After more than 8 months of marriage, I felt that my wife was boring, and I found that it was differ

You will be jealous, which means that you still like your wife in your heart; It is also normal to find shortcomings when you get married, because two people spend more time together and less space, and many problems that are not found before marriage will be exposed little by little. The important thing is how to adjust your mentality, so that you can be more tolerant and mature in the face of all this. I think you should first work in a positive direction, and take the initiative to communicate with your wife when she doesn't understand you, instead of avoiding other women, so that the situation will only get worse and worse.

Marriage is not about falling in love, if you are happy, you will talk about it if you are unhappy, you will be divided if you are unhappy, marriage is responsible, since you choose to take this step, you have the responsibility to maintain your marriage. Otherwise, even if another person gets married, he will still face the same problem!

Dude, don't be too selfish, you shout that she doesn't understand your mood, how much do you know her mood?

Now that you have come together, it is destined fate, and you must know how to cherish it.

Everybody has their faults, and when you don't have them, you accept them as advantages, but when you get married, it's different, and then you compare her with others, and then you often compare her shortcomings with other people's strengths, and of course it's wrong everywhere.

Everyone has shortcomings and advantages, you have to try to learn to expose your wife's strengths, appreciate her shortcomings, no one is perfect, you are not a perfect person, you are jealous when you see your wife talking to other men, it means that you still like your wife very much, so you will be jealous. To understand a person is not something that can be understood in a few months, couples have to spend a lifetime to understand, don't just say things like finding other women, take a wrong step, take a wrong step.

Feelings also need to be carefully cared for by two people.

If you're not happy together, divorce and go find the happiness you want.

Look at everyone.

Don't regret your choice!

Before you get married, it's a matter of the two of you, and after you get married, it's a matter of two families, how can it be the same, from a girl to a yellow-faced woman after marriage, it's normal to be different.

Because I don't have to do laundry and cook every day before I get married, I won't be in a bad mood every day, and after I get married, I will change every day around the pots and pans.

Because you don't have to be careful after you get married, you won't be afraid of breaking up after you get married, now that you have become your wife, your heart will definitely change.

Because marriage will change a person, maybe your wife was more reserved before marriage, and after marriage, she will return to her own nature.

Because after two people get married, their mentality will change, the things they consider will be different, and some things don't need to be too taboo, so they will be different from before marriage.

Because before getting married, she felt that she would be different, she would pay more attention to herself, and she would also pay more attention to you, but after getting married, she might have some disappointments.

The wife is not the same as before marriage, maybe it is your own subjective thoughts, or it may be because there are more family things, and the wife's character has been honed, in short, learn to be considerate and not complain.

Because after getting married, the mentality will change everything, the things encountered will be different, and the perspective of consideration will be different, after all, there will be children in the future.

Because it's already your wife, it's impossible to be like when you're in love, and many things have changed after marriage, so your wife is not your girlfriend anymore.