriously, this can't be changed, it's better to break it up as soon as possible.

This girl is a bit of a problem in itself, and she can't use him as a spare tire like this.

"Spare tire", the original meaning refers to the car to prepare a spare tire, once the wheel puncture or problem, the spare tire is convenient and timely to replace, the car will not break down halfway. "Emotional spare tire" is to give yourself one or more backups in the fate of your feelings like a tire. "Emotional spare tire" generally refers to love, and there are also friendships, such as dinner spare tire, wine spare tire, squad leader spare tire, etc.

There is a kind of man in the world, knowing that it is impossible to be with her, knowing that she does not love herself, but still blindly treats her well, and the woman is willing to accept it, we call it "male spare tire". If only the man is wishful thinking, but the woman has clearly rejected him, and has not listed him as a candidate, nor does he use the man's feelings to help him do things, then this kind of boy cannot be called a spare tire.

The spare tire generally holds the mentality of "waiting", guarding his own wishful thinking, and waiting for the other party's change of mind. I understand that there is no chance at this stage, but I hope that she will know her good in the near future, and finally "a lover will eventually become a family". The spare tire never tires of its duties, and strives to play its functions such as filling in the time gap of the time gap, the porter, and the pipe receiver.

The spare tire fulfills all the obligations that a boyfriend should do, and even more and more. Uninformed people will think that the spare tire is her boyfriend, but when asked, she will be surprised and say that she and the spare tire are just "good friends". The others will soon wake up to the fact that the spare tire is actually just a spare tire, and of course, when the girl draws the line in a straight way, she will not pay attention to how uneasy and embarrassed the spare tire standing next to her is.

If the relationship starts quickly, it means that you and she are attracted by the characteristics of the other party at a certain moment or the appearance and temperament of the other person, and hurriedly and unreservedly show their likes and loves.

As soon as the emotional love period is over, a series of problems such as contradictions and value gaps, personality gaps, and consumption views caused by insufficient understanding between the two parties will erupt in this period, and over time they will inevitably move towards separation.

At this time, you will say that some people just grow old from the beginning, and most of this situation is that two people grind each other and slowly become suitable for each other, which is a compromise of themselves and feelings. And the other type is that he happened to be so lucky, and he happened to meet the most suitable one among thousands of people, everything is so perfectly matched, but how much is this luck.

We can only wander for half a lifetime, constantly searching to find a relationship that will last a lifetime.

We are all independent angular individuals, and it is because of these edges and corners that the world is so varied and interesting, we can keep our shape, or we can grind them away for the sake of those we love.

Whether a relationship can last depends mainly on whether the three elements are present at the same time. One is to fall in love, the second is to be suitable, and the third is that the fate is deep enough.

If all three of the above aspects are met at the same time, then the relationship will last long, regardless of whether the relationship is fast or slow.

On the contrary, the root cause of a long-lasting relationship must be due to the unsatisfactory of one or more of the above-mentioned elements.

It's not because the relationship is determined too quickly.

Of course, more often than not, we do recommend trying not to settle on a relationship too quickly. It is necessary to meet more often, contact, understand, compare, and carefully evaluate whether both parties are suitable. After comprehensive consideration, the relationship is decided.

This is a more scientific approach.

However, determining whether a relationship is fast or slow is still only one of the many factors that affect whether a relationship lasts, and its impact is negligible, and it is by no means the decisive factor.

You don't have to be afraid of who you will miss out on because of it.

When a person is very anxious to confirm the relationship with you, let you acknowledge him, identify him, fall in love with him, or even marry him, you don't have to be afraid that if you don't agree, you will miss him forever.

A person who really likes you, he will not leave you just because you are a little slower.

When he really likes you, or even identifies you, he will only respect you very much, be willing to take your time with you, and then use his practical actions to let you see his sincerity, and finally really get your heart.

And a person who will only tell you that if you don't agree, then he will leave, he may not like you so much, and even say that he may not like you at all, he wants to solve the problem quickly, but he just has ulterior motives.

For a person like Limb Bridge, even if he really loses it, there is no pity, anyway, he can't give you a good relationship.

For any person, getting married is the most important thing in their life, and they must find the most suitable person for themselves to marry in order to achieve true happiness. ......Therefore, before we finalize the relationship, it is important to consider the issues seriously and holistically. ......Specifically, before confirming the relationship, it is necessary to achieve rational analysis to avoid emotion, comprehensive investigation to avoid misjudgment, and pay attention to character and careful choice.

1. Rational analysis and avoiding emotion are the most important prerequisites for determining the relationship.

For people who are in a relationship, it is important to be rational and avoid emotions before finalizing the relationship. ......Some people are carried away by love when they are in love, lose their minds, make wrong choices, and finally make themselves fall in love with the wrong object, leaving lifelong regrets. ......Therefore, even during the period of love, you can't lose your mind, let alone be emotional, so that you can make a rational analysis based on the specific situation and draw the right conclusion, so as to determine the relationship with the lover who is really suitable for you.

2. The key point that must be done before determining the relationship is to conduct a comprehensive investigation and avoid misjudgment.

Before confirming the relationship between Ling and Liding, he must fully examine his lover. ......In the process of interacting with each other, you should conduct a comprehensive investigation of each other's words and deeds, and have an in-depth understanding of each other's specific situation, so that you can have a comprehensive and in-depth understanding of each other's personal situation and clarify whether the other party is really suitable for you, so as to avoid misjudgment and find the person who is really suitable for you. This is a key factor in determining a romantic relationship, and only by doing so can you ensure that you find true love.

3. Pay attention to character and choose carefully, which is the fundamental guarantee for determining the relationship with the most suitable lover.

Whether the other party is the most suitable person for you, the most important criterion is to look at the other party's personal state. ......Specifically, the character of the other party is the most important factor in determining whether the other person is suitable for you. If the person you choose is a person of noble character, then the decision you make late will definitely not be wrong.

Therefore, before determining the relationship, you must pay attention to the character of the other party and make choices with your heart, so that you can find a noble character, sincere and kind soulmate, and your life after marriage can be happy. Therefore, paying attention to character and choosing carefully is the fundamental guarantee for determining the relationship with the most suitable person for yourself. Only in this way can you find true love and get the sweet love of Xingwang Qifu.